What would you consider premature ejaculation? How did you feel about it? How did you handle the situation?

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I've had guys that had premature ejaculation, it was never an issue. I want to know how others feel?

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I can only recall a couple of issues of premature ejaculation both of which were handled with a bit of chuckling by me, embarrassment by him for a minute then laughter by both of us with some hugging, kissing and eventually giving it a second try which in both cases worked out fine.
First guy was his first time with a white girl and we both were very aggressive with the foreplay and as I slowly laid back legs wide open guiding his manhood too it's primary target BOOM it went off pretty much all over my pussy.
Second guy was also first time with white girl and he popped just as he entered my pussylips.

lovephotography · Accepted Answer

I've had plenty of guys cum too quick. It's not a big deal. I take it as a compliment that I felt too good. The only thing that would make me mad is if he tried to cum quick and didn't put any effort into my pleasure.

banana75 · Accepted Answer

girl i was making with at a party unzip my pants and i was horny AF that night. she started stroking my cock and all of a sudden she spit on my cock which gave it a little warm and lubricant. the kicker was it felt too good and it's hard for me to explain it now, but i didn't want her to stop but at the same time if i don't i knew i was going to explode. i guess it just got to a point where i had to tell her 'Ok... S T O P!' and she just did 1 stroke too many , follow by me screaming 'Too late.. ahh, keep going'

she loved my reaction and had a good laugh at it after. fun times

Baseballbarry · Accepted Answer

Happens to me a lot of the time to this day, I don't feel great about it tbh as its never fun. I would catagorize it as orgasming before a few minutes of sex had passed although in my case can be much quicker

LisaLisa89 · Answer

It's not a problem I worry about at all. When I was first with my boyfriend he would have an orgasm really quickly, like only a few seconds. Second time round was longer though.
Now he stays inside me for much longer before he orgasms, although sometimes it's still on the quick side. But it's never an issue because we both enjoy it so much.

maceygirl · Answer

I have found that all guys cum fast on their first load, so I don't even know what to consider 'premature' anymore. As long as he can go for round 2, I don't care.

drsatan · Answer

It's never premature for the guy! 😂

It's not a problem I've ever had, I'm more on the opposite end of the spectrum and have a problem of getting bored or frustrated trying to get to orgasm and will often just give up!

wingattebaby16 · Answer

When we barely get started and haven't even got close to him putting it inside,& he shoots all over me.

Also just touching him and he ejacs.

As as long as he can stay or get hard again fast, it is not a problem.

I solved it by buying him a "numbing" cream that reduces sensitivity so he has to work harder to get THERE.

He could last 1-2 mins max after the cream, took him. 5-10 mins to ejac.

Just know your man and cater to his needs.

Red_Arrow · Answer

If I was enjoying a blow job from you, and I came in less than 10 minutes, I would not get nearly as much enjoyment as I would like! That would be premature ejaculation. 😘

andreasucks · Answer

I'd take it as a compliment and make him hard again. I like the guy to think about his pleasure and not feel ashamed

Mystery1900 · Answer

I consider premature ejaculation to be less than a couple of minutes of intercourse. I usually cum in less than a minute. I feel embarrassed about it, it puts me off having sex because I think the woman will laugh at me and be unsatisfied. I don't have a lot of sex so when I do have it I'm so excited I can't stop myself cumming quickly.

I compensate by giving the woman lots of oral sex during foreplay, and give her an orgasm that way. Or I rub her clit with my hard penis until she cums. I like to give the woman an orgasm like that first, before I put my penis in.

Sometimes if I concentrate during intercourse I can hold myself still inside her and rub her clit with my hand until she comes. But she likes me to thrust as I do this, but it is when I thrust that I come too quickly, so it's disappointing for me not to be able to satisfy her that way.

mar_B · Answer

I was with a guy once who came in 2 or 3 minutes. He was nice about it, he appologised but I told him it was ok, and that he should't worry about it. Then we cuddled until we fell asleep.

TadCurious · Answer

I used to really struggle with PE when I was younger. It's frustrating for both partners and embarrassing for the guy. But it was the patience and understanding of 2 previous girlfriends that really helped me to overcome it. There are certain things you can do with a cooperative partner to achieve better control, and with time and practice it got a lot better.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I was on medication called "Mellaril" forget that medicine
it's horrible and causes ejaculation failure. I took myself off
that medicine not worth it. When i'm jacking off i like that
intense orgasm as i blow my load in the toilet really amazing

GreyWolf9000 · Answer

Of course... Sometimes the women gives so much pleasure guys can't control it... On the other hand it's a problem for some guys... But they try to hide it by saying '' you are awesome i couldn't control ''..

Nik1hil · Answer

Don't you dare blame guys for pre mature ejaculation!.. Your boobies are at fault..

Nikki1989 · Answer

Anything under 3 minutes seems premature to me.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Premature as in they came before even entering? Never has happened to me...

ZeussLightningBolt · Answer

Anything under 40 seconds And anything that makes you cum before insertion.

October808 · Answer

You cut a hole in the pizza box and jizz before reaching the door. Or.

CaptainLegal · Answer

Cuming very fast. Some guys cum before they stick it in the pussy, some cum after a few minutes or seconds. Thank God I don't have this problem.

HeyMikie · Answer

Story of my life when I was younger and I can still cum very quickly if I'm really turned on. But I can always go for a second round. I normally spend a lot of time playing with my lover using my hands and tongue before we get to intercourse, so it has never been a big deal. At least with the partners I have had.

LeoElias · Answer

I probably did when I first started having sex and it was all new to me. But I can't remember anything definite... I am pretty sure I felt embarrassed and probably needed 30 minutes to get things going again

Juxtapose · Answer

When you orgasm before you satisfy the woman/whatever. It doesn't happen very often for me luckily but when it does, it's no big deal. I have my fingers and mouth to get her off with.

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