
How would you feel if your partner/future partner stares at someone else in a sexual way and could have sexual thoughts about them in that moment?


- Hurt. Id feel really hurt. Unfortunately, I was that person. I was in a marriage for 17 years and I'd look at and flirt with other women all the time. It took me going through some things to realize I never truly loved my wife completely. Eventually when I met the love of my life she was all I thought about. There was no room nor desire in my head for other women 🤣😂1|00|0Is this still revelant?
- That's so natural. It depends upon the body physique and structure. But I m mostly attracted towards girls beautiful feet and hands. I love girls who clean their feet and hands and maintain them properly. I appreciate that. Vase v gand ch rehna chngi gl nai. Lol 😅1|00|0Is this still revelant?
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- Would start a fight and just be plain hurt. Ok I get it, people aren't blind. They do notice other people especially ones that are attractive. But I wouldn't wanna be with someone who doesn't have enough self control to not stare, cuz that's so disrespectful to be honest.3|00|0Is this still revelant?
Oh my gosh!, Finally some who gets that!. It is disrespectful like they lack self-control, an has a wondering eye!. An I just feel like when a guy does that.. they are fully Attracted to there girl like physically and sexually all the way!, If they feel the need to do that!.
- Personally I would be up set, an it shows that the guy lacks self control... I don't like that.1|00|1Is this still revelant?
@bubbaden96 of course a guy would say that, obviously you never been truly in love with a girl.
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538- I would not care as long as its just looking. There is nothing wrong with it in my opinion. I’m not bisexual but I can appreciate a good looking person wether its a man or a woman. If I can look then so can he.1|20|0
I like that answer and I also feel the same. Also I think that men who get mad at another man if he sees him looking at his girl. Especially if the girl has on something that's a little revealing like a bikini or something like that. 1st of all if they didn't want someone seeing your girlfriend a** cheek or whatever don't bring her out in public In something that's sexy. And 2nd of all if a dude is only looking and admiring my girl and not trying to touch then I take that as a compliment cause I know then she beautiful n sexy n everybody knows it and she is all mine so they can look all they want cause I get to touch lol
- How can you say definitely that one's partner has sexual thoughts about someone?1|10|0
Most of the guys fantasize sex with other girls despite the fact that their partners have memorable sex ability.
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Certainly a woman can't tolerate that her partner fantasize (if not talk about other woman) body, sexy look, beauty , even dress. I get jealous, however, console myself that it is male nature.
@modeve I get jealous too, an think if a guy is talking about how another girl looks to his girlfriend, then I think he's not fully Attracted to her.. an he has a wondering eye.
- I wouldn't care cuz they are coming home with me so that is all that matters 😝3|40|0
@PetrovaFire92 its whatever I'm a great person so it's their loss if they want to cheat
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- it is okay for an actress or actor , but if someone in person & you know him then it would make me insecure , curious , the only next thing i would start doing is trying hard to impress her & getting all her attention towards me...2|00|0
- I guarantee you EVERY GUY does this. It's the way their brain is wired. Get over yourself.2|00|0
How would you feel if your partner was looks at another person infront of you and could potentially have sexual thoughts about them?
First of all, guys simply don't have all those feelings and emotions like you do.
Second, EVERYBODY has looks and sexual thoughts, fantasies, call them whatever you want. As mature adults we get to CHOOSE what we act on.
If your guy is looking at another woman and you don't like it, just tell him. Deal with the specifics, not the generalities. For example, my wife points out the really pretty ones. She says she doesn't care where I get my appetite as long as I come home to eat. :)
- Lol she's on the phone. I saw a meme that read, "Girl, Ima have to call you back!"2|00|0
- Do you think they would be thinking about having sex with them?1|00|0
If I had a partner that I liked, and turned my head towards another girl, it would be rather curiosity.
It would be surprised about her being good looking, but it still would be different than wanting or fantasizing about having sex with her.
To me it never happened I was fantasizing about two different people at once, even when I had multiple good options. I don't have that amount of attention to spread across the board.@es20490446e I think if you turn your head to look at another girl you never liked your partner in the first place, if you were truly into them like that sexually/physically there would be no to even look at any one else. In my opinion, if I find my guy Attractive in all aspects I definitely wouldn't be looking at other people (guys). I feel like people who do that have a wandering eye. 👀... like can that person really be trusted then?, Ya know? that's just my two cents on it.
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- I would feel like they are considering cheating on me and I wouldn’t be too pleased about it2|00|0
- I think I'd feel a little jealous, a little insecure, like I'm not good enough. But, I mean, if the dude she's checking out is really good looking I might even take a few peeks myself. 🤣2|10|0
I would be jealous too an I think that is rude to be honest, cause they they were really Attracted to there partner in a sexual/physical way they wouldn't be doing that. Ya know... like they have a wandering eye..👀 or something... An that doesn't really sound good.
- It would bother me but not to the extent that I'd be worried about my relationship. She's got her freedom of though and of the day, she's holding my hand.2|00|0
- No problem. Looking, fantasizing, even flirting to a certain extent are fine by me.1|00|0
- i think the more insecure you are the more it will bother you. but it may also be an indication of maturity on you partners behalf. it’s is disrespectful after a certain point1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moIt could lead to cheating what's that to say when you aren't around. They shouldn't be doing that or me..2|00|0
Yeah, it's like they have a wondering eye 👀.. Anni would get tried of them doing that. It's like my partner isn't physically or sexually Attracted to me when. They do that. An this happened to me before an the guy cheated.
- It's natural so all good - and also done by me without thought so why wouldn't she too :)1|00|0
- Can't really help it. She is human. It will happen. As long as she doesn't act on them I'm ok with it.1|00|0
- Unless she’s going up to flirt with him, I don’t think u can be that mad at a girl’s instinct to glance at an attractive guy 🤷♂️1|00|0
- That's gonna happen on both sides whether you notice it or not.1|00|0
- I don’t see it as a problem if all they are doing is looking1|10|0
- Not to happy so how would they feel samd if they really care for you1|00|0
- As long are they don’t physically stray I wouldn’t care...1|00|0
- As long as they are only thoughts, and she doesn't act on them then it doesn't matter in my opinion1|00|0
- I would be super excited and fuck even harder. And don't mind rather ask what got her Horny1|00|0
- I'd love it tbh, I'd even let her flirt with them too I think it's so hot1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moNothing wrong with looking at attractive people. Works both ways2|00|0
- Anonymous4 moI'd guilt her about it till she let me stick it in her ass1|00|0
- Those black girls like that white dick.1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moI'd ask her to demonstrate on me what she was thinking about.1|00|0
- Not thrilled but it's human nature1|00|0
- It wouldn't bother me unless they cheated..2|10|0
- Nothing I so same with others. Lol1|00|0
- id be curious about what she thought, never mad.1|00|0
- It means that you are free even to do this same1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moWow! She would be horny and I could use that.1|00|0
- Anonymous11 moI will run away from there1|00|0
- Very betrayed,3|00|0
Yeah, an I would be mad, cause it's like he doesn't find me sexually physically... if his eyes are wondering else where.
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