What's The Line Between Being A Woman Who's Sexually Expressive In A Healthy Way Compared To One That's Not?

Wanted to know what the line was when it comes to a woman being seen as sexually expressive in a healthy way compared to one that's too promiscuous?
Whats The Line Between Being A Woman Whos Sexually Expressive In A Healthy Way Compared To One Thats Not?
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  • I would think that the line is all about respecting others right to not know, social context, and that sort of thing. Expressing sexuality in a healthy way is wearing a tight dress that shows off your tits when you're on a date or having a girls' night out to a club. Expressing it in an unhealthy way is talking about sucking your boyfriend off while you're waiting in line at Starbucks for your morning fix. Even with sex bloggers. I don't care if I've intentionally clicked on your website, I don't really want the super graphic raw details of getting penetrated at the last orgy you hosted.

    It seems like there's no in between with women; they're either in-your-face sex positive, or they have a fear of being seen as a sexual human being.

    • So fucking true

  • She is upfront about any things that turn her on or turn her off. I've dated women who could come just from nipple play. Many who were capable of multiple orgasms. I love how a woman's body responds to getting hot. The sexual flush on her neck and face, the rigidity of her nipples, her response to feathery touches all over her body, slightly parted lips. OMG her slippery wetness makes me weak in the knees, her back arching toward my face, her pelvic thrusts and body contortions when she comes and if I continue and she likes it instead of becoming over sensitized, the way each successive orgasms come so quickly, get more intense until she finally stops telling me she can't get her legs to stop trembling.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That differs from person to person. Everyone has their own standards of what’s within boundaries and what’s too out there. A woman wearing a knee long skirt can be seen as promiscuous in some cultures and as a nun in others.
    Promiscuity isn’t a flaw anyway unless you do it unsafely, putting yourself or others in danger, or doing it to make up for a lack of something else - love, nurturing etc

  • to me, the chick in the picture is very sexually expressive.

    The nose ring, big earrings, tattoos, and lots of cleavage to show of her big boobs says to me she is ready to go and likes sex.

    I have found most girls that have tattoos and piercings are heavily into sex, usually in a kinky way or just very aggressive.

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  • I don't know how to describe it. I feel like it varies from woman to woman depending on her personality and looks.

  • Its not a firm line. And it's not about her actions, or words, or clothes, or how many partners she's had. It's about WHY she does it. I firmly believe in consentually expressing yourself sexually in whatever way makes you feel best. But some women feel forced to express themselves sexually in ways they really do not want to in order to keep up or gain affection, and I feel that it shows.
    And of COURSE, anyone violating the consent of those around them has CROSSED a line.

  • When it’s behind closed doors and with her partner she can do whatever she wants!
    When someone is promiscuous in public is not healthy and just a desperate need to be loved and thinks that to be overtly sexual is appealing!
    Remember it’s the quiet ones you need to watch!

  • Same thing as the difference between being an idiot, and just enjoying yourself. There is no magic number of dicks that is too many to have. But one wrong dick can ruin your life.

    • 😂😂💖

    • How a dick can ruin her life?😂 lol that is one marvel dick

    • @Meropatrick Well, someone clearly missed the point.

  • well there one simple way to tell between the two if there expressive it will just be one partner and it will be awesome seeing how its her giving the guy her best, the other is there is a literal line at her room with a golden arch over her bed with the sign over 1 billion served...

  • It's not healthy when she starts hurting me without consent for her own thrill and the sex becomes all about her.

  • Ok: having sex because you want to, with people who also want to, for no other reason than wanting to. This will often not be a weekly thing in my opinion.

    Not ok: having sex as an outlet, because you feel bad about yourself, miss an ex, feel lonely, etc. This will often be a weekly thing in my opinion.

    • I more or less agree, but why the "weekly" part?

    • @Vencam I agree. I agree but the weekly thing through me off.

    • @Vencam in my experience, people (especially women) that have sex with someone weekly fall into the not ok category. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying anyone shouldn’t be having sex weekly or even daily lol. But I am saying that generally, if you’re having sex with someone that isn’t your partner, in a healthy way, it will generally not be a weekly occurance. People have a lot of shit to do. Only way you’re having weekly sex is if you’re having sex with someone else every weekend and probably going out clubbing too, which generally goes together with substance abuse and generally bad shit.

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  • There is no line for me. Most sexual stuff has it's place.
    If a person is okay with showing her body off to get views they will be people who view it, so it is equally okay for both.
    If a person wants to have sex with a lot of people, that's a lot of people who want to have to sex with them.
    it kinda all works out.

    And i would never really be a judge and defo won't just call someone a whore just cause they look attractive or have sex with many or whatever it it is.
    i base it on there personailty. So on a photo like that i cannot tell personailty and would just say that's just a hot girl.
    and not make a deal out of what she is wearing.

    I think everything can be sexually healthy.

  • I'd say it's in keeping your sexuality reserved where you aren't necessary going to be doing sexual stuff. Think of Dita Von Teese. She does burlesque, basically fancy stripping. You can even find her sextspes online, and let's just say she is very sexually expressive. Yet, she seems to be carrying herself in a tasteful manner. She strips on stage but is never scantily clad on interviews and other events.

  • A possessive territorial woman that expresses direct sexual desire by any means really ranging from hints to grabbing to just getting it on is very healthy.

    A woman that has a random quickie e. g. because maybe her friends dared her or she is pissed at her boyfriend is not healthy and is promiscuous.

  • Expressing Sexuality is for one who are confident no matter what sex a person belongs to. I guess that's the line. Being confident. As you have mentioned it in a healthy way then there is no point of showing desparation

  • As long as she is not hurting anyone in the process including herself. Then its fine. And i guess women should try to be more sexually confident. This affects a person’s life on all levels

  • i guess that's higly subjective so i would just try to be ok with what i do. it's ok to have people disagree with that.

  • Those with high body counts or seeking benefits whether deliberately or incidentally.

  • Same as for men.
    When you constantly feel the need for sexual activity in order to get a sense of accomplishment, validation, happiness or satisfaction, then that is when it becomes a problem.

  • I believe it's how they care and carry themselves , especially in public! Miss sensual with a wild side knows when and where to Express herself and Generally takes very good care of herself and loose lips... well , the opposite!

  • not being a tease

  • Healthy:
    When a girl is open about sexual things BUT doesn't make herself look sexually available or easy, as long as she's chill about it and doesn't see sex as a godly thing that she needs.

    Unhealthy:
    When a woman constantly shows sexual flirty signs with many people, sleeps with many people, can't control herself or her urges and doesn't value her body at all, sex for her becomes like a hobby or an addiction to the point it loses its value.

  • A woman should be happy with there sexually and be confident

    • Honey you know what you like -& go for it

  • She looks pretty.

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