What's your ethnic preference for sex?

[Jadey_Chen]

What is yours and why?

[Obtuse]

I don't think I have sufficient experience to answer this. I haven't tried dating any Hispanic, for example, to even form some weak opinion. I have been across the world and dated a lot but I had a lot of gaps like with the gigantic Hispanic gap.

But maybe I have a small bias towards African-American women (not all, but certain ones). I think that bias came from my first girlfriend being black (she wasn't the first one I slept with, but my first girlfriend, and the first one I really loved sleeping with). As for why -- I don't know.

We're just talking one sample. I need to sleep with more African-American women to make sure that the pattern carries over. Maybe it's just because she was my first girlfriend. I did love her skin though. It was the smoothest skin I ever touched. I was disappointed later to find out that African-American women tend to use lots of body lotion because dry skin shows up more on dark skin like chalk. But later I was like, whatever, lotion or not, she had the smoothest and silkiest skin I ever touched. I couldn't stop touching her.

[Obtuse]

I realize "Hispanic" is not an ethnicity. I tend to, very crudely, use racial phenotypes as like a superset collection of categories to describe the various ethnicities within... like starting with "Asian" narrowing down to Indian, Chinese, Japanese, etc.

[Obtuse]

I'm one of those who doesn't really form a preference until I've tried something. But I have my limits, like I wouldn't have try to have sex with a guy. I'm pretty sure that wouldn't interest me at all. But when I was single I was open to trying all sorts of girls, all ethnicities, various body shapes, personalities, see what I like best.

[Obtuse]

I have huge gaps though. I never got to try to sleep with Hispanic (not due to lack of interest, but lack of opportunity), and only one black woman (although I really adored her). I mostly slept with white or Asian... maybe because I was biracial white/Asian mix, and I seemed to draw mostly Asian and white girls.

[Obtuse]

Among whites (which I slept with most besides Asian) I tended to click more with certain European ethnicities like French and Italian than American. Among Asians, more Japanese and Korean than Chinese or Taiwanese (although I did like a Chinese girl long ago quite well).

[Obtuse]

I might sound like a player and always get called that when I share these things but I traveled a lot for my work after uni. I tried to keep long-term relationships. With that first African-American girlfriend, I seriously wanted to marry her. She even talked about getting a passport to travel to Japan because I shared my dreams of returning here one day (this was in the US). But the following Christmas I called her to wish her a Merry Christmas after 6 months of LDR and she told me she met a new guy. Then I got jaded. And I tried that sort of thing a couple more times, always turning into LDR when I had to move, and after the third time I just gave up sorta... just have fun, you know. And maybe I got a bit promiscuous then. Whatever. It's like I thought nothing was gonna work out long run, so just have fun today and tomorrow and don't worry about the next month while moving all over the place and living out of suitcase.

[ManOnFire]

Would have to mostly be black, white, and Middle Eastern. I really am not into Asian women sexually, it just seems kind of weird to me I think because they often times seem pure and innocent. Latinas aren't bad, but I'm not as crazy about them as I used to be.

[Mikemarston30]

Well those women only love BBC bro? They don't like any white dudes for sex

[ManOnFire]

@Mikemarston30 That is kinda true, yeah.

[Mikemarston30]

Sad for white dudes ain't it

[ManOnFire]

@Mikemarston30 I suppose lol.

[jonesjessica812]

You love latinas you probably upset cus they dont like you as much. Dude Asians hate blacks man. Stay away from those racists

[jonesjessica812]

Middle eastern love the white man and are mostly anti black. They fear black man just like Asians

[Anoniemus]

None for men. If I were bisexual, it would be Koreans.

[Mikemarston30]

Your profile pic says otherwise

[Anoniemus]

Lol. No. It doesn't. Black men aren't appreciated enough in this world, constantly criminalized, demeaned, stereotyped, hated just for the color of their skin. It's why I chose a handsome black man as my pic as a show of support to them. Anyway, I have a man in my pic because a woman was blocked by a man for having a famous man in her profile. He called her fake and she was upset. I don't have a favored ethnicity for men which I think is great.

[Mikemarston30]

Let me guess the man in her profile was black?

[Anoniemus]

I don't know. I just know she was upset and made a question about it. She just wanted to have a famous person as a pic and was judged for it. Do you see what assumptions do?

[Mikemarston30]

Well yes I'm a white guy and people think I'm this rich privileged dude who has face no problems in life Well already not based on my race but general appearance And by the way for the feminist and sjws who think white men don't understand what it's means to be discriminated Does a doctor need to have cancer to treat a cancer patient? No And I'm against such discriminations based on colour and sex

[Anoniemus]

Minority men face much more discrimination than white men. You are privileged because of your race. That is a fact. You do not face or experience systemic discrimination and prejudice on par with black men. To even say that you do is an insult. That said, can white men be discriminated against? Yes. Do people make assumptions about white people? Yes. But it's not a lie to say that whites are more privileged or tend to be more financially well off because of racist policies instituted decades ago that prevented others from becoming fortunate. It's the truth. The first thing I hear from others is what you've said: "I'm not rich. I face discrimination too". How likely are you to be followed in stores under the presumption that you might steal? How likely are you to be stopped by police officers for no reason at all? Or have the cops called on you for performing basic actions that others do? How likely is it that if someone saw a large group of whites that they would assume you're a gang, going to cause trouble, thugs? Do people walk in a different direction or move away from you when they see you heading towards them? I've seen this happen to minorities, especially black people. I'm not going to argue. You shouldn't be judged of course. But that does not mean that you do not benefit from privilege and opportunities which others do not get to enjoy.

[Mikemarston30]

Yes I agree I'm privileged by institution but I was followed , feared because well I look like a mean biker dude And sorry when I meant privileged I meant financially But hey I'm still a man and there is sexism towards men , that's sort of a discrimination

[Anoniemus]

I agree about people assuming that all whites are financially privileged. It's not right. You were followed because you look like a stereotype, which is wrong. I wonder what would happen if you wore a t-shirt, khakis, and scuffed Addidas? You probably wouldn't be. But black men who don't embody the stereotype of a thug are followed. It's not the same. There is sexism against men. We might disagree on this point because men are more privileged compared to women. Something that is commonly brought up is how it's mostly men paying alimony. Men pay alimony because women are the ones who are more likely to give up her career and life to stay at home. This is actually a horrible decision for her because she ends up worse off after divorce than the man paying alimony. I am not saying that you don't face any discrimination at all. I am just saying that there are people who are worse off and face much more than you do. That's all. :)

[Anoniemus]

I want to be explicitly clear on this point because it might be confused. Men do face sexism. I feel though, that despite the sexism men face, you are more privileged than women.

[Mikemarston30]

Well you might that way just cause I'm least likely to be sexually assaulted or harassed doesn't I'm walking free I'm more likely to be murdered or robbed I find walking at night gender neutral threat And if your talking about gender wage it exist but for different reasons My mom confirmed that she never earned lower because of her gender as there were higher paid women Also they are jobs where men are paid lower And you might say that men are more biologically privileged because we don't experience periods Well we are more likely to die of infections as proved during the black plague , there were more female survival I understand that women have problems of their own But please don't think that men have it better , we have our own set of problems that are equally important as women's problems I noticed whenever discussions abour sexism comes up men and women are fighting for the victim card

[Mikemarston30]

Yea but I think it's a myth that women face more problems We may never know how much problems men face because they never were encouraged to talk about it When I was reading about stories from sexual assault survivors I was shocked at the no of men who were experiences such things There were definitely more female victims but there was no shortage of men who told their stories Only every few were brave enough to not be anonymous Nevertheless I think men and women face problems that are different and equally defeating So I'm willing to listen to women's problems as I know they are more likely to be the victim But one thing is for sure white men and women have it better that black men and women

[Anoniemus]

Oh I’m not talking about problems. I’m talking about privileges. Men are more privileged than women but I agree with everything else.

[Mikemarston30]

You mean the minor thinks like if she sleeps around she's a slut and if he sleeps around he is a player?

[Anoniemus]

He has a benefit for not being shunned, yes. Or take single mothers.

She’s demeaned for making poor choices while single fathers are praised... for doing exactly what single mothers do.
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No one is trying to “guilt” men or whites for something that they have. We just want you to understand what you have so that you can learn to combat it yourself (and this is for everyone who is privileged such as straight and able bodied people).

[Mikemarston30]

As far as I'm concerned those things are such minor problems compared to sexual assaults and harassment Also those single mom things are sexism towards men that hurt women Those women praised those single dad because they have the assumption that men are absolutely incapable of looking after a child Much like how men are sometimes forced to join to the military because they think women are incapable of fighting wars , an example of sexism towards women that hurt men All those are comments from women , wait till you see the comments from men They would harass and call the father a slave for looking after a child I'm just stating there are angles in every stereotypes based on men and women that are beneficial or detrimental to both men and women regardless if it's negative or positive Overall they are unnecessary stereotypes

[Mikemarston30]

"beneficial and detrimental "

[Mikemarston30]

I'm sorry if you feel that I'm derailing the conversation about women being less privileged than men But I'm simply stating those "privileges" have it's downsides

[Anoniemus]

I agree that those are minor issues but even harassment is sometimes blamed on a woman because of how she dresses. There are men who have said that rape doesn’t exist because women have a natural defense mechanism for it. I will say that men’s harassment and assault is not being heard because people are saying that he should enjoy a woman performing intimate unwanted contact on him. Literally. There was a question on here and I gave that response (that men should view unwanted contact as sexual harassment) and a man told me to shut up because it’s not sexual harassment. THAT is detrimental to many men who have suffered. You’re not derailing the conversation. I think we just disagree on some points. That’s fine.

[Anoniemus]

My point is that women are more negatively affected by society than men and it’s because of male privilege.

[Mikemarston30]

I'm thankful that we have a reasonable conversation Not many men and women do that And yes I will join the fight against sexual harassment and assault The Brock turner case and the cyntoia brown case infuriated me to no end Seriously putting a minor who killed in act to defend herself from her rapist and pimp is treated as an adult and put for 51 years While a rich boy raped an unconscious woman gets 3 months only The justice system is run by brainless scum bags

[Mikemarston30]

You the irony I noticed in the justice system real rapists walk free while the men who were falsely accused of rape get the short of the stick and spent time in prison

[Mikemarston30]

Please don't listen to those incels , they degrade women for not following traditional female roles while they themselves don't follow traditional male roles such as being strong and tough

[Anoniemus]

That’s another thing. False rape accusations. They need to heavily penalize women for this and I mean prison. It can and does destroy men. That said, I think anyone who says anything about Being raped should be taken seriously. But if there is no evidence, then nothing can be done. False rape accusations will fall with harsher penalties.

[Mikemarston30]

I agree however I found that false accusations are rare As there are so many rape in reported and rape kits untested , we have to focus on those first And thank you for acknowledging the seriousness of false accusations Many say men's lives are unaffected by false accusations because rapist walk free But they don't understand that because a large no of rapist walk free , they (especially women ) will forever unconsciously see the falsely accused as rapist They will still in the mind that he probably did and got away from They don't understand that these thoughts affect a man's dignity and how he is being seen by the public and women Good men care about our image and honour those men like Harvey Weinstein , they don't care as long they have money to escape such consequences

[baconninjadc]

Usually non-white women. I just like darker skin tones just a preference

[Vencam]

Red hairs and pale skin so... North European?
As for why, I guess it's just what turns me on atm

[Sheyhoney]

Latino or Black 😍

[johny0000]

Latino

[i1T2daty]

you get hotter in each new pic. sorry, i know you're committed but i think you are the hottest woman i've had pleasure to see- and i date some pretty beautiful women. you're in a category alone, though

[normalice]

I prefer thin girls. Ethnicity doesn't matter, by itself, but it does tend to correlate to Asians, Philippinos, and Swedes. But other ethnicities can fit my criteria just as well - i. e. the girl in the picture is nearly ideal, in my opinion.

[pierre7i]

For me, Asian girls are somehow the most sexually desirable -- I love their nicely proportioned breasts, their so-lovely vulvas (especially their pretty labia) and the beautifully pleasurable sensations when penetrating - patiently, gently, inch by inch - their (mostly) tight vaginas

[AngovisNL]

Don't have one

[SjE78]

I have no ethnic preference... just a personality one

[cicchis0]

I don't have a typical ethnic preference, I judge each girl on her individual merits. I do have a hankering for some sweet Asian cherry at the moment, though.

[foxrider77]

The one is the picture is perfect

[BrianTG78]

That one would be great! I like women of color. Black women. Black and Asian mix is wonderful.

[Dargil]

Any ethnicity can be good.

[Shiver]

I don't have preferences, but since my girlfriend's white I'll say white. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[fire2iceus]

No preference we're all human beings we all bleed red just cuz the color of our skin is different or the nationality of our ancestors came from should not matter we are all put on this Earth by the same person parents a man and a woman

[Bandit74]

White and Asian

[Haelaeix123]

I don't really have one to be honest :)

[Ripper_E]

A vagina is a vagina. Boobs are blobs. Ass is ass. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman.

[yahyahyah]

White guys.

[MackToday]

My own race naturally, according to how we evolved.

[NickiB1]

i don't actually have 1.