I can understand and respect it, but as a man I like a sample before I buy. Sex after marriage is not for me.
0 1 0 0The last girl I was pursuing planned to wait. And I liked her enough to try to wait with her. We ended up breaking up though and after the break up I thought wtf was wrong with me to even try such a thing? I don't think I'll ever date a girl like that again.
Sure... and would you be happy for the next 30+ years if she turned out to fuck like a potato? Not worth the risk in my opinion.
I get that but I'd rather have a girl to teach things to than to be with a girl who learned what to do with a bunch of dicks
Once she gets into a serious relationship she will change her mind
0 1 0 0If she has sex then she'll be like any other whore out there
I disagree
Please explain why. I am curious.
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Most of them are extremely naive. This goes for both genders of course, not sure why you singled out women.
1 1 0 1I haven't known enough guys that do this. Unless maybe he comes from a super religious household but most guys don't wait and I find it extremely rare when they do. I feel like women wait more than guys.
Why do you find it naive though?
It's naive to believe that sexual compatibility is 1) something you can "sense" without actually having tried it (and by tried I mean more than just once), and 2) that sexual compatibility isn't absolutely crucial to begin with. And it's almost exclusively young and/or inexperienced people who believe all that - for obvious reasons.
Unrealistic expectations unless you plan to not talk to the opposite sex ever.
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2 11They’re probably religious and traditional.
0 2 0 0I really don't get it. I think it is overly traditional. But if someone really thinks that, then they are entitled to go by that if they want to.
0 1 0 0These girls are my idols 🤓✌️🌸
0 1 0 0i can't wait that long lol
0 1 0 0You are 35, I get why you wouldn't have the patience but since you are 9 years older than me, wouldn't finding a woman like that at your age be a good thing? Since maybe you would want to get married eventually if you haven't already and she seems serious about marriage and is looking for something serious?
i'm not planning to get married soon unless a woman convinces me to. what's the point of saving herself when she's probably not a virgin anyways? if she is a virgin and i like her a lot then i would consider waiting for marriage...
The kind I'd like to meet, date, and marry.
0 1 0 0On the traditional side
0 1 0 0Admirable but in this age and time not realistic.
0 1 0 1It's their choice...
0 1 0 0I think it's a stupid old fashioned idea
0 1 0 1Religious or traumatized by repeated rape
0 1 0 1smarter than yer average bear
0 1 0 0A waste of my time
0 1 0 1I'm doing the exact same thing so it's good
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