The last girl I was pursuing planned to wait. And I liked her enough to try to wait with her. We ended up breaking up though and after the break up I thought wtf was wrong with me to even try such a thing? I don't think I'll ever date a girl like that again.
Sure... and would you be happy for the next 30+ years if she turned out to fuck like a potato? Not worth the risk in my opinion.
I get that but I'd rather have a girl to teach things to than to be with a girl who learned what to do with a bunch of dicks
Haha fair point. It sounds like you have your preferences already. 👌
If she has sex then she'll be like any other whore out there
Please explain why. I am curious.
Because the literal definition of a whore is someone who has sex for money. You are not planning on paying her, are you?
Ok different word, a slut lol
A slut is a person who engages in frequent sex (10+ times a month) with multiple people and not in a relationship.Got any more terms?
I haven't known enough guys that do this. Unless maybe he comes from a super religious household but most guys don't wait and I find it extremely rare when they do. I feel like women wait more than guys.
Why do you find it naive though?
It's naive to believe that sexual compatibility is 1) something you can "sense" without actually having tried it (and by tried I mean more than just once), and 2) that sexual compatibility isn't absolutely crucial to begin with. And it's almost exclusively young and/or inexperienced people who believe all that - for obvious reasons.
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You are 35, I get why you wouldn't have the patience but since you are 9 years older than me, wouldn't finding a woman like that at your age be a good thing? Since maybe you would want to get married eventually if you haven't already and she seems serious about marriage and is looking for something serious?
i'm not planning to get married soon unless a woman convinces me to. what's the point of saving herself when she's probably not a virgin anyways? if she is a virgin and i like her a lot then i would consider waiting for marriage...