How many times can a guy sleep with a girl before he catches feelings?

[Anonymous]

Guys, how many times would you say you are able to sleep with the same girl before feelings develop?

[MannMitAntworten]

It ranges from once to never. In other words, men do not fall in love through sex. For some reason this occurs for some women. At least this is what the women I know tell me.

The act does not cause us to fall in love. It adds to it but doesn’t cause it. We either have some sort of feelings going into it or the grow over time for other reasons. Essentially some of you grow on us so we develop some form of caring towards you.

Speaking for myself, if I do not feel an initial interest towards you, sleeping with you will never place it there. In other words, if I do not sense a potential for love from first contact, I never will develop a feeling of being in love. I will only develop some sort of caring towards you, but never be “in love” with you. No amount of sex will change that.

[chzse1990]

Depends on the guy. I have a friend who who feel in with with a girl the first... It didn't work out for him.
I've also sleep with a female friend on multiple occasions and the only feelings we have ever had is friendly the sex is fun feelings but it's never romantic.

My question to you is have you started to develop romantic feeling for a guy you slept with but your not currently dating?

[Asker]

... yes

[chzse1990]

Why don't you just ask an see if they are interested

[Secret6620]

There's not set amount of time. Could be one time, 50 times, or never. 🤓✌️🌸

[Secret6620]

Thanks for MHO Love 😌✌️☮️

[reptocarl]

Sometimes never. Sex and feelings are two separate things for us

[Nikki1989]

Depends on the guy. Some catch feelings very quickly, some don't catch feelings at all.

[theCobbler]

I would Hope , that this guy already has feelings for the girl., before sleeping with her! the question is quite personal if not utterly inconceivable..., sorry ! But its like asking someone how many times does it take to break your arm but closing a door on it !

[COMMODOREII]

2 times

[navyP]

There is no standard amount every guy is different

[Chill_Meta]

Years really. Guys dont get attached through sex as much as womem do. Sure it happens but we're just wired to be like that, but really depends and varies from guy to guy

[TienShenhan]

Wouldn't know because if I'm not in love with them the sex becomes boring and they fade away

[ZSean]

I've never had casual sex, only in relationships.

I feel like it would depend on the time spent together. If it was like hang out, then maybe bang later then feelings might start growing.

But if it is come fuck them leave I feel like it may be less.

I feel like the more conversation and interaction inbetween the meat slappings would create higher chances

[andy530]

It really depends on the guy, the girl, and the sex they have

[Asker]

Let’s say both parties agree it’s really good sex

[andy530]

Is it more rough or is there emotion and connection too?

[Asker]

Both

[andy530]

Hmm do you have feelings for him?

[Asker]

I do

[andy530]

Ah I see. So are you hoping he catches feelings too?

[Asker]

I hope he does. We’ve been doing this for 5 months now.

[andy530]

Have you ever asked him how he feels?

[Asker]

Not yet, I want to. I just haven’t had the courage to do it

[andy530]

Mm I see that would be hard to do

[TDeVore]

I'll tell you some advice I should have taken once, but waited five years and screwed up any chance. Dont wait or stop yourself from telling someone your feelings for them, I waited five years and screwed up. She rejected me, it hurt but i felt better than keeping it inside

[beatcoock]

As many times as she could allow me

[Anonymous]

There's no answer to this because everyone is different. It depends on both people involved and how well they get along etc. It could be anywhere from once, to never.

[Anonymous]

I've been fucking my friend's girlfriend for 3 years now and we don't have feelings for each other just the sex.