How many times can a guy sleep with a girl before he catches feelings?

Question

Guys, how many times would you say you are able to sleep with the same girl before feelings develop?

Answer 1

MannMitAntworten | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It ranges from once to never. In other words, men do not fall in love through sex. For some reason this occurs for some women. At least this is what the women I know tell me.

The act does not cause us to fall in love. It adds to it but doesn’t cause it. We either have some sort of feelings going into it or the grow over time for other reasons. Essentially some of you grow on us so we develop some form of caring towards you.

Speaking for myself, if I do not feel an initial interest towards you, sleeping with you will never place it there. In other words, if I do not sense a potential for love from first contact, I never will develop a feeling of being in love. I will only develop some sort of caring towards you, but never be “in love” with you. No amount of sex will change that.

Answer 2

chzse1990

Xper 1

Depends on the guy. I have a friend who who feel in with with a girl the first... It didn't work out for him.
I've also sleep with a female friend on multiple occasions and the only feelings we have ever had is friendly the sex is fun feelings but it's never romantic.

My question to you is have you started to develop romantic feeling for a guy you slept with but your not currently dating?

Asker

11 mo
... yes
chzse1990

11 mo
Why don't you just ask an see if they are interested

Answer 3

Asker

... yes

Answer 4

chzse1990

Why don't you just ask an see if they are interested

Answer 5

Secret6620 | 8.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

There's not set amount of time. Could be one time, 50 times, or never. 🤓✌️🌸

Secret6620

11 mo
Thanks for MHO Love 😌✌️☮️

Answer 6

Secret6620

Thanks for MHO Love 😌✌️☮️

Answer 7

theCobbler | 431 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

I would Hope , that this guy already has feelings for the girl., before sleeping with her! the question is quite personal if not utterly inconceivable..., sorry ! But its like asking someone how many times does it take to break your arm but closing a door on it !

Answer 8

ZSean | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

I've never had casual sex, only in relationships.

I feel like it would depend on the time spent together. If it was like hang out, then maybe bang later then feelings might start growing.

But if it is come fuck them leave I feel like it may be less.

I feel like the more conversation and interaction inbetween the meat slappings would create higher chances

Answer 9

Chill_Meta

Xper 4

Years really. Guys dont get attached through sex as much as womem do. Sure it happens but we're just wired to be like that, but really depends and varies from guy to guy

Answer 10

reptocarl

Master

Sometimes never. Sex and feelings are two separate things for us

Answer 11

Anonymous

There's no answer to this because everyone is different. It depends on both people involved and how well they get along etc. It could be anywhere from once, to never.

Answer 12

TienShenhan | 500 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

Wouldn't know because if I'm not in love with them the sex becomes boring and they fade away

Answer 13

andy530 | 4.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

It really depends on the guy, the girl, and the sex they have

Asker

11 mo
Let’s say both parties agree it’s really good sex
andy530

11 mo
Is it more rough or is there emotion and connection too?
Asker

11 mo
Both
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andy530

11 mo
Hmm do you have feelings for him?
Asker

11 mo
I do
andy530

11 mo
Ah I see. So are you hoping he catches feelings too?
Asker

11 mo
I hope he does. We’ve been doing this for 5 months now.
andy530

11 mo
Have you ever asked him how he feels?
Asker

11 mo
Not yet, I want to. I just haven’t had the courage to do it
andy530

11 mo
Mm I see that would be hard to do
TDeVore

11 mo
I'll tell you some advice I should have taken once, but waited five years and screwed up any chance. Dont wait or stop yourself from telling someone your feelings for them, I waited five years and screwed up. She rejected me, it hurt but i felt better than keeping it inside

Answer 14

Asker

Let’s say both parties agree it’s really good sex

Answer 15

andy530

Is it more rough or is there emotion and connection too?

Answer 16

andy530

Hmm do you have feelings for him?

Answer 17

andy530

Ah I see. So are you hoping he catches feelings too?

Answer 18

Asker

I hope he does. We’ve been doing this for 5 months now.

Answer 19

andy530

Have you ever asked him how he feels?

Answer 20

Asker

Not yet, I want to. I just haven’t had the courage to do it

Answer 21

andy530

Mm I see that would be hard to do

Answer 22

TDeVore

I'll tell you some advice I should have taken once, but waited five years and screwed up any chance. Dont wait or stop yourself from telling someone your feelings for them, I waited five years and screwed up. She rejected me, it hurt but i felt better than keeping it inside

Answer 23

Anonymous

I've been fucking my friend's girlfriend for 3 years now and we don't have feelings for each other just the sex.

Answer 24

Nikki1989 | 5.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Depends on the guy. Some catch feelings very quickly, some don't catch feelings at all.

Answer 25

navyP | 1.6K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 7

There is no standard amount every guy is different

Answer 26

beatcoock | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

As many times as she could allow me

Answer 27

COMMODOREII | 14.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

2 times

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