Now some personal story time - the best sex i had with a girl - we loved it and most of the time, none of us came, yes even im as a male, it was very hard to make her cum from simple penetration, and i was too insensetive from porn as well. But we learned, etc. I found out what she likes, how to touch her, when, where, what pressure, etc - then i learned to make her cum everytime and very strongly, but with my hands, so much that she started asking me to TEACH HER, how to masturbate... so she could do it herself. But we still loved penetration and normal sex, just end goal never was the orgasm and we would take care of each other in different ways, you can reach orgasm in sex in many different ways, but the orgasm shouldn't be the end goal in sex, its not masturbation, the whole process should be enjoyed, intimacy, etc is whats the most fun and matters the most.
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“Fapping” refers to male masturbation. And yes I can make myself cum
I didn't know it didn't apply to both.It may humiliate him so badly that he will end the relationship. I would be on the edge of that it if happened to me. I would suggest that you introduce him to whatever you do for yourself... fingers, toys, combinations, whatever and get him "trained" to be able to deliver an orgasm that way. Identify it as foreplay but have him bring you off completely before he mounts up.Two things can result. One is that you can just relax and enjoy the ride but sometimes it is possible to draw a another surge out of the same orgasm. I warm up my SO with to-finish oral before mounting up.
And then what would you do with the truth?
Work with the girl to fix it or else leave, depending on her attitude; either way, I'd appreciate her being honest and letting me know where I really stood.
I might not tell him seen as everyone here is making it sound like it could potentially be a bigger deal than I initially thought
Hate to break it to you, but if he finds out the wrong way, it could.
Not something he would say to me
Because I’m the best he’s had
His own words
Not something you can relate to
We tell every chick we bang that they're the best. Everybody knows it's just something you're supposed to say
I’m his girlfriend. Again a concept you’re not familiar with hahaha
That doesn't change anything. You think he's gonna tell you he's had better just because you're his girlfriend? I can just imagine that conversation
I’m the best in a lot of ways. Him saying I’m also the best he’s had in bed sounds like something I can accept.
How would you feel if he did say you weren't the best?
He wouldn’t and hasn’t
The fact that you can't even consider it tells a lot. The same feelings you're running from on that are what he's going to feel when you tell him you've been faking it. You're stupid for faking it in the first place. All this time he's been thinking he's getting the job done when he could have been figuring out what gets you off, and now you're going to lose him because you're a lying idiot. What a shame
We live and we learn