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Is it normal to think like this?

I feel like eventually I'm going to be abandaded or left behind by my family. If I even make enough to live independently I'm going to be a very lonely person and I'm never going to find people that I can click with on a personal level.
Right now I'm so desperate for someone to talk to me that I'm sending nudes and even a vid of me pissing just to keep her attention. Even though I personally don't want to do it. I've been thinking of just doing a bunch of sexually things online just for quick attention. is it normal to think like this? ;/
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  • No its not normal, but it also depends on how you were brought up. Have you had any trauma with this? I have abandonment issues also, but relationships take work to maintain and you do have to take initiative and not give up hope. It's easy to run, but it just makes things more difficult for you in the long run to maintain lasting relationships. There are people out there that care about you, such as family (hopefully you don't have an abusive one) and some friends, and they are people you should hold on to and not run away from, because they will be there at your lowest when they need you

  • No, it is not but I am not running you down. Please. Get off social media and go outdoors and do something good. Anything. Drive in the country. Walk in a park. Fixate on something that matters, And make it matter. There are other lonely people out there. You will meet them.

    Nudes are giving yourself away with no promise of anything in return. And I have a question, again, not running you down. Why peeing? If that is done, and it does have it's place, it is between those who are already erotically connected as opposed to random. But erotica comes after you meet. Not as a lure.

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  • Do not hummiliate yourself (if you don't want to) to gain your family's attention.
    Try instead to do something remarking, or good, which would get their attention.

    • I don't care about their fucking attention. theyre not seeing the pictures or nudes Could you imagine really needing to piss so bad and your brother laughing at you and driving slower just to get to you? I just don't want to have to freaking

    • That sounds bad. Hopefully you work things out. I really cannot give you better advice than to speak to them about their behaviour.

    • I just can't wrap my head around she could do this

  • see first of all it is completely normal so don't worry, i everyone's life such time comes when they feel insecure and they start overthinking of future...
    i would say it is not necessary that you should have a dozen of friends around you who would even not care a bit for you & even if you have a single person in your life who genuinely cares for you , i wound say its ok...
    we all do some kind of stuff to get some attention , just in this process don't loose your self...
    Believe me many of us feel the same way...
    so relax & just be Happy...

  • I'd recommend finding a therapist/councilor as soon as possible, I'm no mental health expert but stooping to doing things you don't want to do that badly is sign something really needs to be addressed. Talking with mental experts I've always found a good way to stop worrying as much and address the core of my issues, I never went in the direction you did as my issues were quite different. But the social ideas behind both our problems seem common enough that help should help.

    • Look though, if you want to have someone to talk to so you don't have to keep doing this. I've got time and would be happy to chat especially if helps make you feel more comfortable, and may be steps towards breaking this habit you clearly despise.

  • There are sites that cater for all tastes. Maybe you might get a better response bon one of them...

  • I know what it is to be essentially abandoned by family and be left totally alone. I have always sought to be independent, which is both a blessing and a curse.

    Two things EVERY woman im my life has told me (including my mother), "you don't need me, you don't need anyone". This is a good thing.

    Once you have a sense of security through your own success, you can then relax about forming friendships.

  • Omg that sounds bad! You need someone to talk to?

  • Why do you think you won't click with anybody

    • I've tried for years then I just gave up. I even wrote a screenplay about it

    • Why do you think it's so hard for you to connect with people

    • I don't know... It angers me.

  • This is normal for some and not for others. If it is problematic to you then it’s probably not healthy however if you’re enjoying what you’re doing and connecting with people then keep on going. If you need someone to talk to about it all or just in general I’m here

  • I’ll pay attention to you Darling. hmu if you want to talk

  • I am kind of like you when it comes to the first half of the question, I always think I'll end up being alone, live alone and die alone, and unlike you it's kind of something I'm doing on purpose, not because I can't or don't wanna date, but because I can't find the right one. My biggest fear in life is growing old and dying alone, yet I'd never degrade myself in such ways to attract people's attention. Yes it's normal to have fear from the future, but it's not normal doing things you don't want to attract other people. Those people you think you're attracting with such doings are going to be the first people to ditch you after they're done with what they want from you. They'll look at you like a thing not a person that they use for their own needs and desires and throw you away after they get off. Take it easy and don't be so desperate about being with someone, because it never ends well.

  • it really depends I can't tell you if it is normal or not... but if it happens to be true you are not alone just pm me

  • If you just need someone to talk to, I'll talk to you

  • You need help

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