My husband always wants/needs sex?

[Ziggystar]

Honey you must have some good pussy I understand your point because I have a very high sex drive myself at the age 50 and yes I've experienced Richard talkin about may want to have sex and fucked you three times a day every single day on demand anytime I did get hard no matter where I was at we'd have to go take care of that and I've heard complaints such as things that you just said and yes I was only thinking about myself and not her because I had to get mine but later on through life as I got older I learned some new tricks and ways around that because I love eating pussy and I love to make sure that my woman is pleased I can't answer for anyone else how long have y'all been married? Because this could turn into a separation because if he's not getting it when he wants it then he's going to find someone else when he gets horny behind your back and that's when things start getting really worse because it could be an ongoing thing for quite some time and what makes it so bad is it had to be his auntie to where he's getting pussy twice a day to three times a day if he's fucking some other chick behind your back and then coming home and getting pussy for you so try some reverse psychology on me when you get ready to go to bed he's in there waiting on you take clothes off leave your panties on but take the rest you close off crawl in bed beside him whatever y'all doing babe snuggle or whatever of course you know it will be hard waiting on you tell him you want him to eat your pussy before y'all have sex that way you're getting pleasured and if you have to Bally's going down on you just take your hand down there and grab his dick and play with him while he's eating your pussy and make him get off therefore when you're done having you orgasm or whatever you get from him eating your pussy you can go to bed go to sleep safely because not only did he please you but you please him while he was pleasing you maybe not in the kind of what he want to be pleased but he get please I do believe continue doing that or you know think of other ways you might start seeing a slow down there it'll give him something to start thinking about Joy is not being selfish and thinking about himself all the time you saw what I'm saying honey I know me I love pussy I love getting my dick wet at any time but I taking consideration for the woman also my main objective as I make sure I please her before I get mine and believe it or not when I'm eating a woman's pussy playing with a woman's pussy sucking on her pussy sucking the cum out her pussy I've already Jack my dick and got off therefore if I don't get it wet at least I got pleased and if I do get it wet after I get done with her I won't be no two pump chump let me back that up I won't be no one stroke joke new a two-pump chump or 3 stroke joke because as I said I want to make sure she's well pleased

[BrianTG78]

Not every day, but you most likely knew of his appetite prior to marriage. Turn him down too many times and he'll stop asking. That's not good for anyone. Save the nos for period week. And of course he wants it from you all the time. You're his wife. Be happy he's attracted to you and not purposely staying a little late at work to get attention he needs, hoping you'll fall asleep so he can jerk his shamed dick in peace while he thinks of banging Wilma, the 63 year old accountant that winks at him when no one's looking cus she can tell he needs the attention. You think he's not tired from work? And of course touchy feely is purposeful. He's trying to turn you on. What does alone time have to do with it? Sounds like you're saying you're not getting what You want so he shouldn't either. You think he doesn't want alone time? If you're not handling business, family matters, appointments or children you should be fucking. At least before bed. Or just bite the bullet and get separate rooms so he can get his nut without being shamed or ashamed. You'd rather wash dishes than fuck your husband and you're acting like he's got the problem. Only cares about himself? You're the one that wants alone time, doesn't take pleasure in satisfying your partner's needs, avoids it, bashes him for wanting you, and would rather he fall asleep without saying good night or i love you, only to solidify the fact that you only care about yourself. You think he wants to have to ask? Beg? I give it 8 months. Marry a gay guy next go around.

[wingattebaby16]

part of a healthy marriage is frequent sex.

You need to tell him how you feel, and tell him you be more into it if he was romantic, not just an animal needing to rut...

If you are tired, then tell him... and often, there is nothing wrong with keeping some lube next to the bed, let him ride you hard and get what he needs.

SO MANY marriages fail over lack or poor quality sex..

My mom is 40ish and dad is mid 50's.. she told me while she is often not interested, she goes out of her way to please him and has sex, even when she would prefer not to.

She told me, keep your man happy in bed, and he will bend over backwards to make you happy... actually, she said, even tho it is crude:

"Cassie, keep your man's dick soft, his balls empty, and make him feel his dick is the best in the world! He will never cheat on you, will love you, and cherish you. You will have a happy home, comfort, and when you need/want something, making him cum will get you what you want!"

"no man can say NO when you have his dick in your mouth or he is balls deep and you are moaning up a storm of how good he is making you feel!"

I have only ever faked 3 orgasms and feel bad for doing so, but I was so tired and he needed sex so bad, I made him happy.

Just my 2 cents worth.. I am 25yo, been with my husband for 2 years and yes, he always wants sex... and I foster a healthy environment for him.. AND I have told him what I NEED in bed... tbh, he did not realize I want at least one O during foreplay so I am ready for the actual sex... and I love oral, so he learned to do it the way I want and enjoy.. Our sex life has greatly improved.. also, he calls me like 5+ times a day to tell me he loves me, often gives me "just because" gifts, and I have lost track of how many times he comes home for a "long lunch" to have sex with me... I pretend he is my Lover and we are having an illicit tryst.. romance makes sex fun and enjoyable and love goes with it.

[Anonymous]

https://www.eharmony.com/blog/partner-wants-sex-time-means/
https://www.whimn.com.au/love/intimacy/my-husband-wants-to-have-sex-with-me-every-day/news-story/5676ddcd14eb8ddca8f206ef50006f42

Read these.

[AustinMan]

Time to talk to him about it.

How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗

[winterfox10]

You could try to find some evening activity to do alone instead a couple nights per week? Maybe take up a hobby, or start having sex in the morning or something? I'm gonna be real with you, the single worst thing you could possibly do in this situation is treat your man's sexuality like an inconvenience. Considering how little energy women need to put in to have sex, the "I'm tired" argument is just too unbelievable. So many women choose to treat their man's sexuality like it's a chore.

All those women you hear about whose husbands refuse to touch them after awhile? This is how that starts.

Maybe talk to your husband about changing up the routine so that you can you can have sex in the morning or something. But the absolute worst thing you could do is treat his sexual desire like it's inconveniencing you.

[baconninjadc]

There might be a compatibility issue there. Just like some plants need to be watered more frequently than others some men and women need sex more frequently than others. You may not be required to have sex everyday but that may be a requirement of his. Something to think about.

[DannyFanny]

Well it seems you're scared for some reason to deny sex. If you keep giving him what he wants constantly, whenever he decides he wants it you're just spoiling him and he's controlling you. Set rules yourself and confront him about the issue or it will get worse. He might not realize he's annoying and controlling, let him know. No point in not voicing your mind with your HUSBAND.

[Stoner710]

Your not required to have sex every night but guys like to fuck, now the dishes thing you can use seed against him in that matter tell him everything he cooks you will suck his dick and every time he cleans up after wards you’ll just his bones. Your the women your control the Sex, use it to your advantage try bribing him with sex. I don't know if that’s a good idea I just know guys will do anything for sex and women can use that to there advantage

[midnightmoon05]

You have to communicate with your husband. Avoding is not healthy.
He needs to know what makes you feel love.. and not only see you as a sex object.

[Anonymous]

You’re young so yeah I would want it every day if I was him , I’m sure he is doing most of the work during sex. I can understand some alone time but maybe have sex before bed time. I wouldn’t think a couple should have that issue until they are in their 40s

[Secret6620]

No you are not "required". You should definitely have a sit down and discuss your concerns with him. 🤓✌️💜

[Anonymous]

See, he's laying awake while you're doing the dishes. That's the problem.
Tell him you'll only have sex with him if you can relax on the couch/take a nice relaxing bubblebath when you come home from work: he has to get the dinner on the table, do the dishes, take care of the kids, etc.
And he has to give you an orgasm before he can have his.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps try encouraging him to put more effort in for you.

perhaps alternate from days when you have sex and he puts in effort and other days where you help him wi th something less energetic for you where he gets off quickly.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry that can suck big time. Mu boyfriend is like that sometimes. I tell him he should help more around the house so I can rest and be ready.
Does he at least make sure you get yours too? If not really need to talk to him.
What if you only gave him a hand job some days. That's what I do sometimes. It's like kinda easy and makes him happy.

[updog45]

Does sex really require anything on your part though? I can't imagine it would take him very long and be done with it. Lack of sex in a relationship can be very damaging speaking from experience. My girlfriend and I haven't had sex in over a year, we work out of town and aren't together a lot. But she used to want to do it everyday, now not at all.

[theronaldmcdonald]

Talk to him about how you feel! Both of you need to work together to find some type of compromise.

[wannaplaytoy]

well its something that you should of trained him for
as to stop being a selfish lover
you can train them and slow them down with sex so its more intense and lats longer
and then you can re introduce the quickie

[Thatsamazing]

Wait until he doesn't want it from you any more and then see how you feel about it.

Don't look a gift horse in the mouth.

[wittymilf]

You don’t have to have sex everyday, if he’s going to
Sill like a child about it just Let him. Or set up
A system he doesn’t like either, like if we can have sex everyday that you cook dinner.

[mynkMumbai]

May be he watches too much porn... or u are not able to satisfy him... just talk to him... take a long vacation out... have sex n only sex der... make plans... or decide some day to have in month or week

[honestGUY45]

Not required unless it's in your religion. Definitely not required for thinking people. It is a benefit, or privilege though.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I'm in the same exact situation but in reverse - she always wants sex and I do not.
That's why I won't marry her anytime soon.

[OddBeMe]

Hypersexuality is a thing, I have it. But what if he did the dishes? And other shit around the house? That usually gets my wife going.

[spliff]

When sex do happen does he make sure you're pleasured as well? Like, does he make you cum or dies he just cum and all over with?

[andy530]

He’s looking to connect with you. See if there are other activists you can do together or alone that would build intimacy between you

[oncpl]

He should have cared your health, mental peace and requirement.

[jennifer_bloom]

Tell him you won’t have sex unless he helps with the dishes or does more house chores

[Anonymous]

Some men don't realize if they share the household duties like doing dishes, etc. then their wives or girlfriends might might be less tired and then more into having sex.
What a man does outside of the bedroom is the best aphrodisiac for a woman.

[Browneye57]

Isn't that why you two married? If not, plan for a divorce.

Q. What is the best food to eat to kill sex drive?
A. Wedding cake.

:)

[reptocarl]

Just wait about 10 years from now. You’ll have your revenge

[Anonymous]

If you don't want to do it, let him have a friends with benefits so he'll leave you alone

[Mollynotgemma]

When you have sex is it all about him everytime?

[G3tAClue]

Time to tell him you need some alone time.

[spartan55]

How often are you giving it up?

[Shamalien]

U cud at least give him an old fashioned.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I fail to see the problem here.

[navyP]

You need to learn to say no

[DomTreddo]

Give him a fleshlight.

[Yellovv]

Give him what he is want.

[eshachugh]

Take charge say no to him...

[Anonymous]

Just tell him that's too much

[Anonymous]

how old is he?

have you old him this?

[MaddkingUconje]

Damn, that good? Pun pun got him feigning

[Lovely15678]

Tell him to f off.

[openmind67]

Why is that problem?