How to hint him I only want to hookup?

I met a guy, we dated a few times, had some oral sex, but i didn’t let him more, because I didn’t want to be too easy and in the beginning I was thinking in more, but after getting known him better, I changed my mind. Later he rejected me, he thought I wanted something serious and he didn’t want to start anything serious bc he just ended his previous relationship. But I don’t want anything serious either, he just misunderstood me, and I don't know how to hint him that I’m interested in sex with him without looking too bitchy.
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  • well you reject him, he rejects you, you have your answer.

    sounds too awkward to set up a periodic bang schedule. but no harm in asking one last time!

    most guys would have already smashed your squish mitten a couple times since that convo. so the prospects aren't good, he's probably still pining after his x. Good luck at any rate!

  • Don't hint. Too much chance of a misunderstanding. Just ask him if he wants to be fuck buddies.

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  • Just bend over and he'll forget his name... Let alone any talk of seriousness. I don't think there's a guy in the world that would see a woman bent over and think she's totally bitchy.

  • Just tell him. If you're both not interested in a long lasting relationship, why do you care so much if he sees you as "easy" anyway?

  • How do you feel about being more bold with him?

    • I’m afraid that he will reject me. You know, like I “offer” myself and he says no. Even though I know he finds me sexually attractive, I’d think that I’m not hot anymore in his eyes. The problem is that he thinks I want something serious and maybe he won’t want to have sex bc he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings.

  • Just tell him: "Maybe we can get together once in a while." Leave it to him to make the next move.

  • Just tell him “I don’t want anything serious either. I only want to fuck”

    • Isn’t it too direct? I asked him out for a film after the rejection, but he said he was busy. I think bc he misunderstood me, he obviously finds me sexually attractive. But how can I write this in a fb text not too directly?

    • No it isn’t too direct. It saves a lot of time

  • jus say it... if he doesn't like it... all he can do is deal with it... if ur gonna hint him u might aswell tell him anyway cos its the same thing

  • If both of you don't want anything serious, why would it be bitchy to just say that you both have said you are looking to stay casual, and that's all you want from him?

  • Fuck, this is your question? Just tell him "I want to fuck without a relationship".

  • Dont hint just tell him straight up. No reason to beat around the bush. Lol obviously you both want the same thing

  • Just tell him... Stay open

  • Maybe he is want to see you again for sex..

  • tell him the truth is the best policy