Guys, Friends with benefits?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 years old.. and I'm a virgin (I'm saving for the wedding) i have a friend and he has sex, he goes to clubs and yh.. One time we were talking and I said maybe we can be more then friends (not boyfriend and girlfriend).. i like his body he likes mine.. but without sex.. is it like.. normal? Like is there something we can do besides sex (or going down on each other)
If your friend suggested this to you (and you know she will not have sex) what would you think? Or what would you do with her? I want him to touch me and everything but just not sex..

[lightbulb27]

like what are you thinking?

Friends with kissing and massage? Massage could be possible in some scenarios, but with this guy... why would he do that?

you don't understand something... there is a design to this system to make many offspring and fill the planet to the brim with humans. For the guy, his is a loaded gun so to speak, and once loaded... it hurts not to fire it. You go messing wit him and not allowing that, when he's used to it... that's not going to work. It hurts... why would he sign up for hurting?

[KrakenAttackin]

That's right, blue-balling a guy is not fucking cool. She will have to at least give him a handjob.

[topur]

I don't get it : why are willing to save your virginity for the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, but at the same time you are willing to fool around with someone you're not interested?
I think you'll regret it. Also most of those situations end up in sex

[Asker]

I do like him.. Like a lot.. That's why i want to do it.. I wouldn't do it with someone I don't like..

[topur]

I'm sorry, I misunderstood. Still my point remains: why not date him? Become boyfriend and girlfriend?

[Asker]

I want to lol he us just not.. He said he is not into me like that..

[topur]

Oh, I see.. well, if I was me and I decided kiss and fool around with someone that was into me just for my body, I know would regret it. Sometimes the appeal is just too much and you go for it, even though you already know you're going to get hurt and regret it later. Bottom line, I think you should wait/look for someone who appreciates all of you, that won't just use your body and throw it aside afterwards

[Asker]

I think you are right.. But how can he get hurt from this?

[topur]

If he has no feelings for you, I don't think he'll get hurt. Maybe frustrated because he would like to have sex with your body, but that's not really a thing. And I think that this isn't a problem for your friendship, everything can be just like it was has been. Although, if you have feelings for him, maybe you should step back a little, you know? Like hang put with other people, other boys, to keep your mind of him. I don't know if this makes sense to you, it's just my opinion because I've been and seen so much people getting hurt in situations where love is unmatched that know I believe the best is to have some distance and let those feelings go

[Grkgod12]

That sounds cool, fun if you both want the same things.
Have you two fooled around at all yet?

[Asker]

Not really.. maybe a little bit.. we kissed for like three seconds once

[Grkgod12]

How far do you feel that you want to go with him?

[Asker]

No limits Just not sex

[Grkgod12]

That's sexy! How far have you gone with other guys?

[Grkgod12]

Do you not want to say?

[Asker]

It's complicated lol Is there a private chat in this thing lol

[Grkgod12]

Yes. Follow me

[Asker]

How?

[Grkgod12]

Click on my nickname

[Asker]

They said I can't because I'm not level 2 yet..

[Grkgod12]

Do you have kik?

[Asker]

No what is it?

[Asker]

Hey.. you there?

[LiamSawyer]

Tell exactly what you want and don't want.

[0112358]

If I were single and had an attractive friend who wanted to do manual stuff on each other I’d be down.

[luma666aah]

Ya you admire eachother,

[Ripper_E]

I would only have a friend with benefits that is actually a friend.

[Asker]

First, why? Second we are friends..

[Ripper_E]

Because it's called friend with benefits, not stranger or acquaintance. I also trust my friends.

[winterfox10]

Fuck that... I would have absolutely no interest in that. Just be friends that occasionally make out when they get drunk together.

[Asker]

Why?

[winterfox10]

Because I'd just be getting teased all the time, without any of the fun of releasing the tension. I don't get spend the evening turning her on and then finishing the night with sex. I just get to masturbate when I go home and fall asleep by myself... That sucks

[Asker]

I know.. you are right..

[KrakenAttackin]

Well said.

[bigbaye69]

Start kissing touching rubbing and work my way down to sucking on that clit flicking my tongue over it licking her juices

[EABsTUQ]

Yeah I've done this before. I would probably do. And if he is having sex with multiple girls already then yeah he can handle it. I say go for it. Just make sure you guys talk about the rules.

[Asker]

Thanks💙

[shnarvin]

Make out, kiss necks, and grab each other's bodies like proper high schoolers

[tim7610]

If you want to save yourself for marriage then dont do anything that's involve any sexual activity of any nature.