He sounds like an idiot!
How long have you been friends with benefits with him?
About 10 months
How old are you two? And how did you two meet?
I'm 28 he's in his 30s and on a "dating" app
Tell him if you're just being used for sex, maybe you should start charging him!
Thatll make me a prostitute Thatll make me feel even worse
Money always makes me feel better... That wasn't really my point though. It sounds like he's treating you like a whore, and well, whores get paid. So he should either pay up or start treating you more like an equal in this thing you both have going on. (again, not actually suggesting you seriously start taking payments from him)
I get exactly what you're saying. He does call me a whore during sex too :(
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What exactly do I say... would he even care?
That's a tough one... I think just telling him how you feel is important and I don't know how it will unfold. He might be sensitive but he will probably understand
He sounds like a rather insensitive dork.
but aren't you also using him for sex?
if u dont want him to have sex with u i dont understand why u agreed to be his fuck buddy
seriously? why are u letting some guy fuck u if u dont want him to? thats rape
A lot of girls seem to think it's hot to feel like their man's personal sex toy
Its not normal what he's doing to me tho
what's he doing?
"You like being used you whore" during sex lol
Damn, that's rough. It might be a fetish of his, but if it's hurting your feelings, you might want to tell him. ☹
But I feel he won't care cause we are just friends with benefits...
I'm not really into friends with benefits so I don't really know how considerate they tend to be, but perhaps you're right, he might not care. You have to decide for yourself if that's the type of person you want to be friends with benefits with, or if you think that sexual gratification is worth his inconsiderate remarks.
He seems to have no respect for you. He almost seems like he wants to knock your self esteem down
Why is that?
I mean... just by what he is saying. I thought that was obvious that he is making sure you know he only keeps you around to get his nut
Lol that's halarious. No yea it's obvious what he's saying isn't nice but why is he saying that that I didn't understnad... and yes he's trying to keep me for himself why... for his nut I dont think im the only girl he sleeps with so why me?
If you dont like you can change it & have some privacy
You'd have to ask him why, it's weird. If it were me, I'd just respond with that back. "Yes, and I'm totally using you also, but keep talking and I'll say goodbye!" LOL
Are you stopping? No. Then that's why. He's letting you know he's got you. That pu$$y is his. Because he can take a shot at you and you're still going to f@@k him. It's just a power thing.
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