Tips for getting undone?

[Anonymous]

So this is a little embarrassing but I really need help figuring out how to... finish on my own. As a single woman, I have a lot of alone time and like any other woman I have needs, I try to satisfy them but just as I’m on the edge and I think that I’m going to finally see bliss... I’m coming back down. No matter how fast or slow, no matter what I use or how I use it, and no matter if I’m hitting my spot or not. I can never actually get myself off, what should I do?

[saggittarius039112]

Dont rush it. Take your time. Dont think about it so much. Relax. Clear your mind of anything unsettling and take as much time as you need.

[Asker]

I’ll try, I’m not too good at going slow when I feel it coming. As soon as I get close it’s like I can’t control myself and now all of a sudden I’m going as fast as possible.

[saggittarius039112]

Let it build slowly. When you wanna go fast slow it down. Let it build until... You can't any longer.😊

[Grkgod12]

Seems that you need more toys !
When was the last time you were with a guy sexually?

[Beta_Wolf]

Clear your mind first

[Browneye57]

Hitachi magic wand. You'll thank me later.

[curiosityonboard]

Concentrate on your activity... dont be double minded

[andy530]

It sounds like a mental block. What are you thinking about when you’re on the edge like that?

[Asker]

I don’t really know what I think of actually, my mind kind of goes blank and then I can’t really think straight.

[andy530]

Hmm that may be part of the problem... possibly. Do you orgasm when you’re with a partner?

[Asker]

I’ve actually never been with a guy, I’ve had chances but I was too scared that they’d get disappointed about me not being able to get there...

[andy530]

Ah I see. So to be clear you’re never had an orgasm?

[Asker]

The only times I feel like I have one is when I'm not penetrating, so I guess you could say that.

[Beta_Wolf]

Thats normal 95% of women have orgasms from foreplay and not the sex itself

[andy530]

Beta_wolf is right most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. You still sound a little unsure though

[Anonymous]

Maybe I can help can we chat some where other then this app?

[Anonymous]

Do you watch porn?

[Asker]

Sometimes but only if I’m rubbing, not if I’m actually penetrating. It doesn’t help me get close if I’m not just playing with my clit...

[Opinion Owner]

I rarely penetrate myself, I just rub my clit. I got a magic wand, but it broke. It was amazing it made me cum so fast.

[Asker]

I've been looking into buying a few toys but I'm not sure which are the best, a lot of people also recommend a magic wand. I'll definitely buy one.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes! I need to buy another one they are truly magic 😉