At what age does being a virgin creep guys out?

[Anonymous]

To make a long story super short, I'm still a virgin because for many, many years I was a caregiver to my ill father so I never really had the chance to date guys and get serious enough to the point of having sex. I'm 28 years old. Would a guy get scared of this or understand my past?

[TheFlak38]

Virgins over 30 are a huge red flag. The absolute minimum is 27. Women today have the freedom to fuck billions of guys and are unable to go against the urge of doing so no matter the circumstances. Your excuses about your father are lame and unconvincing. A virgin at your age shows me an arrogant entitled "princess" who thinks that she is entitled to the top 0,01% of men in this world and therefore uses everyone else for free meals and drinks in pointless dates. Any man who is dealing with women has met at least one woman like yourself. You will say that you need time, you need space, you need to think, you're not sure, all this dumb bullshit women love to say when in reality you could fuck a man of your unrealistic standards without even knowing his name.

[alice55]

Usually when a woman is a virgin so late it's because she's extremely insecure about her body and not because she's untitled.

[TheFlak38]

@alice55 I have seen insecure women whoring themselves by changing men as if they're socks. That's not an excuse.

[alice55]

I'm talking about insecure introvert women. Not extrovert.

[TheFlak38]

@alice55 My first girlfriend was introvert and insecure as fuck. She never allowed me to lick her pussy and barely wanted to try new positions. Wanna know what this introvert slut did? She was searching online on social media platforms to find available men to get fucked somewhere where no one knows her because she was afraid of getting shamed in the redneck village she was coming from. That's how she met the common friend we had who introduced me to her, that's how she met her first fucker and that's how she has met every other guy since then. Only she knows how many dicks she's sucked by now. Introvert women still have the freedom and the means to fuck hundreds of guys. You have no excuse.

[alice55]

And you're extremely bitter and why do you say "You have no excuse?" I'm a virgin cause I don't get out of my house and hate being touched or being near people no matter how good they look I just dislike it. As for your girlfriend she's obviously a slut and instead of being insecure I think she was just playing the insecure girl just to get compliment. A true insecure / shy girl would never do such a stuff. Personally I freak out just at the thought of someone kissing me it make e want to run away and sick to my stomach.

[TheFlak38]

@alice55 "a true insecure girl" really miss no true scotsman fallacy? LMAO You don't get to define who's a "true insecure girl". I know that as just another woman you feel entitled define whatever the fuck you want just because you have a vagina but only in your dream world. You're just as entitled as the type of woman I described above. You began showing it already.

[alice55]

My god you seriously got a problem. You should take medication for paranoia. Paranoia is not good at all, it's a dangerous things for you and for those around you too. And I'm sorry but there's a lots of fake insecure girl who fake being insecure just to get a compliment or just cause they didn't wanna be considered as arrogant. You should seriously see a psychiatre I'm sure they would be able to help you.

[TheFlak38]

@alice55 "You should seriously see a psychiatre" This is the same thing the bolsheviks were doing in Soviet Russia to anyone who disagreed with them and then sent them to a concentration camp for "re-education" and communists do it to this day, including feminists. And yes that applies to you as well. You pathologise the whatever someone says against you. The entitlement I've been talking about. Now Get the fuck out of my opinion.

[TheFlak38]

@alice55 You're not a conservative woman you bitch. You're a female chameleon. Play the conservative woman to your thousands of white nights.

[ZackBan]

I'm a virgin at 22 and seeing all these guys saying they're still virgins at 30 and 40 is scaring me right now.
But here's the thing, anyone who's turned off or alarmed by that fact is simply not worth it, for us both. I can assure you there are tons of guys who don't care in fact would feel special taking your virginity.
Possibility another virgin, i know i wouldn't mind a virgin girl to be my first. At least i can feel confident that I'm not being compared to more seasoned competitors.

[Horror_lover]

I'm still a virgin and guys loved that I was. They just couldn't wait that long for me so they gave up. Surprisingly my boyfriend is still with me and it's been 2 years now.
Every guy is different though but I haven't met a guy that treated me different like it was creepy. They actually understood why and told me that it's good that I want to wait. Every one has their reason and they respected mines.

[alice55]

I think if you're a virgin in your early 20s they would find it weird. I'm 21 and a virgin and a guy had told me "What are you waiting for?" and he mocked me.

[Hoss1981]

Fuck what they say.

[alice55]

@Hoss1981 True

[RemoErdosain]

It will come as a shock to a guy, probably, but it shouldn't be a turn-off or anything, just surprising. I was virgin until this year too, and it surprised my girlfriend. At first she didn't believe me

[Hoss1981]

Good for you. Honestly if he's a good guy he's not going to care or try and force you to change it.

[BestUserName100]

I'm 31 and one. Who gives a shit really tho. Maybe you just haven't found the right one or don't like sleeping around. You don't have to get laid if you don't want to. F it...

[Dargil]

Develop a confident narrative on your story and nobody should be creeped out. Your narrative should include. "I want to explore that now.".

[Haelaeix123]

I wouldn't be scared of a virgin of any age, it wouldn't creep me out either. It would make me curious but thats about it

[Agamogenesis]

My superficial answer is that anywhere above 25 for a girl, however my more mature answer is that it shouldn't matter.

[RLovesD7792]

no why would he. if he can't accept your sexual past then he's not worth having around

[ThatGuy133]

If they are a decent guy they wouldn't care. It's a valid reason. You put someone else before yourself and that's noble.

[OfDeath]

Come see me and we can change it for you

[DiversityHire]

Oh I can't imagine any guy would be put off by you being a virgin, hell many would be intrigued by it. It wouldn't be different if you were a guy, society is hypocritical lol.

Did your father pass?

[Asker]

No, he is healthy now. Thank you for asking.

[DiversityHire]

That's wonderful to hear!

[uuummmriiii]

Understand

[Dchrls78104]

I would fully understand you because I'm a virgin, too. You acted wisely and made the correct decision.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Virgin women are fine no matter what age.

[COMMODOREII]

85 years old. By that time Im willing to make sure that woman get some experience before she dies. 😂

[Twalli]

My girlfriend was a virgin until 33, and she even had a 10 year relationship with a guy from 18-28. So I don't really care. My girlfriend remained one because she was in love with being in love more than the person.

[hellknight666]

Hell no that's not a scare it's actually quite hot

[ballweevil]

Understand

[B2281]

No age of virgin would creep me out.

[Anonymous]

Something you don't expect to happen to women

[Anonymous]

Maybe 85 :) no one should be freaked out about this