Sex is good but?

[Anonymous]

I'm Jewish. My mother is Israeli and dad is German. I ve been friends with a group of people from university who are all extreme left and have one sided opinions on Israel. Last year, I began dating a guy from this group. However he is as follows

Supports antisemitic leaders who have clearly been antisemitic in the past
Is friends with anti Israel activists
Has participated in anti israel demonstrations
Has participated in Palestian solidarity events in which Israel is demonized
Is very good friends with all palestinians, muslim people and other people who are strongly pro Palestine
Supports BDS and boycotting Israel
Believes in destruction of Israel for Free Palestine agenda
Refuses to listen to both perspectives on Israeli-Palestinian issue and only believes the Palestinian side of the story
Was actively supporting a girl who clearly believes in the destruction of Israel and advocates for BDS
Has no interest in Jewish culture or religion but likes to influence his Spanish culture on me.
Is extremely hard feminist
Attacks or accuses people of using dirty tactics even if one gives a different opinion.
he's not mature either and is very arrogant and headstrong.

Has my photo as his wallpaper on his iphone. Loves sex and taking silly pictures with me.

Is this relationship worth it? Or genuine?

[thegirlfromthething]

Sex is good, but what? He clearly won’t respect you or half your family if this is how he feels about Israel and the Jewish people. He may care for you as an individual but he will resent those parts of you and you shouldn’t entertain even the thought of a relationship with someone who has such contempt for people like you.

[Asker]

Do you think he even cares? I thought he would make efforts to accept me as a whole but it only seems like I'm like them so I'm liked. Otherwise I wouldnt?

[thegirlfromthething]

He cares about you, but he won’t accept all of who you are.

[Asker]

Do you think he cares? Because earlier, I saw him liking pages of all his friends jobs, or community work but NOTHING related to me or my work. He would search pages on topics or his friends jobs/community work on facebook and like them but when it came to me, he never liked anything. Even when I worked at a famous NGO

[Anonymous]

Spanish people love to party. He seem superficial and not intent on changing himself for someone else. I'd maybe give him one more chance to soften up but if it's not going anywhere I would personally leave. Sorry but he seems like a douchebag to me...

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow thanks!

[AustinMan]

Sounds to me like he needs to get dumped and pronto. I have no time or patience with antisemites.

[Asker]

He claims he's not antisemitic

[Asker]

He also says he loves me. Do you think it's even true?

[AustinMan]

I don't think it matters. He's a poison to your people at a time when antisemitism is rampant in this country.

[reptocarl]

Fuck no it isn’t. I’d love to put a bullet in his brain

[Asker]

But he says I have your pockets on my phone etc

[Asker]

Picture on on phone

[reptocarl]

Yet he hates Israel and wants her destruction. Which is more important to you

[Asker]

So does that mean he doesn't love me genuinely? Is it just shallow love based on looks and sex?

[reptocarl]

What’s more important to you. His wanting the destruction of Israel or your picture on his phone?

[reptocarl]

I can’t believe you’re even asking

[Asker]

Obviously I dont agree with such horrid views. And a picture as a wallpaper doesn't prove anything. If the love is not genuine, not even thousands of photos can deepen it

[Asker]

Right?

[reptocarl]

Would you really be with someone that wants your countries destruction?

[Asker]

No neber