Is sex the only thing guys want in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[FatherJack]

No , not necessarily , but in your age group , males will have far higher sex drives than his female counterparts , so will be high on his list. If you are sex averse / asexual , then stick to friends only with the guys.

[baconninjadc]

Nope they want lots of things just like women want more than one thing. But if you are in a relationship with a man you better be having sex with him that is a requirement at least for me.

[tasleen]

It is one if the most important thing not only for man but for girls too

[bigmatt98]

Nooooo

[bigmatt98]

Yoyr a virgin wait till you find someone who cares about you more then yoyr body more then having sex and "popping your cherry" I'm not saying get married first but it should be special not all men only want sex there are good men out there I promise you that but do yoyr self a favor and wait till you need a good man who loves you before you give yoyr self to him in that way

[bigmatt98]

Now of course you can do whatever yoy want this is judt my advice

[Asker]

I m waiting for marriage it not for religious reasons

[bigmatt98]

I wouldn't wait that long personally but that's just me and I don't like the idea of marriage never have probably never will amd this comes from someone who could be with one person for the rest of my life but my love is between me and her not the govmernt and lawyers and shit if something happens we walk away no harm no foul amd move on but that's just me so why are you asking this question then

[Asker]

Because it seem like that only thing guys want in relationship, not love just sex

[bigmatt98]

Well I'll tell you this I want love but there is limits I won't go over I want a relationship not a relationshit but with that in mind if im. not having sex with in at least 3 months or less I'm gonna go crazy in my head so it is the number one thing I want no is it something i want and will desire and need yes

[Asker]

Guys only want love if sex involved

[bigmatt98]

Well yea humans are sexual creatures and when you lose your virginity you will see that you will want sex just as much if not more then men but you said is the "only" thing important to men sex and I'm saying no

[Asker]

I have hard times believing that because I heard stories how guys broke up with women just because she wouldn't give him sex or cheat on her because she wouldn't give him sex So sex is only thing important to men not women in their life. the only way I m going to know if a guy actually love me is marriage.

[bigmatt98]

Look at the statistics of marriage before you do that and remember you only live once don't be afraid to habe fun in your short life time and yes some men are like that not all tho

[Asker]

Are you sure men aren't all like that

[bigmatt98]

As a fellow man yes I am 100% sure

[Asker]

Okay

[bigmatt98]

Okey

[JustinTheGreat]

Obviously not

[MysticDevice]

It's a part of it for sure, but it is pretty far from being the only thing. Other stuff is important too.

[SAVAGE222]

Bkoz girls don't have anything others to offer. So yeah.

[loveslongnails]

In your age range, it will be about 80 to 90 % of what he wants.

[s2firestar]

No, not really. Sex for me is the cherry on the topping.

[Asker]

What do you mean by cherry on the topping?

[s2firestar]

I mean that sex is one of the best parts but everything else has to be in order for it to eork

[Asker]

Oh okay

[s2firestar]

Why, what is your experience?

[Asker]

I don't have any experience

[s2firestar]

Never even dated?

[Asker]

Nope

[s2firestar]

How so?

[Asker]

Because sex is always expected

[s2firestar]

And that is why you don't date? And no, it is not expected.

[Asker]

Yes and are you sure it not expected I heard about 3rd date rule.

[s2firestar]

Rule... xD funny thing... there are no "rules" when dating. If you find a dude that expect you to have sex with him after 3 times... well just leave him. I have my own ideas about when and how to have sex.

[Asker]

Ok if it actually true there rule when dating but I m still not going to date because I heard most men or all only date women for sex meaning they are using them for sex in a relationship.

[s2firestar]

Well then don't be an easy girl. My ex left me for another dude. She was easy with her... and... he left her 2 months after. Thing is... if she was not that easy, the dude would have left before.

[Asker]

I m a virgin I will not give a guy sex

[oncpl]

It is inevitable in relations.

[Dchrls78104]

Not every guy. Just like you, I have never been in a relationship or had sex, and in fact any girl who can offer me only sex is undateable for me.

[Shamalien]

Nope, and if it’s the only thing they want from you then you need to build yourself into something greater, something worth more than a fuck

[Twalli]

No. Some do, and some just want it with certain girls. Yet most guys want a deep loving relationship with at least one girl

[loveboye]

Nope

[Luxhian]

it depends on what woman you are

[OddBeMe]

I think both genders want sex the same. They just get turned on differently. Women might be more emotionally driven.

[B2281]

There are some guys like that yes. But not everyone is like that.

[Romeocuck]

no not the only thing

[johny0000]

Yes.. true.. but they will never tell you

[maddy4pg0t]

Nop..

[Asker]

Are you sure

[maddy4pg0t]

It depends on guy, but only sex in life is boring at some point evryone needs someone.. so you have to find at which point your men is.. i hope you understand coz i m little bad at English

[MysticMike]

In all honesty sex is great but it's not the only thing a guy wants in a relationship. Each guy is after a relationship for many reasons while sex is a good and healthy aspect for individuals it's not the only thing that is sought after.

[harryAvik]

Not in a sincere relationship.

[Anonymous]

It's technically the only thing we need you for, but when we start getting to know you we can often take interest in who you are as well.