Whats your thoughts on this, “Aside from rejuvenated pssy, some men prefer younger women because they like having someone who needs them”? Translate?

I take this as, when a woman (assuming same age or older) becomes independent, it makes the guy feel unwanted or at least not as needed anymore. So he goes for someone younger and more needy so that he has a duty to fulfill. Not sure if thats right but thats how i took it. What are your thoughts on that quote? #FeelFreeToList
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Whats your thoughts on this, “Aside from rejuvenated pssy, some men prefer younger women because they like having someone who needs them”? Translate?
Good point but i think there's more to the store than that
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  • I for sure agree with the rejuvenated pussky part. I mean after all, as with any gender, a younger person usually has a more attractive physique compared to a much older person. However, I believe that isn’t always the case, or there's more to it than that. I feel that men like younger women because younger women have the tendency to boost their ego. If you’re the ‘older person,’ the younger person will definitely think you’re right about a lot of things because you have more knowledge from experiences, and they will admire you for that most of the time. And I think most men just really like to be admired. Like It gives them an adrenaline rush and an ego boost that he may not get if he dated women of the same age or older. It may even be an assertion of their dominance and power, because they may hold onto the belief that women should be the more submissive partner which is probably what drives men to want to date women who are younger. I'm guilty of some if this myself.

    • Good point as well

  • That's definitely what the person was trying to say, and there's definitely some truth in that for most guys: men are designed to be useful in physical/practical ways. We design, build, create, and repair things, and we provide for and protect things. That's what we've done for millenia. Those are the things that most of us are best at providing, and what we are normally judged on for our social value, so if a woman doesn't need or care about those things, most men will feel lost and unnecessary - and probably unappreciated - and that's not great for men's egos.

    It would be like telling an image-conscious woman that she's not attractive, or a woman who is dying to be a mother that being a parent isn't important - they're not likely to be happy with someone who feels that way.

    • Yep thats right

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  • for me its more of a feeling less like a gender gap, you know like not knowing the others music tastes or maybe fashion sense. i think it could just be that an old soul in a young body that draws them together or it starts a creepy one sided stalker-ish relationship lol

    • Not for me at all. I need a close age gap of 0-3 years

    • thats cool , relationships are not etched in stone its what you make it , other people liking it or not does not matter because there not you.

  • Yes, SOME guys get there security in a relationship from knowing that they are needed. Some are fine with knowing that they are wanted.

    • Yepp

  • I needed him but he doesn't want that

  • Preferences and perspectives. Everyone has them. Each of them vary. Some may align to your quote, some may not.

    • Thats why im asking for perspectives and thats why the quote says “some”

    • Quite right. I'll prefer my stability and sanity with one woman staying with me forever.

  • I think most guys prefer the gravitas, experience, worldly wise mind of an older woman with the tighjt body of a younger one. But girls probably feel similarly about guys and youth is evanescent

    • Ahh that makes sense

  • Yes if course it's true for some. It's no mystery why modern men often feel useless and having someone around as a dependent gives their life meaning.

    It's not very good for the woman, at least not that I can tell. I'd rather have someone I view as an equal partner. The only dependents I'm interested in are children

    • Haha good point

  • Perhaps. But you could put the word "some" in front of any claim and it's hard to make a case for it being implausible - especially when it comes to reasons older men perv over younger women.

    Mostly, I think the issue is that guys don't instinctively imagine themselves aging beyond 22 or so. Thus it takes an actual conscious effort to force their sexual desires to keep pace with their aging body - work they see no point in doing, as most guys would be perfectly content banging on firm 20 y. o. ass in their 60s. We don't generally feel any sort of attachment to our own bodies and thus don't automatically understand why the age of our body should be a factor in who we should want to bone. That's the jist of it as I understand it.

    • Wow well thats a new way to put it 🤔

  • I only came here for the comments and OMG I cannot believe men really think we’re the insecure ones 😂😂😂😂

    • Excuses for their pervetednism (totally made that word up)

  • I can’t answer for any other guy but myself but submissive, dependent and needy women have always been a turn off for me. Having a woman who can’t do or thing for herself makes me feel like I’m with a little girl and not a grown woman. I want a woman. Not a child.

    I’ve always been drawn towards older women for this reason. Girls my age or younger aren’t usually mature enough for me. If she’s attractive that’s usually the best thing about her; her looks.

    With older woman you have a person who’s physically and mentally attractive. Anyway I went off on a tangent.

    I don’t mind being with a woman who asks for my help but I need a partner. Not a burden. I can’t be with a woman who expects me to do “everything” for her. I always imagine marrying a woman who’s my equal.

    My answer is no. But I’ve never been like most men so my answer might not be reliable.

    • No this is still a good point tho

    • As to why men like older women too

  • I think that it might be the case for some men but definitely not for ALL of them. I ask a lot of weird questions to my real life guy friends and a lot of them have said that they wouldn't mind dating an older woman.

    I think it's just a preference and it's very subjective.

    • Yea the quote says “some”

  • I voted B... yes it could be (that they "buy" themselves a girl) but I don't want to make it a statement.

  • Yep, I agree. It's the complete opposite for me. I don't like younger women who are desperately needy. But I definitely do enjoy women who can hold their own.

    • Well thats good

  • Older women can be "needy" as well, often very needy in emotional terms or even financially.

    • Thats true

    • I've noticed in particular that women in their 40s and 50s are sometimes very insecure about their looks (usually unnecessarily so) and require a lot of affirmation about them.

  • At this point in my life age doesn’t really bother me considering I am kind of set in my ways , I would just like to find a girl that wants to love and spoil each other and pretty much travel , so to start the whole family thing over is not really in my books , I been there and done it and had my heart destroyed but feel blessed i have awesome kids from it but my kids are older now , so for me to start over not really in my books so I mainly prefer a girl that already had kids or doesn’t want kids , if I meet a girl that wants kids I am upfront with her and tell her the truth that I am not the guy for her if she wants to settle and have babies cuz my baby making days are over plus I was fixed so that puts a hold on things as well lol I do get attracted to younger girls cuz younger girls make me feel alive and I feel I can treat a younger girl the way she deserves to be treated compared to guys her age that haven’t really experienced life and don’t really know what they want , I was that age before so I know how it is lol I feel I can save a younger girl from going through the hell a guy her age is going to put her through , just the way I look at things cuz I compare myself how I am now compared to how I was in my younger years and think damn I learned a lot , life is a journey and a learning experience is how I look at things , we all aren’t perfect people but we can learn from are flaws and mistakes if you choose to

    • Right on

  • I would say it's true considering the amount of guys I heard saying it bother them that independent woman don't need them cause they feel like the woman will cheat on them and not take the relationship seriously (those are so insecure it's crazy).

    • I know right

    • Yes the best is to just ignore them and get someone who's confident

  • Never thought of it that way 🤔

    • Yea it crossed my mind yesterday

  • The only reason I'd prefer someone younger is just to ensure I can have kids when that time comes.

    As for feeling wanted and needed. Lets not kid ourselves it's nice to feel wanted and it's nice to know your needed for men especially we crave responsibility and a role or duty to fulfill a purpose. And women as well like to feel wanted and needed because it fills that sexual component of knowing he wants you but also fills that nurturing side of yeah he needs me.

    But I don't think feeling wanted or needed as to do with age.

    • Thats a good way to put it as well. I was just saying how i interpreted the quote

    • Right, right.

  • I agree kinda. Some women might not be as established as older women.

    • True

  • I don't know, but it obviously feels good to feel needed, and I don't think that that's more of a guy thing or a girl thing. I would say there'd have to be a different reason if there's more guys preferring younger partners than women preferring younger partners.

    • I think the guy who listed 11 things showed that 😂

  • Not true. Older men want submissiveness. Women in their age are already hardened by life and honed by experience. Its all about power. And of course younger women are sexier that is just a fact

    • SUBmissive sounds similar to making a man feel Needed hence the quote... he wants something to dominate...

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