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Im having sex with a girl in a relationship. Advice?

So i started speaking to this girl on tinder afew weeks before she met her current SO. We never met in person. We decided to meet for casual drinks a month ago and since then we've been meeting up to have sex about once a week. She is still with her boyfriend and has no intention of leaving him. The problem is, at first i was just into hooking up with her. But now i noticed that I've started developing feelings for her. We always say it'll be the last time but then she invites me over again. she's drop dead gorgeous and the sex is amazing. I just dont know what to do at this point. she's not aware that i have feelings for her. Thanks guys
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd setup a group zoom with her, her current boyfriend and whoever else she's mating with and a therapist... it will be a blast! Might as well make something progress out of it. Be good to pay them for their work, you all need the help and it's a good time to work out this and evolve. Figure out why she's a mess, and what your value systems are. Maybe you would all make a good polyamory, or 3 some FWB's, maybe you are traditional.. given the screwy nature of the mating environment, I won't judge peoples emotions anymore.

    I started down this path long ago one time when I was desperate and bailed fast. So, I'm not judging your actions, but gotta make good decisions else the suffering can be substantial. There's lots of reasons she could be doing this so it is hard to say for sure if she'd be committed to you or not. I know a gal off GAG who did cheat w another guy because her relationship was chaos and she was insecure. After that was cleaned up, she met another guy and is faithful. It really depends upon what the underlying emotional issues are.

    Beyond that, it's a train wreck at slow speed. Hop off, stay on for the fun ride? your call...

  • You are setting your self up for trouble. You are thinking with your wrong head there mister. You want the fuck her brains out and then form an attachment based off her cunt and the amazing sex. In the end when reality sets in and the truth comes out, you are left in last place with a girl who's clearly cheating on her boyfriend. That put's you in a spot where you should question her moral ethics if this girl was yours and then found out she was fucking your best friend behind your back. Would it not bother you one bit?

    Look your self in the mirror man you are on tinder to get a piece of ass not a relationship because it's clear you are no ready to tell the difference from moral ethics to immoral ethics.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Prove you don’t just think with your dick and cut that bitch out of your life

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  • She's a disloyal piece of shit, and you're also an asshole for having sex with her anyway. Block her. Leave. Even if you were to end up together, she'd only do the same to you.

  • First get your head kicked in by her boyfriend for being a douche... then tell her to leave her boyfriend to be with you so that she can cheat on you in the future

  • What part of #StayTheFuckHome do you people not get?

    • I can't lie. This made me laugh

  • She's a trashy ho. (You're trashy, too, but that's beside the point.) I would advise you to walk away from that situation.

  • Abort now while you can

  • It's a little late for advice...

  • Break it off with her

  • Get out while you still can

  • How do you know she's not banging multiple guys other than you? Why isn't she leaving her bf?

  • Wrong person to fall in love with. She will cheat on you too. I suppose there is no way that you'll run away from that situation, because she's drop dead gorgeous and the sex is amazing. I don't think I'd be able to. So, even though that's what you should do, let's say that you keep having sex with her. Get those feelings the fuck away from you, man. She'll destroy you like she's destroying her current boyfriend

    • My mates all said the same. "Wall away. She'll do the same to you. Not worth it etc.." thats till they met her. And now they all understand. I wish i could shut the feelings off. But the problem is she does the most adorable things when we're together. Almost like a girlfriend. But i get what you're saying man

    • It's not a matter of meeting her or not. She can appear like the sweetest person of all, but if she's cheating on someone like that, she's not good enough. And trust me, I've seen people fake their feelings. Women are great at that

    • I'm not saying it's the case here, but it's something to be aware of

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