I had a 3 some with my boyfriend and his friend last night and during the 3 some my boyfriend let his friend suck his dick. should I question him on this?

[Irmachavez]

[dwcl99]

Well it could be weird, but I have a few questions:
1) Whose idea was it to have the 3-way? Yours or his?
2) Who picked the 3rd person, you or him?
3) Was he open to having the 3-way with another girl, or was he insistent on having it with this guy?
4) Do you give your boyfriend blowjobs? If so, do you swallow? If you don't swallow, is that something he asks you to do? I ask, bc if he really wants to experience cuming in your mouth, but you don't do that, he could have seen this as like his only opportunity to experience cuming in someone's mouth.
5) This is more of a comment than a question, but I find it a little bit weird that you're bothered by him getting a bj from another guy, when I think that I read in one of the comments that you said that you'd go down on another girl. I'm not accusing you of anything, but that in and of itself seems somewhat hypocritical. But again, I don't mean it to be mean or anything, eventhough it sounds like it, lol.
6) How long have you been going out?

Oh, and you look really hot in your profile pic. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy.

[dwcl99]

Thanks for the MHO.

[ZackBan]

Well questionning the homo bj feels like missing the big picture entirely in this situation.
I mean you're literally stunning a dream girl to many, myself included. Your boyfriend was willing to share you and that on its own should be a sign especially since it was with a dude. He clearly has a thing for men, I wager he only took part in that threesome so he can test the feeling of having sexual interaction with another man without cheating or going completely gay. With you there he could still say he got swept up in the moment if asked.
Ask if you like but don't expect an honest answer.
Also it's one thing if it was all your idea and you really enjoyed it. But if it was his idea then trust me you could do better than him. Way better.

[Anonymous]

If you are adult enough to participate in a threesome you are adult enough to ask the hard questions that pertain to your emotional and physical well being. It's important to your physical well being to know if he is currently having sex with men and if he is using appropriate protection if he is doing that if you have an open relationship.

When you go to the obgyn and they ask you about your partners and if there is any information they need about your sexual activity this is part of it. So you would say that you participate with threesomes and whatever. If you do the deed this is what you have to do.

[Irmachavez]

Im happy with my sex life and i always tell my doctor the truth.

[Opinion Owner]

Good just ask him what information you want to know. I wasn't sure if you were concerned about him being bi and/or having sex with men without you knowing it. It comes down to safety for you having the knowledge.

[Irmachavez]

Im thinking his gay

[Opinion Owner]

Probably not. He's probably a bit bi or a lot bi. Men your age are usually pretty open now about this kind of thing especially a man who would participate in a threesome. If you haven't noticed anything unusual while just the two of you are having sex then he's probably not gay most likely. He's might be just not totally straight. Some men will allow another man to do oral sex but that is far as they go or they might just fantasize and do nothing about or they actively get involved with both men and women. For you what his orientation is important for the physical safety of it because you need to know if he is participating in anal sex with men without protection which could put you at risk. Might be a good time for both of you to update your std lab tests.

[Opinion Owner]

I've haven't done threesomes not my thing but I think the nature of threesomes is that when you add more than 2 people one of which you don't know intimately there is a possibility of opening pandoras's box. I mean you don't know what wild card is going to be thrown in that might surprise. It could have been one of those well let me just go with the feeling kind of thing or I had that fantasy why not. Some people are sensation fluid people and don't really care who the person is that is providing that sensation.

[peachyknees]

I guess you can't ask him now ”What does HE have and I don't?”...

[MtoFtrot]

About what if he wants gay sex or he liked making his friend do that? I'm a switch and I have had 2 before and I found it hot watching the others do naughty things

[AustinMan]

First let me say that you are stunning in your profile pic.

How would you feel about having your guy go a little bi in those situations? I feel like it deserves a conversation. Here're some tips that I hope will help. This is a My Take I wrote on the subject a long time ago. Feedback welcome.

How to Talk to Your SO About Sex ↗

[drsatan]

It sounds like you all had a fun night!
You can question him about it, sure. But don't judge him or sound like you're judging him, just be like "I never expected you to be like that" or something, ask him what other fun secrets he's keeping hidden from you 😜

[Irmachavez]

I'm ask him that thanks

[OlderAndWiser]

Who suggested the threesome? What did you think was going to happen?

[Chelseab-87]

Umm. He’s definitely bi sexual.

[Chelseab-87]

I’m assuming you wanted to be the only on getting sexed ( run a train) on and wasn’t expecting them to pleasure each other. I think you definitely ask him how he defines his sexuality l. But no matter what he says he’s bi sexual. Pope Rios. No straight man is going to let another man suck on him...

[Mia-Wallace]

He's just bi.

[Secret6620]

Girlllllllllllll good luck. 🙅😱

[Irmachavez]

Should i ask him if his gay?

[Secret6620]

If you want to. 🤷✌️☮️

[normalice]

What would be the question you ask him?

[wankiam]

given that you had that dick inside you, unless you are seriously homophobic or have security issues post threesome i dont see what the difference is

[Irmachavez]

Its weird to me that he would let another man suck his tool

[wankiam]

yeah well thats understandable but its not the only weird thing about the situation so if you make a ''thing'' of it with him i suspect he will say similar to you about you fucking the guy... ofcourse you should be able to talk about what happened but i suggest you take more of an interest approach than maybe the judgmental one he might see if you give him a roasting over it... you must excuse all the obvious puns there ;)

[TadCurious]

Why are you surprised? Your boyfriend was obviously cool with having sex with another guy. That's what a MMF threesome is. Your boyfriend is bisexual.

[Apope16]

Well yeah. But yyou should have realized as soon as he let another man be in a threesome with his girlfriend. that should have been the clear sign right there.

[MackToday]

Here's the deal if your boyfriend is in bed with a fucking dude (even if you're there too) he's got something really wrong with his head. No normal man has dudes in his bed and no normal man wants a fucking dude anywhere near his dick. It's not normal healthy behavior, it's diseased. Don't bother questioning him he's a homo, find a healthy man.

[Irmachavez]

I guess..

[MackToday]

Got a very unpleasant surprise out of that degenerate act you performed didn't you?

[navyP]

@macktoday You are soooo wrong your absolutely closed minded. There are tons of couples who enjoy having others in their bed both male and female both couples and singles The swinglifestyle is full of people who enjoy playing with others We have had 3somes 4somes we have played with single men single women and we have played with couples as a couple I'm perfectly comfortable with having another guy in my bed

[MackToday]

@navyP I bet you are and for the same reason.

[J2ohhhhh]

It depends, did he say no homo or hi's not gay?

[J2ohhhhh]

He's*

[Kabluie]

It is a threesome, not a 2some. Blowjob is fair game by the guys, just as much as you would both of them.

[NickiB1]

you wanted 2 guys you got 2 guys😂

[igoforoldergirls]

No offense but a threesome isn't a good idea in a serious relationship. Maybe talk it over and reconsider having sex that isn't exclusive

[MannMitAntworten]

Oh yeah... definitely question him. Though, I have a sneaking suspicion that was far from the first time who who knows what else. Good luck.

[worldscolide]

LOL And you have either a closeted gay guy as a boyfriend or a bi sexual man as a boyfriend..

[Irmachavez]

I hope his bi

[Rippersavage]

Clearly u want to so u should.

In a FFM it's expected that the girls will do things to each other, so y shouldn't the guys be able to too in a MFM? U should have talked about this beforehand, sorry to say but u have no right to be upset over it.

Just so we're on the same page, I have no problem being in a MFM but I would never do anything sexual with the other guy because I have no interest in sexually pleasing and or being sexually pleased by another guy BUT however, I don't think there's anything wrong if other guys r into it.

[LilPeenis]

So I didn't read the comments but disregard them all. THATS 100% GAYER'N FUCK

[KrakenAttackin]

Agreed. Once you have a dick in your mouth you are gay for life.