Did he threaten to rape me in the past?

Anonymous

When I was younger, I was talking about my sexual history, porn and masturbation to this random guy than he freaked me out.

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This was from August 2018... he didn’t rape me... he didn’t mean it he has poor spelling grammar. He claims he doesn’t want to have sex with me and I wanted to have sex with someone else not Him. his a Australian guy

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Anonymous
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Maybe?

He's a sexually deprived dude who doesn't have any experience with women and somebody likely wasn't there to teach him manners on how to treat women. It's good you never talked to him again. Who knows what could have happened. You can't read intentions from text messages
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- Asker
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  I talked to him again.. he didn’t mean to rape me.. he didn’t rape me. he got taken of his mother when he was 10, because bad stuff happened in his home now he has a step father, she did drugs. his very young and very immature. Not good enough for me. So me and him ain’t talking he can’t stand rejection.
chriscdi Master
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his grammar gave me corona, honestly i dont think he even had the power to fuck you if he wanted too but im sure he was just some horny bastard trying to feed his fetish and trying to take advantage of you during the process, just block him
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- Asker
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  It was 2 years ago... and I blocked him
- Blublub
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  You said it better than I did
- Asker
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  I know him in real life
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- chriscdi
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  and choose wisely who you talk sexually too, there's many creeps nowadays that might be worse than this dude
- chriscdi
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  im sure he wouldn't even try, there's lots of risk in it after all, and if it stresses you so much then wear one of those pussy razor things that are used against rapists
- Asker
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  This are old conversations from 2018. I Hanged with him 8 times in person he was very touchy..
- Blublub
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  Then why don’t you move on! Clearly
- Asker
  +1 y
  Than I ended up touching him back.. find out he was a nice person but online he acts like a asshat
- Blublub
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  Why are you still involved with him. Ong
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  well then you are basically asking for it, what happens happens ig 🤷🏻‍♂️
- Asker
  +1 y
  I blocked him back than in August 2018. but than he would get people to tell me to inbox him.. it was annoying
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  every tried saying no, i know its very hard to pronounce but you can do it, i believe in you
- Asker
  +1 y
  I said no to sex too him to his face he knows where I live he never came over. I do a youth program his in it and others.
- chriscdi
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  well if you live in Miami i can help you with your problem
- Asker
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  I live in Australia
- chriscdi
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  oh that sucks
- Asker
  +1 y
  His dad dropped me off at home when I went over his.. that’s how he knows where I live...
- Asker
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  I never went back to his house I was dating him back than.. poor me what was I thinking.
- chriscdi
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  well if you keep talking to him in person then there's nothing you can do unless you really wanted to separate from this guy, seems to me that you like the attention or im sure you wouldve seperated
- Blublub
  +1 y
  You are asking for it.
- Asker
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  by the way he never raped me. And I still talked about sex to him afterwards in 2018-2019. He didn’t get sex though so sucked for him. He wasn’t a real boyfriend. In the youth program we ended up as friends. I am no longer a virgin so I hear after you have sex u want more. Am I asking for sex?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I didn’t have sex with him* I had it with someone else.
- chriscdi
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  by sticking around even after you told him no, yea it kinda seems like you are just in a secretive way, if you dont want it just block, avoid and ignore him, he will eventually give up and if he doesn't then you notify police about him, and dint delete the conversations
- Blublub
  +1 y
  She clearly wants him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  He doesn’t say stuff like that anymore.. he thinks we will do sexual activity again.. Is hoping we will. I Keep rejecting to date him. I didn’t trust him...
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  reject to have sex with him not just date, tell him you'll never have sex with him
- Asker
  +1 y
  Okay I said yes to the sexual activity but said no to sex. what do u think would happen if I tell him I’d never have sex with him?
- Blublub
  +1 y
  You are impossible lady
- Asker
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  I was a cock tease to him told him I’d have sex with him than said I’m not going to do it. I tell him I never have sex with him.
- chriscdi
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  sexual activity is sex, you are confusing him, if you are never going to fuck him just tell him and tell him seriously so you know that he knows that you are serious, stop playing games and im sure he will stop bothering you, and if for some reason it goes south he will try raping you and killing you
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  but i dont think it will go down that way, usually it doesn't
- Asker
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  Okay I mean sexual stuff that wasn’t sexual intercourse. He doesn’t want to rape me so. I told him that I’m never going fuck him. Than he said wtf why a random question.
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  you are confusing me, just ignore him
- Asker
  +1 y
  Okay it’s a long story... you seen me on here quite a while. His not saying anything sexual to me on inbox like he use to he doesn’t like talking about sex to me like he use to. I unblocked him in 2018.
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  sounds more like he is trying to butter you up again to then maybe do it again, but I don't know, do what you want at this point ig 🤷🏻‍♂️
- Asker
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  When I told him I will never f**k him he said what the f**k I don’t want have sex with a user or player. he thinks I’m a player and user cause I had sex with someone else. He doesn’t want someone’s left overs.
- Asker
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  I didn’t sleep with the guy... only tried it once.
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  then just separate, im not saying this is all your fault but the fact you keep insisting on this guy, block him and never speak to him again, dont even look at him, he is full of shit too and confusing, do yourself the favor and separate from him and dont look back in any way, dont unblock or nothing
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don’t talk dirty to him anymore...
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  doesn't matter just to avoid anything at all
- Asker
  +1 y
  He isn’t trying anything... really.. I feel safe when I go to the youth program. His a nice person...
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  you know who else seem like good people, serial killers, until you turn into the victim but ok do what you want
- Asker
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  All adults that knew him in my old school told me it.. his not going to rape me... Otherwise he would have done it by now.
- Blublub
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  Why would you even ask this question if you are refusing to listen
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  i wish i had a metal bat and her head right now
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yes he did threaten to rape me but he didn’t mean that... I hanged with him 8 times in person... I’m not a victim.
- Asker
  +1 y
  His not after sex
- chriscdi
  +1 y
  okay
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeh so I learned not to talk about sex to random guys..

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G3tAClue Xper 7
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Yeah he definitely did. He’s a dumb creep, don’t tell him where you live.
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- Asker
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  He knows where I live...
- G3tAClue
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  Then watch out. He probably won’t do anything. Most guys are all bark no bite but carry some pepper spray with you and lock your doors. I wouldn’t trust him to not be a psycho
- Asker
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  It was back in 2018. He never came over. He knows where I live since last year.. Due to his dad dropped me off home with him in the car at night i always keep my doors locked.
Blublub Xper 6
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What the fuck this guy doesn’t even write anything intelligent at all
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- Blublub
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  Can’t understand most of what he’s even saying
- Asker
  +1 y
  Me either I thought he threaten to rape me... but he never raped me
- Blublub
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  He’s clearly an asshole. It kind of does seem like he threatened to rape you yeah but assuming he doesn’t know where you live just block him and cut all ties with him
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- Asker
  +1 y
  He said it 2 years ago. he knows where I live and I know where he lives met him in real life his nothing like it he has autism and he was nice to me at one stage I blocked him because he was too much drama doesn’t say nice things.
- Blublub
  +1 y
  Yeah whether he has autism or not you don’t want anything to do with this guy he’s a jerk
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don’t talk to him anymore his not a dangerous guy but he wants girls for sex and nudes.. his not worth it.

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SomeGuyCalledTom Guru
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Eugh, what a chode 😂
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- Asker
  +1 y
  He lied and didn’t mean it this was back two years ago.
- SomeGuyCalledTom
  +1 y
  He still sounds like a douche either way lol
- Asker
  +1 y
  He is a bit of a douche, he joked around about the rape back than I told him I never have sex with him than he told me wtf I don’t have want have sex with a user and a player.. we not talking anymore.. than gosh had enough of him.
MackToday Guru
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Sounds pretty fucking weird lousy English skills too what is he some goat fucker?
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Rainbowdash_999 Xper 1
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just was a stupid commet
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Twalli Master
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I don't think he meant it that waym
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- Asker
  +1 y
  he never raped me and a dude told me his not dangerous... last year and he just wants nudes and sex his not my type of guy to talk too and be with.
Anonymous
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So, you've been talking with him about sex and porn, and then when he says he's going to have sex with you, you assume he intends to rape you?

Why do women do this?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  This was 2 years ago he joked about it but I still have the screenshot of his message but he won’t rape me. He told me he doesn’t want have sex with a user and player he was very rude to me so I don’t talk to him anymore
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Well I agree you shouldn't talk with him anymore. I just read your other question and he sound like a nutter. You should stay away from him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Exactly yeah I gave him mixed signals wouldn’t be clear on I don’t want sexual stuff with him. Seen him 8 times don’t want talk to someone who treats me poorly. I deserve better He knows I still have the screenshot of him threatening me so he feels threaten his a very immature and very young. I will live my life and won’t worry about him.
Anonymous
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It is an Indian guy, they don't really understand lol pretty sure they didn't mean it in a harsh way just dirty talk, I know it can come off as paedophile vibes but sure it was meant to be dirty talk
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- Asker
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  His a Australian guy
- Asker
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  With a white tan
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Wtf lol, dont think he meant it in that way lol, some girls like guys being extremely dominant
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- Asker
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  This was back 2 years ago. he never raped me and I told him I never have sex with him than he said what the f**k he doesn’t want have sex with a player and a user.. calls all girls players.