Do You Perform The Same Sex Acts With Every Partner? Or Does It Depend On The Person You Have Sex With?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Is it the act? Or the person?

People are always asking what are you into. But personally, for me? That depends on the person you're with, the chemistry/connection. How heated things get between you.

You wanna do what?

There's things might be willing to do with one person might not be willing to do with someone else. To me sex should be different with a different person. It's what two individual people make each other feel.

[DizzyDesii]

I won't lie lol, there was one month in 2016 where i was virtually hoeing. I hit every dude with the same line during our sexting. 😂 i was just copying and pasting to everyone. But i’ve matured 🤣👍👍 i know have had a different experience with anyone else. When it came to sex, my first ex and i did it in public just like my second ex and i, but it was so different! It was more “scary or fun” with the first ex while more “romantic and passionate and heated” with the second. As for the ones i had phone sex with, one broke his bed and one hurt himself 😂 even when they got off for me at their job places, it was so different. Same sweaty reactions but the thought of getting caught took it to whole nother levels. I had much more to describe but im going blank rn haha. But yea i think the person, mood, and place setting all play a part. As well as how strong of a connection you have! I was in love with the guy who broke his bed and he was the first to make me squirt 😂 so our phone sex felt hella real like we was really doing it haha 🤣 same goes for my second ex. Even when he couldnt hit the gspot, it still felt amazing because how much i loved him. Ok now im talking too much, i’ll stop 🙈

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lol it's okay... You deserve mho just for how hard you worked to even answer this question 😊🤗 and then great answer 👍😊

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂😂 thank you haha #TheStruggleWasReal

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂😂

[Kezzz]

@DizzyDesii Colour me impressed!😯👌

[DizzyDesii]

@Kezzz oh lordy haha

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You earned it, literally 😁😂

[shreya_shiry]

It's depends on my partner. Like when I get to know my pertner then I open about sexual things which I think he would like. My sexual relation with my current boyfriend is so much different than what I had with my ex

[MrOracle]

I would say that I do the same things for the most part, but I do them in different frequencies/proportions, depending on my partner and what makes them react the best/most. Most girls enjoy similar things, but some are less "average", and most have something they particularly like or that they just don't like as much as the average girl, so you have to fine-tune your approach with each one.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Very well said!!👍😊

[Tunasub]

No. Not everyone is into the same things... what one woman likes another may not. Communication comes into play as far as "likes and dislikes" are concerned.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That's what I always say. Communication is key. Well said!!

[Tunasub]

Thank you..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😊😊

[JJ_Bear]

There are a few positions that I personally enjoy because of what it allows me to do for my partner [hands and/or mouth free to play]. I haven't been in a situation where something doesn't work. But each partner def has their personal pref on what they enjoy more.

[Lliam]

What you said makes perfect sense, bbb. Different people have different tastes and abilities. :-)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And different chemistry can pull out different desires

[sensogal]

It's different each time, mostly depending on the person I'm with how we bond and the chemistry. It then also depends on our mood, our energy level, and the amount of alcohol 😂

[JackSmy]

I think it is a personal, private thing, and each person should have the right to feel what they feel, and love, or play with who they love, and not need it to be labeled as something like a sexual life style!
You get a little drunk with trusted friends, and sometimes, without the social stigmas, you maybe wonder, and try, and play around a bit? Does it 'change' who YOU are? Hell, NO! But maybe opens your mind to something new, fun, and interesting to share when you are with ones that share the same feelings!
I love some very personal, intimate things, when I am with a lady, but I never assume she wants what the others might have! It depends on HER, and what she likes! Maybe she likes similar things, to a point, but then she has her own special joys, and sometimes I like finding some that she never knew she loved!!

[PassionPlaya]

Gotta gotta Appreciate and discover and reevaluate accordingly... if ur a SELFISH SEXUAL person or a SHARING SENSUALLY SENSATION? Learning reversal roles and not always leading and unwilling to learn... to many focus on Perfecting Personal Pleasures, but Discovering U?(urself or loved one) or U? (Ur ideas of what gets u and u off only) may not be always that pleasurable by some to Force ur perversions upon them

[WhiteShoulder]

I totally agree

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I know you get it 😊

[Barry88]

No, really depends on the person. My ex-girlfriend liked role play. Sometimes she was dominant and I was submissive, at other times we changed the roles. My current girlfriend is more the vanilla type and she is not into that. So my sex life is different with her. More intimate.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly. It's part what two people get into, and what you feel and desire from one another

[Barry88]

Yes. No person is the same. The dynamics in each relationship are different. My girlfriend is not the same person as my ex-girlfriend and therefore we don't perfom all the same sex acts. There are things I did with my ex-girlfriend which I won't do with my girlfriend, and the other way around. It's both okay, it's not that one thing is better than the other. It's just different. :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well said! 😊

[Avicenna]

Mostly the same, but some different things too

[Dargil]

I don't engage in casual/random sex. I think there should be a baseline of "fondness", even if it is brief infatuation, like the girl expression "fling".
If I am going to have sexual relations, my primary intent is to give her an orgasm. I want anyone I choose to be naked with to feel loved even of only for a short while. Sure, I want to cum at some point but I get a lot of satisfaction from shaking her ground.

[TCredo]

Nice post and thoughts here Toots :) And I agree - it varies based on the person and, certainly, even with the same person the sex acts will vary with all the variables involved (i. e. a more passionate, lengthy time vs. a quickie). Could have a long slow building time during wake-up time... but if the mood and opportunity pop up mid-afternoon, she might just get her panties down and bent over the kitchen island :)

But I digress lol... from partner to partner, two people's individual and combined likes and chemistry etc make for things being different - as I think on this... getting flashbacks to my college girlfriend... she absolutely loved having sex in outdoor spots - which is an example of something that isn't for everyone.

And also... butt play is another example... some love everything about it... some just certain aspects... and some it's "GO THERE AND DIE!" lol...

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly

[MannMitAntworten]

It varies greatly.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

As it should! 😊

[JessicaOrtiz]

Depends on the person, if we have a good connection and they know what they're doing I'm open to anything

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on person.

[TonyMetal_1986]

I'm not an animal to make sex with every girl i see.
Sex is only done after marriage and should only be with a spouse!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And if your spouse died like mine did? Don't assume this question was meant about different random people constantly. But for people who have gotten divorced, or who's supposed died, they may have more than just one sex partner in their life. And that don't make them animals.

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well being divorced makes is hard for someone to be married again and some widows will never marry again. Now to answer your question, if i ever wanted to be in love again, i'll wait to have sex after marriage, just like i did the 1st time... Love is the ingredient that makes sex beautiful!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Didn't say it wasn't. But that really wasn't the question. But thanks for replying

[TonyMetal_1986]

Your welcome and i know what you were asking! Each person is different which means his or her sexual taste is different! Can't make the same sexual things with another spouse because they might not like it or even accept it! It differs between a person and another just like anything else!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well that's one way to look at it. I more mean what someone is capable of making you feel, something maybe you don't think you would be into but you are because the heat of the moment, or you get into it because you know it gives them pleasure and you get pleasure in their pleasure. That doesn't happen with just anyone.

[TonyMetal_1986]

True, it varies between a person and another.

[lawhawk84]

There are things in general you tend to really enjoy right? Sure you might trust one guy more than another enough to try something new but in general there are things we all enjoy and tend to go back to. Then there are things that vary.

[seethroughmyeyes]

Depends on the person , some love it soft some love it rough , some love talking dirty , I'm someone who loves it all and enjoy it as well

[BigSancho23]

It varies with each person because everyone's got different likes and Kinks and fetishes but for the most part I mean I have my go-to s but it does very

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

As it should. It should be by sexual chemistry, not every two people have that together

[loveslongnails]

Different women like different things. I'm "willing" to do pretty much anything a woman wants to do, and yes, I DO mean pretty much anything at all ! :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Of course you do 😊😂

[loveslongnails]

Well I do. It's been my observation that when most people say that, men or women, they don't really mean it. Their "anything" is far more limited than mine :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I know mine is cuz no pee play 😂

[loveslongnails]

Everyone is entitled to have hard limits. I'm sure you have others, as do I, as does everyone. It's just that I've heard girls say " yeah, I'm up for most anything", but in the end, there's way more "no, I won't do that" than " yeah, let's do that!" LOL

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But wait, you said you'd do ANYTHING lol that means no limits lol so see not even you would do anything 😊

[loveslongnails]

Blondie... re-read my post darlin'... I said " I'd do PRETTY MUCH anything" ... I did NOT SAY "anything". Pretty much means a lot, but it doesn't mean all or everything! :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Oh wow, came at the blondness. Now who being snarky 😜 could it just be don't have my glasses on and blind as a bat 😜 😁

[loveslongnails]

omg... excuses? Are you making up "excuses" for misreading? LOL

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Well if I am, I'll have another after drink the vodka I'm having 😊

[loveslongnails]

That's the girl I know and adore !! :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Aww shucks oh wait someone told me guys hate when you say aww. Now who told me that 🤔🤔 if only I wasn't so blonde, maybe it would come to me 😂😂😂 yep being snarky, someone told me that, too 🤔😜

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm pretty flexible when it comes to sexual things. So I might end up having a different style depending on who I marry.

[Kezzz]

It depends on how much trust we have and how willing we are to try new things to improve the sex. Personally, I'm game for anything that may please her more. Doesn't hurt to try