One thing I'd do when I was single and dating in the early stages before sex, which related to the last part and especially part three, is screening to see if she'd be open to it in the first place and letting her know subtly and indirectly that I had a kinky side - or a "darker side" as my girlfriend put it - by making little jokes here and there. When you've been talking for a bit, now you're flirting or bantering back and forth - you start to throw out bait and see how she responds. I might jokingly tell her off for something, for example especially if she's playfully mocking me in some way, and tell her that she's going the right way about getting a spanking, getting put across my knee, whatever. Then I'd see how she'd respond to that. If it's anything but a negative response where she thinks you're a weirdo, she's probably open to some level of kink. If it's something more flirty, definitely. At the very least this plants a seed in her mind.As you get further along, you can perhaps begin to talk about kinks and you should do before doing these things. If she's never done it before, it's best to start light - just handcuffs and blindfolds at first. Telling her what to do in the bedroom - position etc.. A little bit of rough play. See how she feels about it, then go on from there gradually.
Feel like if I mentioned it to her and she would be super into it she would be good since it tells us that she was looking for it.
So your saying it’s more a case of meeting a regular girl and converting her i to that lifestyle? It’s not a bad idea it is a bit christian gray though (ps I hate it when people compare me to him)
Unless you find a group to join. Look up the word "munch".
There's a few munches on Fet life well not till the virus is gone but yh.
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Probably out of 10 a 9 I like gentle bruising.
BDSM requires partner trust you have to build that trust with people before that will allow you to go that aggressive
The issue is how do you know what your building your trust on? If she’s vanilla your wasting both your times really.
To find someone willing to go full extreme bdsm is hard in general. They are out there but its rareBuilding trust with a partner will allow for the pushing of boundries in the bedroom
You dont know if she is vanilloa till yoi try. And if she is then you then make a choice aboit whether its something you can lool past. Lots of people breakup due to sexual. Incompatability
Yh I see what you're saying someone has also said it's a case of starting off slow and moving up wich is how most things go.
Could be the case but where I am in the Uk doesn't seem to be.
Bdsmdate was good until the site got spammed with fake girls in london telling me to go to this website etc. But try the others thanks.
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