There is this standard that men should be experienced and women should be virgins. It's the same standard and comes from the same set of beliefs. That men are inherently dirty and women inherently clean. By having sex he pollutes her, and cleanses himself. If you have problems with the "women should be virgins" thing understand that this is the other side of that standatd. I get it, everyone has preferences. I prefer experienced women myself, but it is a stereotype.
Why ghost him? He could be a really nice person who is socially awkward , who is low on confidence. Just get to know him , there will be a back story for his 40 years of virginity. He might be even lying to you get some sympathetic sex
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What are you afraid of? That you'll have to hold his hand? so what if he is a virgin? That doesn't make him any less of a person than you. You have no idea what he went through in his life, and it shouldn't concern you that he is. What matters more is that he is a good person (not a creep), knows how to take care of himself and be able to raise a family + maintain a job.
But hey, go ahead and ghost him. You don't deserve him anyway
What exactly are you even looking for? A hook up or a serious relationship? This honestly sounds like some random guy you met on tinder and that you're looking for a hookup, because if you really wanted a serious relationship, this wouldn't sound like a big deal and something you'd get over with when you actually got to know him. Sounds more like a fling. Otherwise lool
I’m not into virgins. I want a relationship but not with one.
EVERYONE:
And now you know how MGTOWs get created...
Because I don't want to take their virginity and prefer someone more experienced? That sounds like all you think about is sex and probably don't deserve a woman at all.
It sounds like YOU are the one just thinking about sex. Never had a virgin before?
No. I haven't ever had a virgin before because I'm not interested in virgins. YOU are the judgmental old man who is saying that because old virgin men don't receive interest from women, it justifies their hatred towards women.
What I would "do" is be beyond desperate to get some pussy..
Have Steve Carell star in a movie about me.
Grab another $200 and hit the strip Club. Or by age 35 i would’ve called an escort.
I guess I'd just keep doing whatever it was that was keeping me a virgin for that long 🤨
That's a sad life.
Sounds like it, right? Luckily I don't have to worry about that 😂
id die a virgin ig, hopefully gets me a better mansion in heaven 😆
Probably pay a hooker at that point...
Lol but u told me that was stupid
@Player_2 cause you're fucking 22 xD also that was a joke...
Me and this guy should go together
Get laid immediately.
Fuck him then ghost him
I'm not into virgins.
He’s probably not into you either, so just make it happen.
He wouldn't be messaging me constantly if he wasn't.
I am actually 42 years old and a virgin. Part of the reason I'm proud of my virginity and have never dated is girls like you.
You're still alive? You likely wouldn't get a woman anyway.
And I'm the better for it, if all women were like you. I've seen too many of your type in my country.
Right. You're likely depressed about it. You deserve to be for being so judgmental. I'm going to ghost him because I think it would hurt worse to tell him that I'm not interested because he is a virgin. You deserve to be alone and see better men having sex and relationships with women. You don't deserve to have anything.
That's extremely shallow and judgmental. You're going to ghost literally just because of that?
Should I tell him "I'm not interested in virgins" which would make him feel worse about being a virgin?
It's fine if you choose not to date him, but its not fine if you ghost him. You can still treat him like a human being
You didn't answer my question. It would hurt worse to be told that the reason why he is undesirable is because he's a virgin aside from being ignored which is common in online dating.
Don't know , is there such a thing
That messed up
23 yo virgin here I’m gonna lose it at brothel in Nevada
Curious if the asker thinks it’s worse to lose it to a hooker or remain a virgin till the age of 40. Assuming you don’t contract std’s.
Would you believe I'm 34 years old. I love sex but yet I'm still a virgin.
I guess I'm not to far away from 40yrs.
Oh well. I guess you should ghosted me too
You still have 6 years.
Yes I do so I'm hoping to get something before I reach 40. Hiya
Visit a massage parlor.
Ghost him? That's really mature and kind.
It is compared to telling him he's not desired due to his virginity and making him feel worse. What are you guys not understanding that "ghosting" happens all the time in online relationships? When women talk to a number of guys messaging her and decides that she's not interested so stops responding?
Pretend the technology didn’t exist to do that. Then what would you do?
Blame women, vote for trump and be nasty to strangers online.
Did he actually admit that he is a virgin at that age?
He did after a few conversations. He said that he felt it would be better if he told me earlier and let me know.
Doesn't sound like an unusual case, for years now I have felt that cases like him are more common than we think
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