Is it true that girls hardly ever finish?

I’m a virgin so I have no idea lmao but I keep seeing comments from girls talking about their sexual experiences and how ‘most men can’t make a woman finish’. Is that true?
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  • Based on what women have told me, there are certainly a larger-than-reasonable number of men who can't seem to get their women to orgasm, but in my opinion it's really not that hard for MOST women (a few women have trouble getting there in any way - with a partner, with a toy, with their fingers, etc.). If you give her a decent amount of foreplay, you can give her a couple of orgasms before sex even starts, and make it much more likely that she'll have one or several during sex as well.

    Of course, your first few times, it's probably unrealistic to expect orgasms - it's new and overwhelming and many girls need some time to adjust and get used to it - and others enjoy it and orgasm from the first time, but that's more the exception than the rule. But good foreplay, and keeping her mentally aroused, is the real key. When I'm dating a girl, I'll drop her little hints all day long, to keep her thinking about what's coming all day long, so by the time it actually happens, she's already most of the way there before I even touch her.

    Some guys are just very selfish and self-centered and can't be bothered to give foreplay or the mental/emotional connection stuff, and so, yeah, she doesn't get there during the 5 minutes he pumps away. If you choose to stay with a guy like that, well, you shouldn't expect much...

  • Your statement "most men can’t make a woman finish" is very diplomatic and I think it probably has a 60% yes, 40% No answer 😁

    I think before Year 2000, in our parents or grandparents day, when there was no or very little online info, many men do not know much about the sexuality of women. Hence the statement is almost 100% true.

    But today, even a site like this shows guys know what to do give girls an orgasm, long before they are married.

    So in a "diplomatic" way i answered, in the past we may not know, but today we know. It's just whether the guy you are with WANT to give you an orgasm or not.

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  • Usually a case of him starting too soon.

  • In sense of penetraruve sex alone doesn't bring all women to orgasm.
    You might need to stimulate your clit at the same time to experience orgasm while being penetrated.
    I'm an advocate for learning how to get yourself off even before you experience sex because if you don't know how to get there how can you expect someone else to get you there!

  • I think that if a guy likes you, he will do whatever it takes to get you to finish !
    How far have you gone with a guy?

  • guys can finish from just about anything. some girls can as well but some can't or just find it a lot easier to finish from a specific type of stimulation whether that's vaginal penetration, oral, clit stimulation, or even sometimes anal. just depends on the person (and to a lesser degree the partner)

  • If you're not getting off you're with the wrong partner.

  • Who cares?

    It's the male duty to ask her out, pay for everything, entertain her, then act like her personal vibrator with Energizer Bunny batteries?

    Sex takes two (Usually. Some people might say it takes three. Some will say it only takes one!) and if the female can't take some responsibility, then tough.

  • Sometimes i ask if she wamts tp squirt usually "yes daddy" but i don't stop till that squirt is cumming all over me ha

  • Clit stimulation is usually the best way for girls to finish. Sex is just insertion.

  • Depends what kind of guy you get rid of sand what he's after cuz I make sure that it's my duty to make sure I get a girl off of every time

  • Most of the time, that is false.

  • Not at my house I always make sure she vums 10 to 12 times before I do

  • Not true.