Got busted at a nude beach, was she trying to humiliate me?

Question

Yesterday i went to the beach for the last time before they are all closed. Its a pretty empty area and a clothing optional beach so i thought i would go nude and get my full body tan. The beach was pretty much empty.

Anyway, i was lying there half asleep and someone said my name. I panicked, looked up and it was my cousin and i was absolutely mortified. She just started chatting to me and then put a towel down on the sand and started hanging out with me (she was wearing shorts and a bikini top). It took her a good 10minutes to acknowledge the fact i was bare butt naked.

All she said was " i wish i had the guts to do that, maybe one day".
To be honest after a while i didn't even care that i was naked. We hung out for a couple of hours, had a swim and then I got dressed and we walked back to the carpark.

Do you think she was cool or was she trying to humiliate me?
I hope she doesn't tell anyone but im not sure if she came and said hi because she wanted to make me feel embarrassed or if she just didn't care that i was in the nude. What do you think?

dantheman1118 · Accepted Answer

Maybe she truly admired what you were doing. I know people like that. People who want to but just can't. If she wasn't having you do weird things or she didn't have her camera on her phone on I would say she just thought it was cool that you could do it. Why was she there clothed? What a weirdo.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

in my opinion, there's nothing to indicate that she was shocked or bothered by it. If she was, likely she would have made a big deal about it right at the start.

scotcheggs · Accepted Answer

doesn’t sound like she was tryna humiliate you. it’s nice that she’s comfortable enough to just come and chat to u while ur naked, and compliment it lol

Poppymarie · Accepted Answer

You’re on a nude beach, she didn’t care. I’m sure she was just being friendly!

MountainMetal · Answer

She sounds like she was very nice, i think your more worried about it than she is.

Laydagoat__ · Answer

Sounded like she was really cool about it. Good cousin!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It doesn't sound like she was trying to humiliate you , just be thankful it was her and not some police officer wow a close call , you just never know anymore got be careful now days?

soe11 · Answer

You did absolutely right thing, so don't worry about it at all. Be brave

AstroBebop · Answer

Probably wasn't tryna make you feel embarrassed. But side note, don't get naked in public if you're scared of being seen naked in public lol

clampfan101 · Answer

Sounds like she was cool with it. I’m assuming she won’t tell anyone else.

Druvzz · Answer

Which beach was it?

Qonyboi · Answer

You're both women, so I don't think so. If you were a dude I'd definitely say yes.

Rudon00 · Answer

Nah I don't think she was trying to humiliate you. I can't wait for this social distancing and quarantine to come to an end so I can walk the shoreline of the beach naked again. woo-hoo

UKMidsGuy · Answer

Doesn’t sound like she was trying to humiliate you. After all this is over why don’t you ask her if she wants to go there again with you, might give her the confidence to try it herself