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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?

I can think of a ton of answers, both negative and positive, but I want to hear what you think. I am referring to both males and females. The pro's and con's are very unique to each, I know.

If you are not overly endowed, just make your best guess and then the ones who are overly endowed will tell you if you are right, or not, and what you missed …lol
What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
A. The pro's as a female are being noticed by guys
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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
B. The con's as a female is being noticed by guys that you don't want to be noticed by
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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
C. The con's as a female is that carrying too much weight up top can cause back problems and makes it hard to exercise at times
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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
D. The pro's as a guy is having the rumor get out and then being the curiousity of lots of girls
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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
E. The pro's as a guy is not suffering any embarrassment in the locker room for being too small
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F. The con's as a guy is suffering embarrassment and teasing in the locker room for being too big
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What are the upsides, and downsides, to being overly endowed?
G. OTHER, see my comments below for more "pros" and "cons", or just open the "Over Endowed" survey
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Select gender and age to cast your vote:
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Here's a con... everyone is jealous!

https://youtu.be/VNZf3jSV6lw
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As a Massage Therapist, I have worked on many women who have sore backs due to the cantilevered weight they are carrying on their chests. The pain is in their back, but the cause is due to over-used muscles in their chests.
    I know- their breasts are NOT muscles. However, the thing that is worse than tense muscles are tense muscles that are also being stretched at the same time, and THAT is what happens when an over-endowed gal sits or stands.
    Take my word for it. My back was in 8/10 agony many years ago. I went for a massage from one of my massage instructors. He did not spend even one minute working on my back. 100% of the time he worked my chest, shoulders, abs, anterior hip flexors, and diaphragm. After 90 minutes, my body torso backward to an upright position and the pain was down to a 2/10.
    Gals, at the very least, get a good-fitting bra with wide, padded straps to distribute the weight over a wider area. PM me if you have any questions.

  • F. is not a thing that exists.

    But something that DOES exist is that guys that are really large may certainly get lots of curiosity and sexual interest from women, but they often don't get "repeat business" because sex with them is too painful. I knew a guy who was publicly very proud and macho about his big dick, and many of the women in the group had sex with him. ONCE. But almost none of them had sex with him again. And he would start dating a girl, and put off sex as long as he could, but she'd want it, and then, a week later, they were broken up. We were talking about his relationship problems privately at one point, and he was brutally honest about how it had an upside but a HUGE downside, as he'd never been able to maintain a relationship, even though he really wanted one.

    So... too big can be a real problem.

    • True, true, man I hate when that happens to me. LOL

    • @888theGreat I like how it's quagmire answering this😂😂

Most Helpful Girls

  • My beau took this shot for my personal Snapchat page last week.
    My beau took this shot for my personal Snapchat page last week.

    I have rather big breasts. 36D. They get compared to melons often.

    Pros: I feel that with big (ish) boobs, I don't have to put in as much effort to look sexy in various stages of dress/undress. They (my boobs) balance out with my butt nicely, giving me what many have told me is a perfectly-proportioned body when paired with my height. I get loads of attention from both men and bi/lesbian women, and back when I worked as an exotic dancer I would bring home $1500+ on a good night, all thanks to my bangin' bod.

    Cons: I get A LOT of attention, including from men I don't want the attention of. I've had a few stalkers over the years, including a couple of really scary ones. I've found out that one of my (now, hopefully former) stalkers is a serial rapist that spent 15 years in prison before laying his sights on me. Thankfully, the fucker's back in jail.

    • WOW!

  • There's lots of down sides to being overly endowed up top for a female.
    Got teased a lot as a teenager.
    "I'd love to see her run, give herself two black eyes"🙄-sorry boys I slow jog only 🙂
    Guys who think cuz they're there, they can stare, drool or try to grab them 🙄
    Trying to find shirts that don't draw attention to them without wearing big sloppy shirts.
    And, yes can take a toll on your back.
    I did have back surgery but more because of degenerative disc disease.
    And big boobs hang more, especially the older you get. Unless they silicone lol

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don't think I'm overly endowed to the point of being huge, but I'm DD and the biggest issues are how it interferes with exercising, and actually finding a bra that fits and is comfortable, yet provides the needed support.

    • 😯 Damn right, I forgot to put this one in my opinion: the bra problem! Had 3 gfs with 100G, 110F and 95E, respectively. They all had that problem (in France there's no store that have such sizes, so they had to buy everything on the net, paying at least 90€ each bra + shipping)

    • @Silverio_Stieger Oh wow! My size should be available in most stores, but it's finding something that works *and* is in my size that is hard. Plus, most of the stores in my area don't carry much to begin with and once I do find something, they seem to quit carrying it.

    • Yup I "know" the feeling 😅

  • Those girls got tits but their face is eh. Omg the dudes tho. Their mooseknuckles are more disturbing then a cameltoe 🙈

    • You sure you meant disturbing and not distracting?😉

  • I voted C. The other con for women is that those puppies start getting pretty pendulous, saggy, and lose their shape. Plus, super large breasts, when dangling, are usually teardrop shape - narrow at the chest, then bulging and rounded like water balloons at the tip. And they are too floppy. I kinda like tits that taper to a point.

    The pro for guys would be the fact that a huge cock looks very impressive. They make even average-size guys feel inadequate. Every guy fantasizes about filling a woman to the max - making her grunt and strain and cry "OH MY GOD!" But how many women want to go through that, especially all the time. It could be pretty uncomfortable.
    So the con would be causing women discomfort. A lot of girls aren't built for magnum-size. Not being able to pound her balls deep would suck.
    Porn flicks with guys who have big cocks make you think the girl is going to get seriously impaled. But more often than not, the guy never even gets it half way inside her.

  • Cons'
    Women cannot see their shoes...

    Some complain of back pain because they are heavy thingies.

    Bouncing... when she ties to run, she could end up with black eyes and it just gotta not be comfortable.. I assume?
    Exra attention they dont always want
    They look less attractive as she gets older and they move south

    Pros
    Those are like a "bigger gun". They have power. Power to Man-ipulate and coerce.

  • I'm not "overly endowed" up top but I can imagine a woman who is probably would enjoy AND dislike a mix of A, B & C altogether.

    • Yes, I wish they allowed a greater amount of choices as "All of the Above" definitely would apply to many.

  • Once upon a time back in highschool I was caught with an errection that revealed that I'm packing some heat down there.
    Honestly it gets more awkward than anything. And girls sorta think twice about approaching me in fear they might not handle it.

  • Sometimes it’s what, bam, thank you ma’am. To hours of building, teasing & stretching arousal and teasing climaxes from my partner. Depends on mod, sometimes it’s just inside rage door and featuring po popped buttons & torn panties against the wall ankles wrapped around my hips. Other times it’s perfumed, sexy lingerie, and a full afternoon

  • When I was in high school, A. After babies, it’s turning into C.

  • Mostly pro for boths. Looks better gets noticed more. For a woman I think it looks better especially when you want to dress nice. For guys the only downside if it is extreme is the pain from penetration.

  • I'm not that overly endowed especially because the rest of my body is fairly petite. But I'd say that as a modest dresser I have to put in extra work to cover my body in a way that the contours of my chest aren't visible to the public. They are literay prominent objects sticking out of your chest, there is no way you can make them seem absent.

    And of course, multiple sports bras while working out! And jumping is still painful.

  • Pros , it rocks a girls world Cons. It gets in the way and I always have to readjust it , so it looks like I am constantly playing
    With myself something Girls notice and will say why are you always touching yourself? I say why are you always looking ? do you want to fix it for me? Damn this virus shit needs to end I am horny

  • Too much attention. Can be a good or a bad thing depending on how you look at it.

    That girl in poll option A tho 😍.

  • Today I had a guy at Home Depot tell my tits that the type of repellant i was looking for was out of stock at the moment.

    So there's that.

    I'd say more cons than pros.

    • ... lol

  • I just want to point out how insanely attractive the first 2 women are. That is all.

  • Flbp

    Future lower back problems

  • 34DDD natural here, my back aches ALL THE TIME. I can't take deep breaths without it hurting.

    • Watch the first video I posted and hear what the doctor said and let me know what you think if you have time :)

  • Its gets caught in the door

  • Some cons you missed for guys are:
    being turned down for sex because your too big.
    Not being believed when you are asked

  • Finding a bra that fits is the worst. Most of the ones I find are ugly. I have to wear a larger size shirt.

    • Yes... plus, they are expensive too!

    • Oh yeah they are.

  • Pros and cons i agree

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