Are you in a purely sexual relationship that you would like to be more?

Examples:
You're in a 'situationship'
Friends with benefits
F buddy
F boy/f girl
He/she's unsure of their feelings, you're not, or want to explore them more, but you're not cutting off the 'relationship' because you're waiting to see if they will eventually want more.
You 'caught feelings' after having sex, and now think there could be more there.
Etc.

Should could be interesting.
I have some theories here. Let's see how this plays out.
Are you in a purely sexual relationship that you would like to be more?
I'm allowing anon answers on this one, so speak freely...
Yes, I would like it to be more. I want an emotional or committed relationship with the person.
Vote A
No, I'm happy with the casual way it is. I don't want it to be anything more than sexual.
Vote B
I am not in a relationship. Please show poll results.
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you strive to get sex then you are lustful. With lust, you use somebody to satisfy your desires. Once the fog clears, you see the other person clearly. You want to leave. There is no growth. You only take. You will do or say things only to get more sex. The other persons sex appeal and their availability for more sex is important to you. The other persons dreams, happiness and goals are not important to you.

    Sure, this kind of relationship can absolutely be healthy so long as everyone involved only wants a purely sexual relationship. If someone is in a purely sexual relationship, but is looking to romantically date their partner, then that’s not going to be healthy. Their expectations and desires for the relationship are totally different than their partner’s, and that’s problematic.

  • Mines a bit more complicated, we hooked up once, want to keep doing it, but if course quarantine happened. We've talked a lot and I really like her. She seems to like me, but I don't know for sure. I told her how i feel and we have talked as much since, but it's only been 2 or 3 days since then and she's been busy.
    I want to explore and see where it goes but im okay with the fact it may stay casual.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I am in a pretty sexual relationship I want a commitment relationship that's emotional but not necessarily from him I like him enough but not so much I have to have him to myself

  • I was in one of those. The guy wanted more, I didn’t.

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  • Nope, I would never be in a purely sexual relationship, they bother me and I don't think they are healthy (and I would feel guilty for it, personally).

  • I'm not in any kind of relationship like that.

  • Nope

  • You forgot the option of In a committed relationship

    • Oops! Damn you're right.

  • My wife and I only spend time together during sex. It was strange it first, but eh fuck it. Some guys get no sex

  • I wish all my past 2 relationships would of amount to something
    more than just sexually related , especially my last one was more
    sexually related , i wish there was more love than what it was but
    we all learn from the past?

  • I am not in a relationship at this time.

  • I don’t want a purely sexual relationship.

  • I was. My 1st girlfriend was purely sexual.

  • Yes, but she won't commit, at 56 I want to settle, so if I find someone else then I'm gone, I'll have the sex atm though, but when, if ever, I find a girl that wants to be with me 24/7 then I'll move on,,,

  • I have always been in casual stuff... never like serious relations n commitments

  • I'd fucking love a fuckbuddy but it's one of those things you can't seek out actively without high risk of losing your marbles and ultimately hurting your chances. All you can really do is hope the opportunity lands on your lap (literally!)

  • What's a "situationship"?

    • There's a bunch of definitions/interpretations, but it's basically when one or both parties aren't committing to anything more than hookups because either they're not interested, or aren't readily available/are otherwise involved elsewhere. Could mean a bunch of things, but it's often a hot mess.

      www.urbandictionary.com/define.php

  • I was in such a relationship, except i was the f/boy who was unsure about how i felt. She waited for me and now i have an awesome girlfriend. 😊

  • I try to wait until marriage for sex.