For this to work you are going to have to:
1. Find an experienced dominant. Brats are hard work and you need someone who has some practice.
2. Do a LOT of negotiating about what you want -- what discipline are you willing to accept. Then listen to what he tells you about his limits.
3. Understand that you can't continue defiance and physical resistance without limit -- that's just dangerous and the dominant will send you home. Keep it up and he'll end the relationship.
Or maybe you just find a quietly kinky young man and you can learn together.
im the man you are looking for
ill make you obey me, and ill fuck it out of you
you will be my whore who is always ready for me to fuck her :) u like it?
No that's wack. Try better
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Not my thing, just knew a few that were totally like you, and Brats!!
I'd be happy to offer my services in any capacitiy.
What service?
You have a natural desire to be dominated, controlled.
But you need the right person to do this.
What have you experienced in the past?
Well, since when I was little I used to dream/immagine, men that would punish their women for being brats, yk that bdsm type of stuff, not bdsm but close to that. So yea, and I used to crave that, till this day I don't know why I used to dream stuff like that especially at such a young age. But indeed it seems like I have a natural desire to be dominated. But my personality is more of a dominatrix... But I want a dominant... That's what I find strange.
It's not strange at all. You are a strong person, have strong will. This means that you need a dom who is even stronger, to be able to treat you how you desire.
Wow, a sub who does not want to be owned. What to do...
If you want a Dom, you will have to submit. If you want to play the kink where you are a brat and need someone, a Dom, to keep you in line, then you have to let that happen and take the punishment; maybe that is what you want. The hard fuck will be the reward, if you are good!
More like a sub who finds it hard to submit. Cuz trust me I want to be owned lols
That's where the discipline for you comes in. It is a give and take thing.
Are you a Dom?
I do believe that that could be spanked out of you your little pissy attitude of being A brat and not letting your man do his job like he is supposed to take care of a woman yeah some leather straps ball gag handcuffs would have you whipped into the little submissive you should be soon. What do you and your partner do now?
I don't have a partner
Will that would make it difficult for you to be either one I'm sorry I feel your pain this alone sucks
I know right...
what you want is not -so- unusual for women to want, but its quite hard for them to find the right guy. Most men aren't good stable dominants, and many of those dominants don't want a supremely bratty girl. There are more brats like you then men who can handle them. Unfortunately a lot of brats then end up with guys who actually are abusive assholes because they're easier to find.
What should you do You can:
- try to find a guy who enjoys being a brat trainer.
- find a dominant who is willing to accept the rules for you that you agree to in advance. the challenge you have is that most dominants who are NOT assholes want continued consent, safe words etc. But i'm guessing from your description that when you're being a brat, you'd just fire off the safeword immediately to avoid being 'forced' to behave? If I haven't interpreted properly let me know. In that case, you might try agreeing on consequences for behavior before hand. In that case your dominant would be enforcing in the moment the rules you'd agreed to in advance, and overriding the fact that in the moment you're too much of a little immature brat to follow your own rules.
Feel free to message me if you want more thoughts. For the record I'm not a brat trainer in Italy, so it's not that i'm proposing myself for the role :p
Yea, I would probably use the safe word
But I agree for the most part
You just didn't find the good Dom yet. Each D/d relationship is unique, and you'll find someone with who you can be yourself
Find a good one that will be able to handle and control you
Maybe you just need a Dom who knows when to stop disciplining and start forcing.
Uh... how about you stop being bratty, then.
Seems to be a logical place to start.
Easier said than done.
No, not really. You simply identify the behavior you know is holding you back and find other, better ways to express those emotions. You want a dominant guy? Then learn your place. Be submissive. It's pretty simple.
As I said it's easier said than done. It might be easy for you, but for me it's not. It's something I definitely have to work on.
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