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Is it okay to ask a guy I don't know that well to hookup at his place?

Is it ok to ask a guy i don t know that well to hook up at his place?
I m not concerned 4 my wellbeing.
I just don t want to seem intrusive/ demanding/impolite.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Trust me as long as he's single, is into girls, and if you're even halfway good looking you've got a really good shot at him being more than receptive. If you're nervous about how you're gonna approach it. I'd just be direct. Short and to the point and if you're worried about it after you've made your offer you can add something like I'm not trying to be disrespectful or like you won't hurt my feelings if you're not into it. If you can't muster up the courage to call put it in a text. I can't see any guy shooting down a good looking female unless they got a girl are religious or not into girls. Even if he's way shy I can't see a guy getting offended no matter how you said it. When I was young I was pretty bold when it came to hitting up girls and I was pretty successful. Of course the 80's and early 90's things were a lot different

  • Well if you've already agreed to hook up its more of a matter of do you trust a stranger to come to your home and know where you live or do you go to a strangers house where they are in control of things. As we are in lockdown you can't pick a hotel as neutral ground.

    What I would do is if you go to his make a note of his address and leave it at home or tell a friend where your going.

    • @integrale77 very good point about leaving his address info with a friend. But also, why aren't you concerned about your health these days? Everyone is susceptible to this virus, so if I were u, I'd try to be careful and meet this guy in a few weeks. I'm sure that he'll still be more than willing to hook up with you then as he is now, lol.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Call me Safety Sam, but I don't think it's worth the risk. I wouldn't hitchhike or accept a ride from a stranger, and I would never go anywhere, including into their own house, alone with them, either. I know a lot of people think I'm paranoid for this, but it's much better to be safe than sorry. There are a lot of predators out there.

  • dude, just go to tinder and strike up a conversation lmao

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  • The worst that can happen is he says no.

  • To me it might well seem desperate.

    • He already said yes but I did not say i want to go to his place.

    • In my experience, barring logistical issues like roommates, guys don't care where we do it. Is there a problem at your place? In my experience, things are a lot more comfortable at her place.

  • If that's what you want & you're comfortable at his place without concern for safety, then go for it! There is something sexy about a confident, direct woman who knows what she wants!

  • I suggest therapy.

  • Not to be rude or anything but shouldn't you be social distancing?

  • No. But, If there is more to be, it might pause that. Meaning he might see you as just a hook up.

  • I don't see anything wrong with it

  • Man he's a dude if he doesn't rush you in his bed to fuck you... than that mf is gay.

  • Seems pretty desperate and unattractive. I'm sure it'd be the same if a guy started asking random girls for hookups.

    • He already said yes but no details we re discussed cuz my period came. After i m done I d be weird to message him again?

    • Well if you already asked, why are you asking us if it's okay to do something that you already did?

    • What im asking is if it s ok to ask to go to this place...

  • I think it does not matter

  • Whatever works for you.

  • There is no lockdown are you in North Korea?

  • If you know he's safe. You can ask him.

  • Unsafe tbh

  • During the fucking Coronavirus?

  • What kind of desperate shit is this? How about you just keep your legs closed?

    • Why, what s wrong with hacking sex? I haven t in a long time.

    • I haven't done a lot of things in a long time. Something about self control and self respect. Or just surrender to your impulses like some kind of animal. Your life, not mine.

  • If he tells you know he either gay, already in relations or you ain't hot enough

    • He agreed to having sex but we did not discuss details because I told him that my period came (which is true). After i m off my period should I message him again?

    • Of course

  • Ask.
    The worst that can happen is that he screams, "No!!!" then holds up a cross and garlic clove before driving a wooden stake through your heart.

  • Its okay for him XD really dumb for you tho

  • Aren’t we all in a lock down kid

    • Yes but I m horny :((

    • I understand I was speaking facts

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