How to get over recent self made insecurity (warning 18+)?
Important details I'm average below the belt but good average. 3.5 soft and like 6 hard never had any complaints or worries previously. I'm a confident guy but get cocky and become a bit of a shit talker with alchole. Me and my friends about 2 months ago go to a jacuzzi kick back at a buddy house. There 7 people 3 hetero couples and 1 mutual female friend. Everyone drinking and having a good time. Someone suggest skinny dipping my buddy tries to kill the idea. I shit talk him saying he must be tiny mostly just immature guy humor. My girlfriend tries to shut me up but his girlfriend surprisly pushed the skinny dip idea and that feeds my ego. I win and we all get out to strip and his girlfriend rips his shorts off reaveal a giant softy that's about my size hard. everyone in shock and comments/jokes about it. This isn't a porno so we all just get back in the jacuzzi. Me and my girl sit across from him (original seats) and she starts laughing aparently dicks float and his head acting like a buoy and kinda just bouncing at the surface I admit it was a very funny view but not a good one for my confidence. Night goes on and regular convo continue a lot of dick and tit jokes but nothing bad happens. I did catch my girl glancing at it but that's normal I guess. I one point he did get hard and turns out it he has a porn size dick that both long and fat he apologized and tried to hide it. It was normal most guys got hard at least once that night there was 4 girls who were at least topless after all. My confidence has been shot tho. My girlfriend noticed that I'm having a harder time getting a boner and I can't watch porn anymore. Evertime I see a big one I think of him and thats weird af so yea. Now we're in quartined and we should be having crazy amounts of sex but my confidence is kinda holding me back and I'm suddenly insecure about my size. I would appreciate any advice on how to move past it
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