Girlfriend thinks she caught me masturbating, and got REALLY mad. What should I do?

So long story short, I’ve been staying with my girlfriend during all of this CV-19 stuff because her roommate went home to ride it out. My girlfriend has a twin size bed, and while cuddling can be nice, we’ve been together for nearly two years, so we’d rather be comfortable. So, I’ve been sleeping in her roommates bed.

Tonight, I was in bed, watching TV, reading on my phone, when my girlfriend came in the room to use the bathroom. I had one hand on my phone and one hand under the blankets. When she came in, it startled me and I jumped a bit. No words were said she used the bathroom and walked out. 10 min later, I go to get some water and she goes OFF!
She starts saying she caught me jerking off in her roommates bed, and gets really mad. I tell her I wasn’t jerking off, but she doesn’t seem to believe me. She calms down, and while she doesn’t seem happy, she doesn’t seem angry. I figure I will just go to bed and let her cool off. So about an hour later I come back out and she just goes “Get out of here, now!”
I didn’t wanna fight, so I just left. I don’t know what to do or say, because 1.) I wasn’t masturbating and 2.) Even if I was, is that really THAT big of a deal? I mean who doesn’t masturbate?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Seems like that's what most females do these days when they 'think' they catch their guys masturbating, viewing porn, or even simpling scrolling through their social media and happen upon another female at the exact moment their partner looks at the guy's screen.
    Many females go off of emotion over logic. Either we're over come with insecurities or a stance on feminism. It's a feature most will deny or cover up.
    Long story short... she had no reason to jump to conclusions. She could of asked on a mature level and been more understanding EVEN if you did. Masturbation isn't even that big of a deal. She acted like you had another chick on face chat or something 🤷🏽‍♀️
    Anywho, give it some time and keep a decent space between you two for a bit (Corona and all 😅).
    No, but really. She'll come around.

    • I don't know what’s more upsetting, that she doesn’t believe me, or that she was that pissed about it. What’s funny is that she jokes about me jerking off ALL the time— if I go home early “are you going home to jerk off?” Or if she doesn’t want to have sex she’ll say “go into the bathroom and take care of it yourself!” Haha

    • If she is acting like she is always expecting you to be doing that, then she definitely sounds like she fits in the insecurity catagory. On top of that, she is sounding very immature making statements like that. It's kinda like she is "testing you" (your reaction/answer) too see if you really are going to admit that you do masturbate and/or how often. Not a good thing that she sounds like she is trying to get you to confess on a personal and private matter. She really needs to know how you feel about this and that if she keeps pressing the matter, that things with your two's relationship could be effected negatively?

    • So I’m not sure what to do, there’s nothing for me to apologize for. What do I say? “Sorry you thought I was masturbating?” I tried calling her on my lunch, no answer.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your actully a idiot (so is she) masterbaiting is fine but doing it in her roommates bed would be a problom your actions upto this point make it look like you did do what she thinks when she came into the room u saw her reaction but just said and did nothing then when she told you to leave u simply did which in her mind will come off as u accepting that u did it

  • Even if you did, I would assume you change bed clothes before the roomie moves back in. So no harm done. Overreaction is all it is.

    • I don’t know what’s more ridiculous, that she doesn’t believe me, or that she is reacting this way.

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  • Just tell her you want more sex

  • Who cares nothing wrong with that