Why is he using my nude pics during sex?

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So my kids dad admitted to me the other day that he is in an unhappy relationship. Well he’s been in that for a while. But he can’t get out of it because she watches his kids while he works. Lol anyway he said he thinks about me so much. He said he doesn’t have sex with her unless he’s drunk or horny. He said when he does do it he puts her in doggy and looks at my nudes and thinks about me to get off. He said he does it almost every single time. That I’m so sexy to him. I don’t think she turns him on. She’s as huge and lazy. I just can’t believe he told me that!!! Have you guys ever done that? I’m curious if that’s normal lol

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potatoiswhoiam Yoda
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Sounds disgusting. No offence but did you notice he doesn't even miss you? He just misses your body
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- Asker
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  Well according to him he said he misses my touch, smell, kissing me and the feelings he gets during sex. He said he doesn’t feel with her what he felt with me.
- potatoiswhoiam
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  Exactly. It's all purely physical.
sarcasticsunshine Xper 2
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Not ok and not normal. It sounds like he's being manipulative and get both of you honestly.
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- Asker
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  He’s been complaining about her sex for years. So I think he’s being honest with this one.
- SpeedVoid
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  +1 on this ^^
- sarcasticsunshine
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  And maybe he is being honest but then he's still flattering you and getting what he needs from her too.
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- Asker
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  @SpeedVoid I agree it’s wrong. But her and I are like night and day different. She’s huge and lazy. I’m in shape and a lot more attractive. Not to be conceited but I mean it’s just the truth. I always wondered how she turned him on. But I never openly said it.
- Asker
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  True. You are right. It’s just crazy he even told me that. I would have kept that dark secret to myself.
- Imcmullan
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  @Asker, you are saying your so much more attractive than her but he's with her and not you. So if he had any respect for you, he wouldn't want to tell you when he is inside of another girl. And if you sleep with him and he bends you over you'll wonder who's photos he's looking at.
- Asker
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  @Imcmullan he can’t leave her. She’s the only one who watches his kids. I live in an hour away from him. He’s always texting, calling, she took him to Miami for his bday. He was texting me the entire time. Anytime he’s been with me his phone is nowhere in sight. So no he’s never done that to me. I’m not saying either one of us is winning. But id rather be me than her. I feel bad for her. Like damn your man is humiliating you behind your back. He said the feelings he get with me he can’t get those with her. That he misses my, touch, smell, kissing me and he wished he felt that with her.

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overthinking_mind Xper 3
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okay thats weird,, i think he have another reason for saying that to you
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- Asker
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  I’m a lot more attractive. So I don’t think it’s a lie. I really don’t. He is disrespectful enough to do that. I already knew he jacked off to my pics. But using them for sex took it to a whole new level. In a way I feel bad for her. I’d be HUMILIATED if my man was saying that to another woman behind my back. I would just die.
meesegoMoo Yoda
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It's very wrong certainly. I odn't think it's normal either.
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Sevenpointfive Master
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you provide a good service
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- Asker
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  He should have just been with me because his obsession is real. He never stops texting and calling. She took him to Miami for his bday. He texted me the entire time. He’s always confessing his love every day. He wants to take me to California for my birthday. He is playing both teams but I don’t see why he just doesn’t leave her. If he’s looking at my pics during sex that’s a serious problem. He doesn’t even have his phone near him when he’s with me.
- Sevenpointfive
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  divorce is expensive. so is child support, attorney fees, litigation... it sucks