This is not a hard one to answer. My girlfriend and I have lived together for 12 years and have three children and that has happened more than a few times. It bothers me not at all.
In fact, I hold her in my arms and comfort her and kiss her and wipe the tears away. It makes me feel good too. I feel closer to my girlfriend and that what we experienced was intense and real.
By the way, truth in advertising, I have cried after sex, too. Not often and the first time it happened with my girlfriend I remember her holding me in her arms, the tears running down my cheeks, being totally embarrassed and saying, "Boy, you sure got a macho guy when you got me, didn't you?" She just smiled and kissed me and hugged me and I felt loved and safe and wanted.
By the way, this is as the questioner's update noted, not abnormal. See also this article from Healthline: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/crying-after-sex From the article as regards men: "Using an anonymous questionnaire for a 2018 study, researchers found that of 1,208 males, 41 percent experienced PCD (crying during sex). Up to 4 percent said it was a regular thing."
My girlfriend and I tend to a very primal and raw sex. We are like two animals breeding in a field, with me the dominant alpha male and my girlfriend the submissive female. Not always, but generally.
The funny part being that in that raw and animal sex we are at our most exposed and vulnerable. We are all that we are and there is nothing else and it is like the whole universe shrinks down to just the two of us. It is deeply emotional and loving and connected and sometimes it is so powerful that you just cry.
So what do I do? I hold her and love her and thank God that I have such a beautiful wonderful woman in my life. I got more than I ever deserved.1 0 0 0ask her if she needed chocolate seeing how they seems too always with with girls no matter the situation.
1 0 0 0What if the girl hates chocolate? Lol
ice cream? maybe vanilla? lol
I guess so. I'd be angry cuz I'm not a sweets person
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(108)Depends. You're crying I'd probably be fine with. I can usually tell different types of crying apart. If it was guilt crying or bitter crying I would need to talk with her and sort that out.
1 0 0 0I would hope she is crying because the orgasm is good at least I would hold her and comfort her after.
1 0 0 0This is natural and very intimately sexy. It's the brain which has had such a large rush of dopamine and oxytocin from the orgasmic contractions. It's a flood of biochemicals which occur and can cause an emotional response. I think it's a beautiful response. I respond to natural and this is defiantly natural for sure.
1 0 0 0If it was that scenario where I know orgasms cause you to tear up, I'd get used to it and not have a reaction. If it was my first time with someone who cried from orgasms, I'd probably ask if everything was alright and make sure she they were comfortable with the situation.
1 0 0 0I recommend informing any new partners of this ahead of time, to avoid any awkward situations. If you told me after the fact that its fine you just always cry with orgasms, I might still have a nagging suspicion that you're just trying not to hurt my feelings. Of course over time that would go away, but still, best to be up front about it.
I'm only ever with my husband so it's no big deal
That's good. Keep crying those tears of joy then!
I was just thinking about this yesterday, as I saw a romance movie where a woman did that. I had a former girlfriend who would do that and I never quite got it with the reason. I didn't ask her about it. Before that I read somewhere that it was fairly normal and "not to worry about it" if a woman does that.
1 0 0 0Anything's fine, she doesn't laugh afterwards... or yawn...
1 0 0 0Crying to me is a source of wanting to make a girl feel better so it would be off putting but it could be gotten used to
1 0 0 0That I'm probably raping her or something terrible
1 0 0 0I am familiar with it, so I'd check in with her to make sure she is alright and on confirmation it's tears of intensity continue. Afterwards I'll give her cuddles.
1 0 0 0I would be surprised but if it happens all the time i'd get used to it I guess :D
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