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Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?

Asking for a friend... I feel like im a little biased in my answer. Like first time i had sex, oral didn't even happen with him. He asked but i was too nervous and didn't allow it. I considered it 3 months later bt backed out last minute because I was hurt he had already did that with my best friend when we broke up for like a month. As for my second partner, we 69’d long before we gave in to sex. I honestly think that made me a bit more nervous though 😂 I dont mind giving but receiving just gives me butterflies. For my third (and hopefully final partner), I honestly think I’d prefer to receive sometime after we have sex (but not the first time when we have sex). However, i’m still down to give oral some months before we have sex. I know i’m confusing 😂🙈 This is why i told the person not to ask me for advice on this question cause i’m all confused and biased #FeelFreeToList #DirtyDesii
Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
I want oral long before the day we have sex
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Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
I want oral the same day we have sex for the first time
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Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
I had oral the same day we had sex for the first time and i liked it
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Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
I had oral the same day we had sex for the first time but i did not like it
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Would you want oral the first time you have sex with someone?
I dont want oral at all
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Most Helpful Guys

  • as much as i love oral, it ultimately depends on what your partner needs too
    i haev a rule, never expect no one is obligated... while it would be great to give/recieve oral some aren't comfortable and may require reassuring or building up trust before

    and some might feel pressured to perform it, due to past experience

    so sure if it's on the card, i'd love it but if not then it could be something to build up to

    • Yea i dont wanna feel pressured

  • I actually really enjoy giving way more than receiving. Something about having that power & control over a woman to give & have her body react to what I'm doing, that is such a turn on for me!

    With that said, giving oral is usually always my first experience. Whether sex follows that night or later doesn't really matter. So far, no complaints!

    • Ohhh i see

Most Helpful Girls

  • I haven't experienced oral in any way yet and honestly, I feel like it's an intimate thing that I dont just want to do with anyone. So I'm kinda glad that I haven't yet. Tho I'm pretty sure I'm done with sex, if for some reason I end up with someone else then I need to be damn sure that I'm gonna be with em for the long haul before we get to six nines.

    • Yea first time oral makes me more nervous than first time sex for some reason

    • Sex is intimate enough, but that just takes it up another level.

    • sorry to hear that. Don't give up though. You'll find someone someday!

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  • I can't answer what is right for someone else to do. But these days, with so many people having multiple partners, whether they're really disclosing that info or not, I personally wouldn't give or receive oral unless it's a committed lt relationship. You can get STD's from oral sex too.

    • Yea i agree. Thats why I've only done it with one person and it was def longterm and committed after getting tested

    • That's good 👍 that's the other issue I have with people cheating. Besides the lie of it, or the hurt you may cause someone, you playing with someone's health, and that's just fucked up shit right there.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • definitely would want to give someone oral before we make love... I like letting the guy relax and feel at ease with me... and blowjobs are very intimate for me

    • Ahhhh true

  • No, but I’d give it to him the next morning

    • Yea i rather give but I don't know about that morning. Maybe after a shower lol

    • You came twice inside my mouth

  • With most of my partners oral came before penetrative sex, the only partner with whom penetrative sex came before oral is my current wife, although a with a lot of my partners we never had penetrative sex, so that might skew the results.

    • No same kinda happened to me as mentioned above

  • No I think that is a personal thing to do, very intimate. I think the first type of sex would always be fingers only... But I'm changing my views

    • I agree

  • I love to go down on a woman so yes I would the first time with them, receiving is not as important but I usually go for a 69 so I will receive while giving.

    • Hot damn

  • Yess oral is always a must before sex

    • Ohh ok

    • I agree without oral no arousals hence no extra pleasure

    • Both ways?

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  • I'd like it if he liked to give, but I wouldn't mind if he didn't. Though I myself would definitely give oral the first time.

    • Yea i see myself giving the first time but I don't know if i’s want to receive

  • Hell yeah i like oral. Giving and recieving

    • Okayy

  • Definitely prefer oral first and it's a good foreplay to help them get ready for pentration

    • True

  • The very first time i got with a girl i performed oral on her and she gave me a handjob first and then a blowjob but we never had sex. Sex was some time later.

    • Yes i feel this is the right way

  • No, I wouldn't. I do want us to be completely in tune with one another, taking our time with exploring each other and completely touching skin to skin.

    • I agree

  • For me oral a must. I'm a bit larger so more often then not sex is painful for the girl unless I do a lot of for play. I found that oral sex is the best way to make sure she wet enough. Now going down on the girl before hand is just a regular thing having sex without it would be weird like I'm skipping a step 😂

    • Mmmm not to me lol

    • Have u ever been with a well endowed man? Or do u just have another preferred form of foreplay

    • Yea my first ex at age 16 was well endowed... and i prefer other foreplay

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  • Yes.

    • Okay

  • No, I'm not interested in oral, my mouth has other purposes :o
    If the opportunity arises I'd love to try fingering a girl.
    But if in a serious relationship it would be the regular sex, via the boy and girl tool made for the purpose :D

    • Sounds good

  • It doesn't have to happen the first time, no. I would probably be the one giving it first.

    • Okay

  • Only if she wants to.

  • Where is the option "I want oral long before we have sex, on the day we first have sex, and 3 times every day after that for the rest of my life"?

    • Lmao

  • No it's extremely gross

    • Okay

    • Agreed all the times I've done it. Its tasted horrible

  • I want to give her oral even before I get my first wet handjob. I consider cunnilingus the end point of making out. She need not be undressed... just uncovered where I need it.

    • Oh damn

  • The first time I have sex I want to experience everything.

    • I rather save some for later lol

    • Thats the difference between guys and girls.

    • Doing it all at once is prob why guys get bored after so many months

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