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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?

Im not crazy about 69 but if i do it, i like the guy on top as if he’s doing push ups so that he can thrust deep into my throat. Lying on my back helps the diick to ease down my throat more easily and then im less likely to gag. #FeelFreeToList #SixNine
When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
I tried and prefer to be on top
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
I tried and prefer to be on bottom
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
I tried it but didn't like it
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
I haven't tried but want to be on top
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
I haven't tried but want to be on bottom
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
Im never want to try 69
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When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?
Im asexual
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Lol i notice guys say they dont wanna be on top cause theyre heavier. Lol some girls have the same fear that they’ll suffocate you too. Thats why i like the guy on top AS LONG AS he knows not to put all his body weight down on me. Get in pushup position. This is where military dudes who have to do pushups a lot come in handy 😏 they know how to thrust/hold their weight
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Ok y'all just cause im on the bottom doesn't mean ass and balls will be in my face 🤣 thats what boxers are made for. Just pull the dick out the slit and do my thang 😄 besides the guy would be in pushups position and occasionally on all 4s when he gets tired
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  • I did not vote. It is a complex question, for me at least.
    To start, I definitely prefer being on top when I eat out a lady. However I do not feel particularly comfortable having to hold up my weight and keep it in a balance trying not to go to deep but also do some movements which might make her horny. I like to concentrate on what I am doing. It is easier to concentrate if I'm on the bottom because she can choose her speed and how deep to go or when to stop if needed. But eating pussy from below is hardly enjoyable, to me at least. I think it is important to be able to manipulate the sensation you give by co-ordinating head movement. For that the man needs to be on top.
    For this reason I prefer not to be in a 69 pose. Maybe a sideways position is a good compromise I did not see in the options above. If I can choose I will rather forget about receiving the BJ and spend more time eating the lady, anything over 1 hour is good. Position is still important, or more exactly location, because if she just lies on the bed legs apart and I'm on my belly I have to "look up" got get to that sacred area, hard to maintain without neck pain. Much easier with her lying on the bed with her bottom part right on the corner of the bed, with me kneeling on the floor, her feet on my shoulders. Or her on the table and me on a chair. If you enjoy it but get bored I will fix a flat screen on the ceiling so you can watch while I pleasure you. Star Wars saga or a few seasons of some series will do! Find a woman that wants this every day and we're the happiest couple on the planet!

    • Only reason i disagree is because being on top makes me feel i have to watch my weight to not jsut completely lay on his face. So see its kinda the same no matter whos on top

    • I agree. All I can say is, communication can help to an extent. I will gladly take a deep breath and hold it for 4-5 minutes while the lady is welcome to relax and apply whatever pressure she enjoys while my tongue works its magic, and repeat a few times. But I think it still makes a lot more sense to do it sideways. I like the two positions in the pictures above option E and F, if it really has to be 69. But I will much prefer taking turns, if it has to be reciprocal. But I personally will simply spend all available time giving if it is all up to me. 5 minutes at the end to release to load in whatever way, I find that sufficient.

  • I love toty be on top... cause I love deep throat fucking and it helps mt to penetrate her throat more and gags her more.. I love it when she inhales manly scent of my full balls covered with precum and her saliva... deeply in her lungs. scent consist of oozing precum.. saliba and semen in ballss. must fill her lungs

    • So hawt

    • you liked it

    • Yea read update tho

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  • My partner and I always had 69 with me on top. However, one time, he randomly decided to eat me out and got on top of me. We were both fully naked by the way. So, All I had was his balls on my face while he was eating me out. I felt so awkward in that position haha so decided to try to suck him off but I couldn't get his cock in my mouth since he was kinda like laying on top of me lol so I told him to lift up a bit so that his cock could go in my mouth. I don't know.. Was an awkward experience but was a fun one lol

    So I honestly prefer being on top since I have more experience with that. I'm also better at deepthroating when I'm on top anyways than when I'm laying.

    • Lmao thats kinda funny. If my guys gonna be on top then i prefer boxers still be on. That way when he pulls his dick through the slit for me to suck, i dont hve to have his bare ass or balls in my face

  • VOTE H : Both top and bottom equally

    There are times when he wants me sitting on his face once he's got me nice and wet, slipping and sliding back and forth across his mouth and nose

    ... then it is my turn and I want him on top to deep throat me where he can get it all the way down with pressure and hold it in until he cums hard... OMG! Why did I answer this question? ... where is my vibrator? ... OMG!!

    When 69-ing, would you prefer to be on top or bottom AND WHY?

    • Lol this pic is exactly how i like it

    • YES!! :)

    • You had to do it My No Fap days are gone I guess😂😂

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  • I'm a bigger dude, so dont want to crush anyone & I think it's easier when a girl is on top for that position. But, I'd prefer to focus on her first & foremost.

    • Thats nice of you

  • On top better, you control the speed if both actions that way

    • Lol true

    • 😁😇😈

  • 69 never does much because one will get so enthralled with their own feelings that they can't do the other. If one doesn't get all moaning and taking the moment then one of the two is not doing their part. 69 is just not the best for climaxing at the same time. Therefore what good is that position except in porn videos?

    • It is hard to keep going but it feels like a fun game of who’ll quit first and be selfish and just take rather than give

  • On top. I have had a partner think she was supposed to just lay on top of me and not try to support any of her open weight. Fortunately, she was a petite girl and I didn't get smothered!

    • Lmao yea i fear i’d smother someone so i rather be on bottom lol

  • On top he's usually too heavy and I'm no gymnast

    • Lmao read update

  • Top is great for me. I don't get choked and I can kind of ride or hump his face.

    • Lmao i dont get choked either cause i control his pace

  • Bottom all the way I love the weight on top of me while she grinds plus the juices follow gravity so it makes it easier

    • Haaaawt damn

  • I’m on top because he’s 250lbs. Lol.

    • Damn

  • 69 just doesn't work for me. I'm either at work, or on vacation. Not both.

    • Lmao

  • I prefer being on top

    • Okay

    • My guy is great at push ups but he's not into being in control like that

    • My ec was on top and i was stil into control 😏 but hey can u check pm. I wanted to ask you somthing

  • Top I don't want to be face down with a dick down my throat. Plus he's not going to have much blood in his brain to be able to stop if I start choking and need to take a breath while sucking him off.

    • Lmao not true 🤣 reas update

    • Yeah but what if the guy can't hold push up position that long :)

    • Switch positions for a bit or have him get on hia knees til he regains his strength lol

  • Seems like it would be dangerous to be on top, unless she's completely comfortable with being throat fucked. In which case I'd prefer that sometimes, but other times I'd want her to spend her attention on making it cum without me adding any thrusting power to cheapen it.

    • Ahhh ok

  • I'm not really into it but the top is better

    • Okayy

    • There is a lot going on and it's to hard to remember what I'm supost to be doing. Lol

  • I don't like 69. I can't focus on giving pleasure while I'm receiving it. If I can't focus on receiving it, I'm not going to feel anything much. I have to soak in the sensations. So if I'm focused on feeling what he's giving, I'm not doing my best for him.
    Too complicated. My body doesn't respond greatly to oral, so it feels like a colossal waste of time. 69 is what everyone talks about in high school like they can't wait but mehhhh.

    • Lol that makes sense. It is hard to keep going but it feels like a fun game of who’ll quit first and be selfish and just take rather than give

    • @DizzyDesii So the winner is the one who MAKES them quit first because it's so good. Right? Lol

    • @Jamie05rhs yes lol

  • I've tried and loved both being under her, on her and with both side by side... the only one i haven't tried is teh vertical 69 but wouldn't mind trying that tbf

    • Hahah

  • On the bottom. I feel weird putting my ass in my girls’s face. Feels disrespectful😂😂😭

    • Lol i make the guy keep his boxers on so that his ass and balls aren't in my face

    • See. I’m nasty. I want a girl’s everything in my face. Smells and liquids turn me on. But unless she tells me she’s into it, yeah I keep my ass and balls out of her face 😂😂😂😂

    • I like the smell of sweaty dick but not ass and balls 😂

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  • I prefer the top. If I'm on the bottom, I can't pull away if I start to gag from going too deep with him.

    • U gotta take control when he's on top. Pace him

    • I can't deepthroat so if he thrusts at all I'm screwed if I can't pull back.

  • I have tried and I love being on top. I think I would get crushed if on bottom lol

    • Hahaha

    • If he kind of uses his arms and legs to hold himself up over me I could try that though it just seems harder for him

    • Wait @DizzyDesii you don’t want his balls in your face? I want him completely naked.. underwear would be weird

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  • Me and the wife tried all of these and she loves A the most. She feels more comfortable and can do her thang, i can do what she wants with a big smile on my face

    • Nice

  • id rather be on the bottom, because if not id probably be really bad at it... but im not sure

    • Lol same

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