Do you really think someone can fool someone about virginity or past relationships ?

[Iamanintrovert]

I've seen girls saying that "people never know either you are a virgin or not unless you tell them". lying to your significant other is cheating. There are many deaths where I've seen guys beheading such girls. And I really think they deserve it.
Personally I think when I look into her eyes I can understand what she really is. You can't lie about virginity. One or the other day people know truth. Or certainly your actions will reveal it.
I think it's better to tell the truth. Because you don't have be certified as virgin by government to be truly loved by someone.
What do you think?

[btbc92]

Yes absolutely. There's a lot of frauds out there and that's why you don't want to date somebody you don't really know. I honestly do not understand why so many people want to put themselves through that just because they are afraid of the people are going to judge their past which is every person's right if they expect to be involved in a relationship with you. Especially sex. Nobody should ever lie about these things and you should definitely get to this answer by not dating a person until you have every answer you need. This is why you should be a friend to that person first really get to know them see that character, and know who they are around what they're family like cuddle with that backgrounds been like, what their beliefs are, Etc. You can learn a lot of things about yourself just by seeing what kind of people you hang around with and interact.

What you have to understand is that we can love people would that doesn't mean that we have to be sexual with them or have metal lover. Knowing who is a virgin is important in a sense because it would hold a family together and it keeps a country and a nation together. The problem is that these men need to also be held to the same accountability. And they're not. God calls for everybody to remain as they are until they are married. The legal age is what the legal age is, and it should be considered at that legal age. It is not that hard to wait. I should know, I'm a virgin myself. Does it mean that it can't be difficult because you deal with temptation and you have hormones and you have all this other stuff going on. But it's up to the person to decide what they choose to do with it. A lot of these girls just have sex because they want to experience something, and then they can't handle the reality when they realize that the other person is not going to want to touch them. It's different if a person was raped and they never asked to be raped or even deliberately put themselves in new situations that can promote it. But it's also understandable if another person can't handle it especially if the trauma is too deep. There's a lot of soul ties that comes with it and only the Lord can truly heal that individual. But yes, so many people lie and it's very possible. A person can be physically a virgin by standard, and still not be a pure Virgin by heart and mind and not just spirit

[Bratsondanielle]

I don't know y u would thou. I don't see the point. If you date a Christian or whatever Muslim thing you have to be virgin but they don't care about sex anyway so

[Obtuse]

Wow, WHAT?
>> There are many deaths where I've seen guys beheading such girls. And I really think they deserve it.

I mean I don't approve of people lying about their virginity or lack thereof, but chopping off their heads seems a bit extreme.

As for the general question, dunno. I suspect some might be able to do it successfully.

[Obtuse]

I'm still hung up on the "deserve" to be beheaded part. Maybe it's a cultural difference thing. What if it's a woman you care about like your sister or a friend? And what if she was lying not out of some sinister plot but out of fear, desperation, something like that? What if she was raped or manipulated or something into losing her virginity? You know. Empathy stuff. And it's not like she gets to atone for anything if she's headless.

[Iamanintrovert]

I'm speaking about relationships. I live in a place where it's quiet common. I have seen her after beheading. The guy used to work day and night for her. And treats her fine. He came to know about her relationship when one day he accidentally came to home. That's it. He called cops himself. He charged with six months jail. Now he is doing just fine. He is a good guy. I see many incidents like molestation etc. Due to that kind of cheating. If she is innocent probably the murderer has some psychological issues that's not the point. Forget it man. Take it easy. We can't change anything except ourself.

[Obtuse]

Oh, cheating inside the relationship. I thought you meant just a girl who isn't a virgin who lies about it. I still think that's a bit harsh but it's not quite as extreme as I thought.

[Iamanintrovert]

She regular lied him. On the day they first met he asked her directly about any affairs. She said none. They moves on. But people don't lose habits. She did that again after marriage accidentally. If she had told the truth she would have been alive. The guy would have been married to a girl of his dreams.

[Anpu23]

And this is one of the reason why people in the west have issues with Islamic culture. No one here really cares if someone is a virgin or not.

[Ellie-V]

Beheading because someone lied and hurt your feelings is really stupid and fucked up

[omgjassy]

I believe you can

[SavageGirl101]

Lmaoo it’s not you’re business if she’s a virgin or not it’s not important and she doesn’t have to tell you

[Iamanintrovert]

If it's none of my business that whomever she is married to then she is nobody to me. Not even a girl friend

[SavageGirl101]

I said it wasn’t you’re business if she is a virgin or not I don’t know where u got marriage from

[nessybluedawn]

Yeah maybe but why is that important

[Iamanintrovert]

Cause of trust. If they truly can't reveal themselves to each other. How can they be together forever there will be a hundred problems in our life and we need a strong relationship to lead it successfully without loosing hope on each other . How can they give their kids a good life. I Mean it's a road full of insecurities & misunderstandings. Why don't just tell the truth.

[mikeandy]

There was never enough reason to kill your girlfriend or wife. if she cheated on you , you can just leave her