I can only speak for myself, but no, I've never sent a random dick pic or sexually harassed girls online. That said, it's in his past. Not his present and hopefully not his future. Those are the parts you're in or plan to be in, so shouldn't those be the only parts you need worry about? And come on. Reading others personal messages? Being shown trust by having him willfully give you his login info and then immediately repaying that trust by reading his personal messages? Clearly no one is perfect. Don't you think it'd be a little unfair to hold his creepy past against him while you're being creepy right now in the present?
1 0 0 0I guess you’re right. Obviously I shouldn’t be snooping. But, I just can’t get over the fact he was like that ever. I feel like I had a totally different idea of the kind of person he was and I guess I feel a little misled.
Well, you're the one who has to date him, but personally, I feel like who he was isn't as important as who he is. And whatever you saw doesn't change that. He's exactly who he was yesterday and it seems you liked that guy. Just my two cents.
Was he an adult or a teenager when he acted this way?
1 0 0 0Like this is from when he was 18-22
Yeesh. Do you think he's changed now?
I hope I mean he wasn’t creepy like this to me ever. That’s why I was so surprised. But I don't know I think it’s mostly the lack of respect he displayed in the messages that turned me off the most. Like sending dick pics without consent
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He is just being a dude. He needed attention so you can't fault him.
If its the past I'd leave it in the past. He isn't doing it now. He knew it was on there and still gave you password so he is showing loyalty. Boys will be boys.1 1 0 0true hopefully he isn’t like that now
That’s gross
1 0 0 0Thanks that’s what I thought too! I don't know If I was over reacting because the messages are from before we dated but seeing it grossed me out
Totally
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1 9I would Never Trust him again. xx
0 0 0 0You harmed yourself by snooping. Maybe he has changed since then.
0 0 0 0No you're not wrong at all to feel like you do. In fact consider the even more disturbing aspect that he's able to act normal to your face while doing weird creepy shit like this.
0 0 0 0he was just one of those thirsty cunts that went on thirst rampages before he dated you, now you know lol
0 0 0 0Lol yeah I guess it just turns me off knowing he was like that Are a lot of guys like that?
from what i can see, im looking around the internet and i see it everywhere, so i guess so yea lol
Ughh I don't know but I’d always expect those type of guys to be like super ugly and desperate. I didn’t think my boyfriend was like that! Such a turn off
That's what u get for being nosey
0 0 0 0He was pursuing multiple women. I thin that's kinda smart. I was after two women when I asked my girlfriend out. I only chose her because she was super affectionate
0 0 0 0Never ask questions you don't want to know the answers to, and never Snoop of you aren't prepared for the consequences.
I doubt he have you his password, you just hacked his account.2 0 0 0lol he did give me his password but he didn’t think I’d snoop 😅
My ex went threw mine like you did your mans when I gave him the password for one reason trusting he wouldn't go threw everything. Well he did and the first fight we had he threw the shit up. REDFLAG!!! It was stuff before our relationship and he already knew I was wild so I don't see how he could have brought it up but he did and let me tell ya... I LOST ALL RESPECT FOR HIM!!
@whitlee34 lol yeah wasn’t totally right of me to snoop but I’m nosy and couldn’t help it! It’s just the lack of respect and manners he showed in the messages that turned me off. Cause he’d be thirsty to girls he didn’t know and they’d get creeped out and block him. They weren’t consensual conversations
So you browsed his messages without his permission, even though he gave you his password
this is proof you don't trust him. even if he was doing something wrong. YOU DONT TRUST HIM
If you did this to me, and I found out, it would be immediate grounds for expulsion/breaking up0 0 0 0Yeah it's a little weird but before he met u he was lookingalso prolly an experiment 🙄and yeah I agree careful where u Snoop nobody's 100 percent all the time
0 0 0 0Well i got 2 things yo tell you.
1. You broke his trust and you should be upfront about it.
2. He has some fantasy/fetish that he is afraid of sharing it with you. If you'll create a safe trusting and open minded space you'll find out he will tell you his secrets and want to do everything only with you0 0 0 0
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