Why all the Evasive Behavior?

wingattebaby16
I have several GAG friends I have really connected with over the years.. or so I have thought.

When conversation starts getting deep, invariably I get asked for assorted pics of me, my family, my baby bump, my house, etc.

When I ask for the same kinds of pics (not nude), they get all evasive and have excuses why they don't, can't, or won't let me see a picture.

So, being the kind person I am, I hand write a sign (usually "hi sally, it's me Cassie) with a big heart with the previous words in it and then send it to the person with my face and body.

I ask them to do the same thing, and to prove it is them, I give them a "phrase" to write on a piece of paper, take a selfie with their face and/or full body, AND THEY HAVE 10 MINUTES TO DO IT.

****NOT ONE OF THE SIX GAGGERS I AM FRIENDS WITH, THAT I HAVE ASKED TO DO THIS, WILL DO IT!!!

I get excuses like their camera is broke, they lost their ph, they are embarrassed to take pics (I dint ask for nudes, just your face), they have a mental illness that prevents them from taking picture, they don't want their picture all over the internet, etc..

***GAGgers... wtf is going on with these people?

Are they fakes?

How hard is it to take a selfie with a handwritten note to prove who you are, reassure me you are not some guy/registered sex offender (I was friends with one for 6yrs until I found out she was a he and did not really exist. My boyfriend was a cop and looked her, her daughter, her dad, her mom all up in a police government database. Only the dad existed and he was a convicted sex offender for kiddie porn!)

Honest, not stupid, or rude answers asked for please.

I am being honest and I have a big heart and keep getting hurt by people I consider to be friends and trust with who I am.

I am a stay at home nanny. I have like 3 IRL gfs here in town and with the coronavirus, we are house bound. I am going nuts and super bored, so I count on my friends to kill the boredom.
Why all the Evasive Behavior?
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