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Why all the Evasive Behavior?

I have several GAG friends I have really connected with over the years.. or so I have thought.

When conversation starts getting deep, invariably I get asked for assorted pics of me, my family, my baby bump, my house, etc.

When I ask for the same kinds of pics (not nude), they get all evasive and have excuses why they don't, can't, or won't let me see a picture.

So, being the kind person I am, I hand write a sign (usually "hi sally, it's me Cassie) with a big heart with the previous words in it and then send it to the person with my face and body.

I ask them to do the same thing, and to prove it is them, I give them a "phrase" to write on a piece of paper, take a selfie with their face and/or full body, AND THEY HAVE 10 MINUTES TO DO IT.

****NOT ONE OF THE SIX GAGGERS I AM FRIENDS WITH, THAT I HAVE ASKED TO DO THIS, WILL DO IT!!!

I get excuses like their camera is broke, they lost their ph, they are embarrassed to take pics (I dint ask for nudes, just your face), they have a mental illness that prevents them from taking picture, they don't want their picture all over the internet, etc..

***GAGgers... wtf is going on with these people?

Are they fakes?

How hard is it to take a selfie with a handwritten note to prove who you are, reassure me you are not some guy/registered sex offender (I was friends with one for 6yrs until I found out she was a he and did not really exist. My boyfriend was a cop and looked her, her daughter, her dad, her mom all up in a police government database. Only the dad existed and he was a convicted sex offender for kiddie porn!)

Honest, not stupid, or rude answers asked for please.

I am being honest and I have a big heart and keep getting hurt by people I consider to be friends and trust with who I am.

I am a stay at home nanny. I have like 3 IRL gfs here in town and with the coronavirus, we are house bound. I am going nuts and super bored, so I count on my friends to kill the boredom.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I hear you. I had one recently on here do that. She added me or I suppose it was a she. She asked for my hangouts and I said ok. An hour into knowing she sends a picture of what she says is her. Then asks one from me. I asked why. She says I send you some. I never asked for hers. She says I'm telling the truth where she is from with a broken English. Saying she's American and lives here. So I said write a note on a piece of paper with my name on it and today's date. She sends a females picture with a computerized image of that and is now a completely different woman. Then asks for my phone number. I'm like wtf go away. Think her screen name is dinner34 or something like that. Fake as all get up.

  • I hear you. I am The Biggest Catfisherman on G@G! And I have caught some WHOPPERS! I reported all of them.

    Unfortunately, this is world where live now. People are cautious. Like you, I met some women on an online dating app. Some were nice. One became a girlfriend. But some were psychopaths! Very scary!!!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think this site is based around people being anonymous. We ask very personal and sometimes embarrassing questions here. We use screen names instead of our real names and most use avatars instead of their real photos. This isn't really somewhere that people come, expecting to meet people from here and become friends with them in real life. It's just not that type of place. I don't think you should take it personally. It probably doesn't mean that they don't care about you. And you don't have to feel so suspicious that they aren't telling the truth about who they are. They probably just want to keep their identities private.

    • Excellent 👍🏻👍🏻

    • I like that site though because I can be myself😂

    • And most people know how I look by now even if I post very personal questions. But you do have a point.

  • There is No Security what so ever on this site. So I won't share any pics or other information with 99.9% of the peeps on here there are only 5 that have got my Digits, 2 that I gave other Social Media access. I've had each of these checked out... You can't be tok careful on the Internet. Now I don't ask anyone for their pics yet many ask for mine... I believe the Majority of "people" on this site are fake in some degree... I would hope you realize these are Internet friends and should not be taking the place of Real Life Friendships...

    • Thank you for MHO.

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  • How deep are these relationships would be my first question? Usually this is not behavior expected from acquaintances or people you have recently started talking too🎀

  • @wingattebaby16 I want to be your friend but there's a age restriction I don't know whats wrong with everybody else

  • You should really be careful with who you let in and don't give out too much information if you don't feel the other person is reciprocating.
    If you feel that he is opening up and really sharing genuine concerns about himself then you can tell he started to trust you.
    But lesson to learn here, don't ever put yourself at a disadvantage level with someone.
    Don't give too much when they don't give anthng in return.
    And be aware of the info you share.
    Like what that person knows is exactly what you want them to know, nthng more and nthng less.

  • They’re fakes.

  • They sound hypothetical no offense.

    • Hippocratic

    • right.. how hard is it to take a selfie with a note proving who you are? I am not acting like MySpace used to do... you had to take a selfie with a spoon stuck to your nose.

    • People always want mine unedited of course they have no photo at all. People want a lot but can't give the same

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  • There is no reason to refuse to send the pics you requested. Most internet conversations I have are with fakes. I treat them as if they are real because I don’t want to alienate the real ones by treating them badly. I need friends

  • I guess sexual pics (not talked about here, I know) are still a bigger problem for guys than for girls, because I think in the wrong hands, those guys might be considered harassing females passively by spreading nude pics of theirs.

  • I'll give you whatever just know that

  • Still in search for good friend out here 😇

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