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Would you want to know who had sex with your wife?

Before my husband I was pretty outgoing to say the least. I brought a lot of guys to my room when I was still studying. Mostly guys from the student clubs. I had this one chair that I placed in front of a mirror since guys apparently liked to stare at my ass while i was blowing them and on that chair a lot of the action happened. So there was always this weirdly placed chair in my apartment that my friends laughed at. No one dared to sit on it cause about 50 guys spilled some of their sauce on it. It was the famous sex chair and it became kind of a thing that everyone joked about.

When I quit studying, one of my friends did some research and as a joke, she got the chair signed by every guy she could find that got some service from me on that chair. So I laughed my ass off with that present and it was on my attic for a time. When I went and moved in with my husband, I of course needed to get rid of it and left it at my friends place. Now she recently sent me pics of that signed chair as a throwback. Pretty unlucky me, but my husband accidentally saw the pictures. He has been a little weird lately and has apparently been looking for all those guys online.

I told my husband that there have been a lot of random guys. We just never talked details and that seemed best. Now he kinda got a list of names. Do you think it makes a difference? Will he have a harder time, knowing who had sex with me?
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  • I'd be more concerned by that fact you wasn't open about it from the beginning.

    My girlfriend (likely future wife) was completely open about her past she's somewhat ashamed off (200 i think), so there's never been an issue.
    Now if she told me they where all one night stands, and i later found out they weren't, in which case now in my eyes she's a liar about her sexual past, hence a liar about her sexuality. If that trust is gone, then so is my desire for a relationship that's based on anything other than sex.
    Putting it simply; your word of your fidelity now means less than it did. If you lie about your past sexual partners, there's no reason you wouldn't lie about your current sexual partners either.

  • A) Your husband was a fool to marry you.
    B) No man wants to know the pootie he bought is super-high mileage.
    C) Your relationship with your husband will never be the same and he will have a hard time trusting you knowing what a cock-hound you are. People don't change.
    D) If you haven't already cheated on your husband you eventually will, it is in your basic nature.

    • Alright. Thanks for this info.

    • Would you marry you? What if your husband had a chair with the names of a hundred girls he fucked?

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  • I remember an episode of One Tree Hill where Haley wanted all the names of the girls Nathan had slept with before they even dated it ended with her being very upset as he was the only one who she had ever slept with me on the other hand I’ve only ever asked my ex one time if he slept with this girl other than that he always volunteered the information even if deep down I didn’t want to know

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  • If he does, that's on him. He needs to leave the past where it belongs: in the past.

  • He married you despite being aware about your past. Maybe he wants a free ticket to cheat and stuff from your past is good for negotiations in this topic?

  • It's not important to me honestly I'm more secure than that. Don't care if she sucked 0 dicks or 1000 if I love her I love her it makes 0 difference to me

    Actually not true I'd prefer if she sucked 1000 vs 0 in all honesty

    • Do you really think she will suddenly stop sucking cocks like crazy just because she met you? Are you THAT special? Answer: No. Only a fool thinks people will change their basic nature because they are in a relationship with you.

    • Maybe. Didn't say whether it mattered either tho cuz I've dated girls before where I didn't care either way. It's called a poly relationship and it takes being open and trust and it's not for everyone. In those relationships they were free to suck other dudes dicks and I was free to do whatever I desired with other women. Both times I was in a poly relationship they weren't very interested in blowing other dudes even though they were free to do so and it wouldn't have bothered me. It's not for everyone but every relationship has a unique balance and chemistry needed to work.

    • @Trex706 That's called having a fuck buddy, despite whatever fancy PC term you give it.

  • No.. Maybe the number of partners.. But not who, not the details.

  • Yes. I want to know the guy’s name, rank and serial number so I can hunt him down and shoot his balls off.

  • It not the names it's the reputation you had. His imagination is going now of what you my have back then that kinda hurt his feeling about you.

  • No , sometimes bits better not to know. We all get up to things when we are young. That are rather embarrassing when you are older...

  • Its not the greatest feeling in the world knowing your SO had a mouthful of innumerable cocks especially if they know the names of the cocks owners.

    • Well, saying it like that definitely doesn't make it sound great

    • Its true though

    • Say your man had the same chair and passionately ate out scores of school girls swallowed their juices, fingered them and you found out all of their names. Some people would be ok with that i guess

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  • I'd be impressed. 😂😂

  • Nope I could care less who she fucked before we met

  • I doubt this is true. And if so, you're actually a school slut


    You might be proud of it (God knows why). But it's disgusting to everyone else.

    • I was single throughout college. I think that's pretty normal.

    • I think being single is normal. Not doing whatever you did

    • I guess to modern women being a whore is normal. But, your husband will eventually realize you can't turn a whore into a housewife. No worries, you will divorce him and blame all the marital problems on him. Please do not have kids.

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  • He shouldn't have a problem. I think it's hot to hear about the things my girlfriend has done.

  • I would not want to know. Nothing good will come outta this

  • Well becareful sex outside of marriage does strange things. At least on you side that was before marrage or not

  • im surprised he stayed with you in the first place, seems like this is definitely harder on him

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