No. That would be like reading minds. If the girl is, like, playing head games—making you think she’s hot for you just to get a rise, and then passing you off to Rosie Palm and her five sisters—most guys don’t get that until it’s too late. If the girl is socially pristine and has ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what is appropriate and just does what the movies and TV teach her to do, the guy won’t catch on until she is running away and screaming into her phone, “911!!!”.
Guys should be waiting for the girl to be clear about her intentions. There is nothing wrong with just telling the guy she wants to make out... or blow him... or fuck. It’s not like just telling him will make her any more or less of a slut to the people who find out later than if they found out through the grapevine.
At the same time, the guys have to keep FIRMLY FOREMOST IN THEIR MINDS that she can—and very well might—change her mind and want to back out... and the guys have just got to be cool with that.
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Electric_DreamsExplorer
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I can't, because I have an autistic spectrum condition.
They be flirting with me n' I'm all rigid n' thinkin' like "what the hell lass, get outta' my personal space.. what the hell is she doing? Dude stop getting really close to my face.. stop asking me all these questions.. act normal please?"
I don't say any of that. So yeah then hours or days later I realise "Ohhhhhhh.. right.. well, she could've just told me.. and not freaked me out?".
Hey I probably freak them out too.. I mean if someone not responding positively to their flirting freaks them out..
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Thanks so much for sharing your story and experience... Super helpful🎀
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Billie_Explorer
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I know my boyfriend can tell because I start to kiss him more rough, and my voice becomes softer but he knows me pretty well so :D
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GREAT feedback 🙆🎀💦
Gina96Xper 5
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Body language. For me it's easy, all my friends tell me when I'm turned on (horny) my ears turn bright red 🤣🤣
There are subtle clues if you know where to look for them... lol
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Red_ArrowMaster
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She comes running into the room naked and dripping. Good clue there.
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That's one of the BEST clues sir 🙋🎀💕
rflullingXper 4
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Women don't makes it much secret when they are looking. Older women less so. Men learn to recognize that women put out certain signals when they are interested or ready. Because most of the time, women have to fight hard to keep men off their backs, to keep them from giving chase. The change in behavior is not subtle.
Sorry there is no easy way to put all this to words. It is something you learn but is not taught. Other things that are more specific cannot be described here ;-)
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This was such GREAT feedback 👏🔥🎀
jemismynameXper 5
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yeah when she says "let's have sex right now" or, like, she just starts taking off her clothes.. (this actually happens, believe it or not) i'm kind of a dumbass, in that regard, tho. :D
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Apple1996Master
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Most guys can't tell
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I totally agree! One of the reasons why I asked LMBO 😱🎀🙅
Andchadders
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I'm one of those guys!😂 Unless it's blatantly obvious, like she's making moves or actually saying so, I'm usually completely oblivious. I can't even tell when a girl is flirting though, so I'm a tad hopeless😅
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@Andchadders 😵🤯😱
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Andchadders
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I know, it's bad😅
Gaurav0047Xper 5
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That depends on one's behavior and observation.
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masterdm001Xper 4
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Not at all, I wish I could get some sort of signal though, I'd be ready to please
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You seem like a great guy that's for sure 🎀
JjpayneEditor
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I'd say, she gets close and more sensual, like she's yearning for something and waiting for you to take the hint
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A_BellYoda
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My eyes get big and my cheeks blush. I also get touchy. Not irritated, but I like to touch his knee or shoulder or back...
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Thanks for the helpful feedback!!!🙋🙆🎀
SjE78Guru
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yes i can a few different ways and different experiences with different gf's over the years 1) their mannerisms, sometimes they become more flirtier than usual 2) their body language, how they project themselves 3) their eyes, become a little glazy when horny 4) they become much wetter than usual 5) they can't refrain contact in certain areas 6) some are quite upfront about it too just to mention a few
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SjE78
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thank you pretty sure there were more but brain is tired so very cloudy at the moment
Lynx122Guru
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nope most 99% of the time I can't but if I was more interested in sex maybe I'd probably be a bit better at it.
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Jaximus-LionGuru
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I can! But only with the wife. I have no idea how other girls do and it's not my problem. She gets a little more stiff , little stressed and unfocused , and if she sees me bending over at home while doing chores she goes : HABA HABA HABA
And then i just turn to Marvin Gaye and do some healing
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I loveeeeeeee that chick... Especially in Mike and Dave need wedding dates 🎀
Jaximus-Lion
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She is on my list Aubrey Plaza that i would love to be friends with. I like her in Park and recreations more, am weak for sarcastic characters. The top two on my list are Tina Fey and Ryan Reynolds, people say the are very sarcastic in real too.
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Great taste for sure 🙋🎀🌸
just_a_potatoYoda
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The only way to tell is if she tells you she's horny, you ask her if she's horny, or she tells you to fuck her. From what I know at least lol.
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Barry88Yoda
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If they smirk and have that look in their eyes, I know what time it is. :D
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Ahahahaha sooooooo true 🎀
cunnilinguistXper 6
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It is not possible to establish with any degree of certainty with another person's acting talents. So how would anyone know whether someone else is acting or not? Women seem to be especially talented, even more so when it comes to sexuality. From faked interest to fake orgasms, depending on what they're trying to achieve.
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Thanks for the feedback love🦋
cunnilinguist
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No problem. I think it's slightly easier to tell when they're not horny. Also they can hide that too, when they have a reason to.
Apope16Editor
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Its hard but yes. I can sense it.
1. She keeps bobbing her knee uncontrollably or tapping her leg. I've noticed that a lot with girls at my apartment who know that sex is going to happen.
2. She might want the D if she's staring at your bulge. I actually notice a lot of women do this if they are drunk and horny. I don't think they notice.
3. She makes acsex joke or finds an excuse to bring up sex.
4. She talks about the home. Like whats its like the bed, new decorating. .. she's dying for you to ask to see her place or yours.
5. Pheromones. Sometimes at a bar and you are close to her... you can after awhile smell her body. Not like stink or anything. But like the natural sent of her soft skin. Its a sensual thing and she has no clue its happening.
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Love this post! Thank you 🙋🙆🎀
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You are welcome!
Purplemonkey24Xper 7
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I try to hide it lol just doesn't work all the time
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Me too!!! I feel like I am all sneaky with my questions LMBO 🤤🎀💦
GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
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Sometimes a girls face will be slightly different like rosey color or she could put off a scent from down there to let me know she is in the mood. LMAO
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You are sooooooooo right!!! 🙆🎀💖
GoodGuyBreakingBad
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LMAO Yes so true <3
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GreyWolf9000Xper 5
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It's very difficult to say.. But if you pay close attention to her body language.. You can... Women doesn't get horny like men ( physical changes).. Their arousal is more towards psychological and emotional...
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