No its creepy
LOL what is it then
Dressing up as pets or using pets?
Dressing up, getting dragged around
Lmao ok that can be some creepy shit
And he doesn't understand why it completely turned me off that he did stuff like that
Tell him to go to a Furries convention if he is into that shit lol
Well he did say we didn't have to but I'm still creeped out
Yea I don’t blame you , eventually he would be pulling out the costume for you to wear lol
Thanks for MHO , I would just ask you to wear lingerie 😋
Thanks that's normal
But if I pulled out the bunny ears it kills the mood lol
I mean not necessarily. Things that are demeaning and provocative aren't my thing like fantasy rape or BDSM or pet play...
Yea I agree , I think people that have to resort to that to get turned on have some fucked up issues in their life , same way I feel about sex toys , if you need toys to get off with someone in bed then something is off 2 people should just be naturally turned on by each other shouldn’t need a toy to bringOn the mood , a sex toy should be a joke like hey let’s try this vibrating cock ring one time then I see that being ok but to have to resort to that every time then something is off
Oh you brought back funny memories... but you are correct and then when you say you dont want to date them because of it they get all offended and say you be discriminating against me...
That’s when you leave it at that and move on let them find someone that likes to dress up on pet costumes , they have those Furry conventions every year let him go take part in that shit lol That sounds like what he needs , the stories I hear about those conventions is some crazy ass shit lol
I did and he said that's ok we can stay away from that but is it weird?
What was the fetish? I think everyone has their own thing and what they like, certain things may cross a line but I don’t think telling him you don’t want to is weird at all
Yeah I’ve seen that one, it’s strange to me, but I would never shame someone for having a fetish unless they actually enjoyed live animals and/or children or non consent fetishes
That's a good point. At least it's not possession. I don't know how I feel about it
As long as he doesn’t try it without your consent Or talk much about it, I would say don’t worry about it or think too much about it, depending on if he’s a dom or a sub person, I’d say it’s more about either wanting to show some dominance or be dominated, or if it’s a lifestyle thing I’d say it’s more of just wanting to be cared for or care for someone, not really about the whole pet thing
You're so right. Thank you. We get along well. I shouldn't let that get in the way
I’m sure you guys will do amazing :) good luck to you, don’t let some little thing get in the way ❤️
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So a fetish is legit just anything that turns you on?
Thanks for the question. I do think that--and act so--that there are reasonable limits. Some obvious limitations are rape, violence, drugs, children. The exact description of limits would require a dialogue. Be true to yourself!
Should I continue talking to him though? I dont know if you can get over stuff like that
at least he was honest to u about it. You should warn him that u were repulsed. Give him a chance to understand what u didn't like. He must be oblivious.
I did. I feel like he's processing now because he's not responding
He must have felt vulnerable and judged by your reaction.
I don't know how to help that
Just treat him normally as if nothing happened. Slowly earn back his trust.
His confidence might hv got shaken
Seldom girls gave fetish , we call it preference and it's exactly brhe same. But men with fetish is presumed bro be sick, while our preference seems to be accepted
I like sex. I don't know what all this hoopah fetish is about.
May I ask what fetish he has?
Okay yeah That is really disturbing
It's that fucking scary... even would scare a psycho
Isn't a private detective, a stalker? Just think about it
No a private detective is a paid, professional job. A stalker is not paid and acts in an unprofessional way such as hiding in your bushes. I dont see your point
It's just a fancy word to describe him, if I pay a private detective to dig dirt on you, tracking your whereabouts.It's the same if a stalker do it himself
Exactly. Everything in society, regrettably, has a label
Hope men treat you well, don't let it get to you be strong
@Petra150 thanks I try to