Do you get sex offers from strangers?

I haven't. But I can tell how disgusted and harassed I would feel if a man asked me for sex.
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  • One time, at a party, in college. Not sure to what degree that counts as a stranger given that she was a fellow student.

    However, I had not seen her before - at least that I recall - and we had been both drinking a bit. She just came up to me right bolt out of the blue and said, "You're hot! Let's have sex!!"

    What guy, in his dreams, does not want to hear that. I was a sophomore, 19, and had just broken up about two months before with my high school girlfriend. So I was a bit down, a bit drunk, a bit horny and a bit flattered and half thinking it was a prank - and so we did it.

    We went back to her apartment just off campus. I was in the dorms and had a roommate and so it was not an option. She had a roommate too but she left us to ourselves - other than when I first got up and was walking around slightly hung over and naked, wondering where I had put my underwear. (It was on the floor in the main area.)

    Frankly, embarrassingly, I did not even know her name till the next morning. Quite a way to get to know someone - in bed and naked, me sporting a very obvious erection.

    It was quite an episode and although I actually enjoyed it, I would not repeat it. (In any case, my girlfriend and I have lived together for 12 years and have three children, so random sex on my part would not be a good idea in any case.)

    There was also a postscript. We parted company and that was that until about three weeks later she tracked me down to tell me she thought she was pregnant. False alarm - she wasn't, but we ended up dating for a few months after that.

    Weird story. Never would have expected it - but that was college in those days I guess.

  • Yes.

    a girl i knew in highschool i sat next to in chemistry class. Started to talk to me slowly. And we kinda became friends.

    then one day, she asked me if she can suck my dick the next day after school.
    Her parrents were not gunna be home til late late that day.

    And i let her.

    I didn't know her too well then.

    but we wound up being great friends after.
    and would hang out.
    Copy eachothers home work etc...

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah it’s happened a few times. I recall one time in high school a guy I knew on the wrestling team approached me and asked me if I did conjugal visits. At the time I didn’t know wtf that meant. Apparently it’s when prisoners are allowed to see their spouses and have sex. I said no.

    Also I had a friend who offered to go down on me. In retrospect he was probably madly in love with me. I sent him a picture of me choosing my prom dress. He sent me back a long text paragraph essentially saying that I looked gorgeous and that he would give me head. I ended up accepting his offer. I used to cut school and go to his house and he’d go down on me and give me food. We never had sex. I never returned the favor. He’d just give me head and then we’d eat and cuddle.

    • Wow it's wonderful

    • @steveranger It was good times. He went on to stalk me for a while after I stopped seeing him, but before the stalking it was good times.

  • I reside in a very reserved Asian country where it is very strict with safety for the citizens so I have never experienced this. I couldn't even imagine myself in such situation, I would feel terrible about myself even though it's never my fault. My heart goes out for the anyone that have been through this

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  • Only a couple times from women. Men though, plenty of times.

  • No but I whish it happened to me!

  • Here or in everyday life?

    • In real life

    • No. never a direct offer

  • I wish you were with me to see and witness the offers that strangers come with but i have nothing to back it up. I agree with your opinion, i turned many down.

  • Often. My reaction really depends on who it is and in what situation

  • Then from where do you want sex?

    • From marriage

    • OMG, then is to late for me, i can't whait that long, the dick is having a limit of life around 40-50 age the dick will not work any more. I will not get married at 18 to have sex and just to have sex 10 or 20 yare if i get around 30age, that is a whaist

  • Frequently, from both men and women.

  • I never do that. If I do that she'll KO me or worse 😱.

  • Explicit or implicit?

  • Don't worry we are offering it to girls younger than your age group not yours so you don't have to worry about it happening.

    • How old are you?

  • No, I try to get to know them first...

  • Yes I have been asked

  • I wish I could get em

  • Not yet, if she ia hot i would make out and if she is not would say good bye

  • No I wish I got.. but I do offer it everyday

  • I think it all depends on how much the girl likes the guy

  • No I am a male, I dont have the privilege of being approached by the opposite sex at such a rate that I would find it “disgusting” or “harassing”.
    Like most males, I appreciate a females interest

  • I haven't. But I would feel quite flattered if a girl came up to me and wanted to have sex with me. Assuming they were being serious. I have a girlfriend already, so I wouldn't accept but it'd probably still make my day.

  • No, but I wouldn't say no most likely, if she is my type and/or I'm in a mood.

  • No unfortunately

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