Guys, Is this a sign that I suck in bed? I'm a girl, but I need a guys advice on this?

Okay, so I am 20 years old. I lost my virginity at 16 to my boyfriend at the time. He stayed with me for about 4 years. He said I was the best sex he ever had (and he had been with quite a few girls before me.) He still texts me after we broke up and we still fuck frequently. After the break up however, I've been with 3 other guys. The first guy I slept with after the break up had a girlfriend and we all had a threesome. While the guy was fucking me, he told me that I was really tight and that i was the tightest he's ever had and he said that in front of his girlfriend, so that caused a lot of problems and it basically ended with the girlfriend crying and I had to leave. He never fucked me again. I understand why on that one. But the next guy I had sex with was a lot older than me. We fucked about 3 or 4 times and he came within a couple minutes each time we had sex.. We fought way too much and he lives a couple hours away from me. He tried to date me, but I told him that I didn't want to and that I'd rather just be fuckbuddies. He took offense to that and told me that I was a psycho and that he was done trying with me. I haven't heard from him since. And the last guy I had sex with was my age and he only fucked me 3 times. He also came within a couple minutes each time we had sex as well. He always seemed embarrassed about that, he always apologized for it, but I never made a big deal about it and I never complained. I was actually very nice to him and I told him that i liked sex with him. He said the sex was really good and that I had great pussy and he said that I tasted nice. But one day, I woke up and tried to text him and found out that he had blocked me.. for no reason. I can only get guys to fuck me 3 or 4 times and then they are done with me. Is this a sign that I suck in bed? Every guy that I've been with after the break up has said that I'm very tight and they can't last very long with me, but I can't keep them around. Usually if a guy likes sex with a girl, he stays around, right?
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And no, I am not easy. I do not have a reputation for being easy or anything. I just simply can't keep a guy around and I'm wondering if its because my sex or pussy sucks. Maybe the guys I've been with lied to me about how good it was?
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  • no.

    I'm sure there is a scientific term for this but in general, I think you've presented a set of information from which to draw a determination, but we are missing other important information which is creating the result which is baffling you. Like we get some pieces to a puzzle that looks like one thing but it's something else.

    At a loss here... But then again, I don't live in your world... and that's a messed up world relative to what I think.

    • What do you mean?

    • about what?

    • After the 'no.' the 2 following paragraph was just bullshitting. To paraphrase it, all he said was: Not enough information to know to whole picture. e. g. Your upbringing, family, culture etc. p. s. He is 53 years old so he is either 1. trolling or 2. he knows what up, but at the same time he is too nice to put it bluntly.

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  • Dang !! Hard to say... more than likely , they thought they weren't doing you any good or wanted someone who didn't get them off so quick! Truly hard to say ; I'd bet the Last guy already had a girlfriend, is why he blocked you!
    There is NO. such thing as BAD, Sex... some is better than others is all !
    Stay positive!

    • Does. this mean that they werent really having great sex with me, which is why they quit me? They all told me that the sex with me was great, but they only fucked me 3 or 4 times then quit me.. I wonder what's wrong with my pussy..

    • Literally nothing else was wrong. I treated these guys nicely and I wasn't crazy or clingy or anything. I'm wondering if maybe I just have bad pussy which made them want to quit having sex with me..

    • No way! No such thing there's nosuch thing as bad Pussy... and if they said " your sex/pussy was good " then it must have been all on them ! Probably, just wanted something on the side and You being the nice young Lady you are ; felk in the trap and got left! I'm sorry! Did you meet these guys on the internet?

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  • Your issue is that you link self worth to sex. This appears to be your main focus but it's not something that will ever set you apart, because it's like water in this day and age. Unfortunately you are asking all of the wrong questions and have fallen into the same trap that many other women have fallen into. If one were to completely remove sex from the equation... what would be left. Just food for thought.

  • Its not a sign you are bad in bed. You are just attracting the wrong guys. Date first, then fuck.

  • Wouldn't be able to answer everything without firsthand knowledge but it sounds like you are definitely good in bed. but there may be something else that is affecting the long term.

    • Like what? All the guys had nice things to say about me they said I was sweet and nice, easy to talk to, told me i had a good personality, etc. I never tried to push a relationship on anyone.. the older guy tried to date me, but I said no. The guy around my age blocked me for literally no reason. I just dont know what's wrong with me.. I have a job, I'm in school, I have motivation. I just can't keep people around..

    • I can only get guys to fuck me 3 or 4 times. If they liked the sex that much, they wouldve stayed to at least have sex with me sometimes, right?

    • Maybe yo are too good and are ruining them for regular gals so they are trying to forget. Might think on trying some diffrent position variations and working with them on foreplay.

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  • You've only been with 3 or 4 guys, so I really can't say. Guys in your age group though, aren't ready to commit it seems nowadays. True, you were with an older guy; but you argued and I don't figure sex had anything to do with it... your personalities clashed. I just really think you are getting with the wrong type of guys.

    • Every guy I was with came within a couple minutes during sex. They all said I was really tight and tasted nice.. I mean, if they liked the sex that much, they wouldve stayed around to fuck again, right? Maybe they were lying about how good it was?

    • Some guys it's all about the chase... once they've had it, all the fun is out of it. It doesn't matter how good you are, they'll move on, regardless.

    • Is it possible that all the guys were lying when they said the sex was good so that they didn't upset me?

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  • I would think so too. You said one guy even liked the way you tasted and that guys came within minutes. Normally if i did that i wouldn't stop i just would keep going for another two loads. But its crazy they would just block you or just give up on you. Its got to be something other than the sex.

    • I think he blocked me because of his ex. They are now back together because I saw them around. Does this mean that he thought his ex was better in bed than me? Since he blocked me for her..

    • It's more likely he still had feelings for his ex or else if it was just the sex he would had found another girl.

    • You don't think the guys thought I was bad at sex?

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  • Relationships aren't ONLY about sex and some guys aren't ready for a relationship at all. The only bad sex that is out there is if you just lay on your back and do nothing and make no noise so if you aren't doing that you are good

    • I moved around and moaned and stuff. But I'm worried that maybe I have bad pussy or something which made them want to quit me. Because literally nothing else was wrong. I was nice to them and didn't act crazy, etc.

    • You don't have bad pussy. Relationships are just weird like that sometimes

    • Is it possible that all the guys were lying to me about the sex being good so that they wouldn't hurt my feelings?

  • Why buy the cow if you can get the muk for free.

  • No you are not suck at bed you are the hottest girl who melted them so quickly so be proud on yourself and enjoy your hot body.

  • Maybe you’re not getting to know them enough before you fuck them.

  • No you’re not bad in bed you’ve just had a few less than ideal experiences

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