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Younger sister and my bfs. Advice?

I have four siblings. My older brother whose 26, im 24, my younger sister is 21. And my half brother 16 and sister 15.
Growing up i was secretly always jealous of my younger sister. I came out looking more like a normal white girl. She however took after my mom. She got the nice dark hair, light eyes. She was very insecure growing up and i have to admit. I was abit mean due to my own insecurities.
When she turned 15. After two years of not seeing her due to me studying in a foreign country. When i did see her again i was shocked. She went from having a boys body to having the perfect hourglass shape. My boyfriend who was my age at the time was extremely attracted to her. My sister and i had a deep conversation and she exllained how she resented me for years. She mentioned how i made fun of her with the other kids in school. How i made comments about her looks. How id flirt with all her crushes. The truth is i did all these thing. And i apologized. But the resentment grew as time went on. She got more and more beautiful. Everyone wanted her. I thought she peaked in highschool but she just keeps getting better. I found comfort in knowing that our youngest sister may grow up to be more attractive so she could feel how i feel. And to my disappointment. That wasn't the case. She is still the beautiful one. she's 21 and dating a millionaire. She bought shares last year that blew up this year. She has about 500k and growing at 21.
We got into a fight last night. And she admitted to me that she's had sex with every boyfriend I've ever had. And laughed and told me that her ex told her i tried to flirt with him. But he turned me down. And thats when she decided to sleep with my bfs. Im so hurt. And so angry. I told my mom. But my mom blames me. Everyone blames me. Because apparently im narcissist. How should i handle this
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  • Wow - You have one difficult situation to deal with! At the end of the day you can live in the past with all the anger and guilt, or you can decide to live in the present and future, the choice is exclusively yours. To get there the most important thing you need to be concerned about are you own insecurities.

    At 24 you should be living on your own and not financially tied to your family. That gives you the freedom to invest in yourself which is what you need most! Your relationship with your younger sister is very toxic today. That does not mean 10 years from now it can't be better. It will not be better until you gain control of your insecurities.

    So with only the one issue to deal with (insecurity) you can manage your life. You don't need to be managing anyone's else life, not your job. Stay true to yourself and understand you are a very capable person. In your opinion your younger sister is prettier, but my bet is you are also very attractive. Take time to stay in condition, what ever you do for exercise be consistent with it. Try to find a friend or two to workout with, it will really help to keep the encouragement and commitment up. Staying in shape builds self confidence and provides you with obtainable goals to reach. You know what weight you like to be and an exercise program helps you maintain that goal and gives you more self esteem.

    The goal for you is to proud of who you are and what you believe in. Take pride in your personal accomplishments. Let go of the anger that was brought on by Mother Nature, you had no control over what your sister grew up looking like. One day you will be able to see her and tell you her how proud you are that you have a sister so pretty. Imagine how that will take all the wind out of the "fighting with her" sails!

    You didn't mention your older Brother in all of this. Maybe you have a reasonable relationship with him and you two can keep that up and leave little sister out of the conversation until you are feeling stronger, and let go of your insecurities. At the end of the day, focus on yourself and your own well-being, you are going to discover the rest of your anger will blow away and happiness will fill that void.

    Best Wishes to you!

  • If it's anyone's fault your boyfriends fucked your sister it's theirs. She flirted with them and tried to get them to fuck her. They did so. They weren't forced. They made a choice. You, however, are the ccx reason your sister hates you enough to. do that to you though.

    • Yes. I didn't know at the time. But its abit hard to say no to her

    • A lot easier to say no if you're in a relationship. If they fucked before or after your relationship then it'd be more understandable. Also the reason why she's dating a millionaire isn't solely or primarily due to her looks. Really rich people have to choose more carefully when dating someone. Hey can get really attractive girls, but some girls will just b wrrrhthem because of the money and that isn't a healthy relationship. Due to is wealth, Mark Zuckerberg could have married a model. He didn't, and the reason why his wife isn't terribly attractive is because he (smartly) went for love rather than looks. He wanted someone who loved him, not his money. As your sister already has 500k+, chances are if her boyfriend was a sugar daddy she' have left him for someone more attractive. Yet if they're dating because of love, it's a different story entirely. Without knowing her boyfriend I can't tell if he's going for looks or not. Although I could probably tell you whether or not he was raised rich based on her boob to body ratio.

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  • Sorry.. I don't know. I didn't understand and I'm sooo confused 😡

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  • What shares does she own? Oh yeah just get with her bfs to break even.

    • He doesn't like me because of all she's told him.

    • What what stock market shares did she own to make 500k?

  • you should handle this by realizing that you are a failure as a sister, and karma hit you like a truck going at 80 mph... you *DESERVE* this ALL of it.

    • as a sister you should have defender her against anyone who made fun of her, at home you should have told her that everything was going to be okay, you should have supported her through thick and thin, no matter what because family ultimately is all you have in life. But no, you decided to MOCK your sister, humiliate her, berate her, and when Karma hits you hard and keeps hitting you hard year after year you're whining? you're seriously WHINING "why is this happening to me?" are you for real? god i can't believe what i just read

    • So sleeping with my bfs is okay. Why the fuck is everyone blaming me. she's a shitty person clearly

    • you MADE HER into this shitty person... "every action has an equal and opposite RE-action" Sir Isaac Newton... YOU made her into this monster because YOU were not a good SISTER to her. Karma bitch

  • Fuck 🥺🥺 how she knows all your boyfriend and that's really sad that she is doing like this maybe she is taking revenge on you for making fun of her but still she is just doing worst thing just stay away from her and try to stay calm to not get hurt by her cause she is toxic for you now.

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