I have been with a girl who had one. I asked a lot of questions and came up with this "theory". The word "rape" has connotations of hostility, violence and physical harm. Since I like to split hairs to establish the real meaning of things, what you may be fixating on is actually being sexually conquered or ravished..."taken" not according to your will, but not harmfully or in fear either. If you look at the word "ravish", you get:
Capture, Seduce, Enrapture, take someone's breath away (sometimes a girl's code for being given an orgasm). Maybe its a "ravish" fantasy, which is appealing to both girls and guys. Sexuality is a delicate dance ruined, I might add, by #metoo and other social justice movements.
It's not rare. You may have that rough sex fantasy or you find thrill in being dominated or over powered or being compelled to do things to an extent. Your fantasy may however differ from the outcomes of actual rape as in actual rape, the assaulters will not consider your injury or your pleasure. They may penetrate before one is properly aroused leading to pain and injury later may turn out to life threatening.
It will not be as pleasurable as fantasy and many people die due to rape. So be careful while acting on such fantasy. Do it consensually
Lots of people have it. I think it’s more of just the thrill of being overpowered and dominated over an actual rape-kink.
The first time I did it was when my boyfriend at the time decided to get a little forceful with me. It was scary at first, but I ended up being into it.
It is actually the #1 female fantasy of all time! ... end of story :)
TOP TEN SEXUAL FANTASIES OF ALL TIME!
, wow I can't even come close to that that is awesome makes me want to blank blank blank blank blank you're right they are the top 10 you nailed it now how many in the world actually do that? I for one volunteer
@Renagadefl69 ... lol
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!There are real stores where women have fallen in love with the person who kidnapped and Raped her. They weren't aware of their desire. It would be good for you to let your partner know that you've such a fantasy and let him plan something. That way the sex would not be unknown source and would make you feel a lot better.
Sorry, what is a rape kink? I've never heard of it before so maybe its uncommon
I wouldn’t say it’s common, but a decent number of my friends have confessed that they have fantasies of being raped. I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t.
May I ask what's so sexy or hot about being raped?
Nothing. It’s disgusting behavior
It seems to be a common fantasy for women and I think that's disturbing. It's like "I want you to consensually penetrate me sexually against my will."
Why disturbing?
I think it's psychologically messed up to fantasize about and play act being a victim of a violent crime.
I'm absolutely against the hurting or someone else so you can have personal pleasure, that being said I see a movie the other night called Asian school girls and let me tell you I couldn't get it out fast enough, was like a rock that had to have the lava released from it I couldn't believe how turned on I was
I think it's fairly common
I wouldn't say most people have it, but its not uncommon.
I can both see how it would be hot and horrifying.
Yes I'd act on it consensually, but I'd need to talk about it a fair bit first, have safe words, but then i'd be pretty enthusiastic and rough if she was into it. I'd also need to engage in warm affection afterwards, because I'm a suck like that.
I never did but i will like to try it.
Every girl deserves to be roughed up, and raped!..
But that should be In a controlled environment...
Stretched to her limits,
She should have safe words..
And nothing that could do permanent damage to her body should be done!..
And all major and minor details should be covered in a written contract!.. Legally signed by both parties and 2 witness.
i think its got its people, not common but not uncommon, i dont have it but if a girl i cared about and i was with had a kink like this and she wanted it badly then id do it for her, gotta fulfill her desires right 🤷🏽♂️
Sorry about responding to an older meg. and doing so via PM ( poor excuse to see your lovely pic again). The rape fantasy you mentioned is the single most popular fantasy among women. It's impossible to discuss because people are confused about the terminology. The turn on seems to come from wanting to feel so irresistably desirable that the passion overrides all concerns and. So desirable that no rational mind can suppress the urge to fuck you. Guys feel it too but it's never really as good since the "over-powering part" is not likely.
I've been the recipient a few times, once a beautiful blonde girl who was a housemate at school seduced me. I was dumb enough to actually think she meant sleep when she asked if she could sleep in my room because a house party was too loud. I got it just before she slid her hand between my thighs. Another time at a bar-live music, a girl I've never met nor knew her name was dancing in front of me, talking to her friends and dry humping me- couldn't even see he & didn't know her name- still don't but the SRO crows was enough distraction that she edged me with her ass until finishing me with her hand while she was supposedly half-dancing * chatting w/ friends.
If you're ever inclined to share info I'd love to know the details so I can use them. Sorry if PM or subject offensive
It's not really about the sex it's more of control and being controlled it's a submissive idealistic again just be safe do that particular thing with someone you really trust
Me too. Its sexy
I met a girl online who also had one. I drove her to the woods, tied her up and stripprd her
I fingered her, forced her to suck me, then fucked her. When I was done with her i dropped her back home. She loved it.
Yes, it's far more common that you think. What you are describing is referred to as CNC (Consensual Non-Consent.) It is something I have incorporated into a few different arrangements/relationships.
I don't believe what you have is a "rape kink". It's probably a rough, "overpower me sexual kink". Once it's consensual, it can't possibly be rape. If you find someone you trust and they go too far, and you have the power to stop it, it's not rape, not even close.
Women who are raped will tell you they feared for life. Even if they didn't, they knew THEY couldn't make it stop. Imagine having a knife at your throat, or really powerful hands wrapped around it, or a revolver in your mouth, and hearing "I'm going to fuck you and if you make a sound, you're dead." I seriously doubt you fantasize about that, or can even imagine the real fear.
I understand the "force me to do what you want" kink, and to feel "like" you have no control. But the fact is, you do when it's consensual with a trusted partner, because you can have a lot of fun giving into it. I wish women wouldn't call it a rape kink, or rape fantasy though, because it's not !
I'd love to be tied down to a table, and have two or three girls do what they want with me. I would tell them to get off when I was about to cum, keep riding me because I really want my load.
Oh it is a LOT more common than polite society would like to believe.
I ordered creepy masks 2 of them for me and my big 'll cocked friend to wear when we kicked my girlfriends bedroom door open, tied her up and do ed het and soaked her sheets, then we left her tied up and she still hasn't told me about someone and their friend rapping her
I have always wanted consentually of course to have aggressive sex with a woman. I want to do this during her period. Very hot
Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Most Helpful Guys