Why am I so embarrassed to admit I like sucking dick?

[Anonymous]

I have always felt embarrassed to say I like sucking dick and I don’t know why. It’s not something I would do casually but it’s something I enjoy. I am not embarrassed for people to know that I have sucked dick, but I am embarrassed to say that I enjoy it. The only person I have ever told I enjoy it to was the person I gave it to but now I secretly regret that. I have no problem with people knowing that I am comfortable giving someone head but I can never willingly say “I like sucking dick.” It makes me feel so strange and I have no clue why. When people ask me if I like it or hate it, I just say it’s alright. The weird thing about this though, is this is the only sexual thing I’m embarrassed to admit I like doing. Everything else I’m opened about. I also don’t think anything about other girls saying they like it.

[ArrRenn]

I don’t know. I like sucking dick.

I guess it has something to do with “admitting” it. As if you are confessing some horrible and depraved sin. I mean, really: guys like getting head so much that they will do almost anything to get it, and women who give head—even sub-par head—are looked favorably upon by men everywhere (even Bill Clinton—president of the US and leader of the free world, arguably the most powerful man in the world—could not resist an offer of head). It isn’t like our society openly condemns cocksuckers... only slut-shames them when they use their mouths to actually say that they do it. Which is, to my way of seeing it, quite nearly the height of hypocrisy. (Right up there with Catholic priests blowing altar boys...)

I am not saying it would be an easy thing to shake the stigma. You have been raised to its measure, and the stoop in your shoulders that has resulted will cause you some pain for a while whenever you stand tall. You will have to suffer that pain while your back unbends until you are able to hold your head high while you look the other in the eye and tell them, “I like sucking dick.”

And dare them to say anything.

Be proud, Anony-mouse, proud like a lioness. Remember the power you hold in doing something that you REALLY LIKE TO DO. When you have his penis in your mouth and his plums in your hand, think of what you could get him to do. Not by threatening him with pain... but by letting him know that, if you don’t get what you want from him, the yummy feeling goes “bye-bye”. When another woman calls you a slut or a whore, just remind her that you could turn her man’s head in a New-York minute – and HE WOULD WANT YOU TO.

Roar, baby!

[slatyb]

Why? Maybe you were brought up being told that sex is shameful, or that sex is something women should reluctantly "give" to men. But you don't have to keep believing that. Your partners will be thrilled if you tell them (at an appropriate time, like the first time you are going to have sex) "I hope you like getting head, because I love giving it. If we're going to be together I'm going to want to do that a lot."

[Asker]

I think that is exactly why:(

[chrissykerdock]

I think if you read the responses you'll know for sure why your embarrassed to admit it... slut is the word used the most... I love and enjoy sucking dick myself... and I get made fun of for wanting to suck so much at times of course it's nice to have a boyfriend or a guy who doesn't mind sitting back and enjoy his blowjob... it also feels good for the sucker when it's in your mouth hard and soft as in feeling his head and skin in your mouth... unfortunately you will get called a slut a lot no matter how much we enjoy it.

[Socal99]

Oh I would never complain if I had a woman that was obsessed with sucking cock I would never say no

[Socal99]

I'm sorry but if I have a woman that absolutely loves sucking my cock there's no way I'm going to sit there and call her a slut I'm going to fucking enjoy every minute of her doing it as much as she wants through the day I'll even kiss her after I come in her mouth

[shreya_shiry]

I love sucking cock. And I consider myself quite good at it. There is no need to be embarrassed about what you like.

[cba1331102]

i love the way you said your first sentence ;p

[shreya_shiry]

I know! 😂

[cba1331102]

Your love is that strong for a cock in ur mouth 👅

[Socal99]

That's awesome way to go it'd be nice to meet a woman like you that enjoys sucking cock so much. I have never to this day had a woman make me come from a blowjob and less I was actually helping myself my fucking her mouth otherwise it's never happened

[Socal99]

How often do you suck cock and when's the last time you sucked it. When the guy comes where do you take it in your mouth and swallow or do you spit it out and have you ever kissed a guy after he came in your mouth

[Bad_milk]

Hell yea, it’s fun trying to make a guy cum. Get it nice and sloppy. I like to deepthroat too.😋Also guys love hearing you like sucking dick

[djmzes]

Simple

It is your choice to like or not.

[Love2Jackit]

Don't be ashamed. Just be proud and shout it out loud. Many girls/women don't like 2 admit. Meaning they like sucking dick. Reason they don't want 2 admit. Cause many people hate on some things. Especially if involves pleasuring someone. Oh when it comes 2 dick sucking. Many women hate on. They try 2 say it's nasty. That's only cause they are the ones having 2 give the pleasure. Oh I promise u many of those same women. When it comes 2 them being ate out. They are all for it. Main reason they are the ones getting all the pleasure. In all honesty I think it should be give an take. The 2 of u being of an equal.

[Teyfet]

It's considered Taboo by many (especially religious groups), and that shame has seeped into our culture & been embraced by the simple: terms like "cocksucker" are insults. It sounds like you are both titilated & appauled by the act - embrace this side of yourself, become very good at it, and you will drive him crazy, which will excite you all the more. (Though it is probably best to never let him record you.) In the future, you never have to tell a guy that you like giving head. If you want him to know, you can show him by the way you devour him. Or he may know by smelling your excitement in the air, or by his explosive orgasm.

[Stellargasm]

You may just be conditioned to feel guilty about it. You said you regretted telling a guy who’s dick you sucked, why is that? Did he start bugging you to do it all the time or something? I say just live your life and don’t worry too much about it.

[lightbulb27]

you lack confidence in speaking your truth because you fear being rejected and outcast. the problem with exposing this to the guy how it could be used against you to hurt you... e. g. shame and fear.

Find Christ, find your inner strength... can do that with Christ or without, ideally with so you have a solid formation of love to come from.

Then stand up and unapologetically , speak your truth. I see nothing wrong with it in that... thats whom you are.

question becomes why you have this fetish. may be ok reasons and maybe not.

Reality is sex is part of the brain, and there is a suckling thing going on. for you, for whever reason, it is strong. or you got caught up in unhealthy porn that caused your brain to over stimulate that image.

your same as everyone else, however some "quirks" are more acceptable than others. You stand up at church or make videos on that, and some may not feel safe accepting and supporting. Thus a reason people have private lives.

You can read the Cher Hight (spelling?) sex report from decades ago to see how much people hold secretly.

[Soteris]

Embarrassment is usually related to discomfort although in a lesser degree. Basically you are not comfortable with openly admitting this either because its exposing your private life too much or because you think its socially frowned upon. Its part of your mentality so to speak and if your views change so does what you are embarrassed over.

As for WHY exactly.. we dont know and we can't know. It requires someone to intimately study you on a personal level such as a very good psychiatrist. Suffice to say its not going to be an easy straightforward answer. That said I find things like this irresistible in women so you got that going for you (yes I like to tease)

[Anubis22]

There is nothing wrong with you, it's society you're just afraid of being judge. I had a similar experience too. I was in love with a bad guy but I was too afraid of telling this to my friends. I thought they will judge me paint me as a bad girl n will kick me out of the group, and i don't wanted to lose them. anyway do what makes you happy

[jason222]

@anubis22 thats a good comparison. did u end up getting with that guy?

[Anubis22]

@jason222 well yes as I said he was a bad guy so eventually, I realized he is not good for me

[Tamera952]

It’s a highly prized skill

[dwcl99]

I think that you're afraid of being called a slut. But there's nothing wrong with it.

I wish more girls liked doing it like you.

[LeeannaDD]

I like sucking dick. Not afraid to say it

[Asker]

I wish I could be like that

[LeeannaDD]

I feel like a lot of girls are afraid to be slut-shamed

[Asker]

That is what I’m afraid of

[Asker]

But I don't know why I’m afraid to be slit shamed for this

[LeeannaDD]

Because other girls are Afraid to say they enjoy it too so they continue the viscous cycle

[TCredo]

the shaming part is unfortunate... people should just people like what they like...

[Lynx122]

Probably just because it's a very submissive thing and because of shaming. But you'll get used to it at some point I think. I'm glad when women enjoy pleasuring guys it makes me happy because I really like that in a woman :)

[BlondeGoneWild]

I love it! I can orgasm from it alone

[JamesBlackDragon]

That's awesome my girlfriend is the same way

[TadCurious]

I don't know why you're embarrassed. Maybe because you worry that it reflects negativity on you. But it doesn't! I'm not embarrassed to say that I really really like giving oral to my girlfriend. It's just not the kind of thing you talk about in most settings.

[Reaperbot666]

some girls like giving oral because they feel in control of a man's pleasure or orgasm.

but at any rate it is not a bad thing if you enjoy it that is. just find someone who likes you doing it to them. (which would most likely be 8 of 10 guys you meet).

[theChineseWASP]

It's easy to say it online but I guess it's harder to say it in person.

[Asker]

It’s easier to say it anonymously

[Jessjochen]

Women’s sexuality is always treated as if it’s something shameful when it really isn’t. If anything it should be empowering.
What ever you enjoy, make the most of it and I’m sure your boyfriend is very happy.

[Dargil]

Here's a guess. Fellatio has been traditionally looked at as casual slutty behavior as opposed to the skilled, intimate therapy that it can be. Ironically, men, such as myself, who love giving cunnilingus are looked at admirably by women and pervy in a positive way by men.
I suppose some women look at it as appeasing and submissive. Nonsense. You undoubtedly know the absolute stop-breathing-don't-do-anything-to-stop-her control you have over a guy when orgasm is on the horizon and his knowing the unmitigated pleasure that is coming when he is cumming.

It is good that you like it and want to be good at it. And remember this undeniable truth of life.

[beldath]

Nothing wrong with that. Everyone has something they like to do that turns them on.
I like going down on a woman. It turns me on. I love making them squirm, having them squeeze my head with their thighs, and the taste/smell is enjoyable.

[Socal99]

Why feel embarrassed about it just enjoy it the feel of that cock in your mouth sucking on it and tasting his cum kissing him with it. How often do you suck cock

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Guys actually really like it when girls we date say they love sucking our dicks. Especially if she shows her enjoyment during the act itself, maybe even teasing about it beforehand, whispering in his ear "guess what I can't wait to suck, baby?", that sorta thing.

And fwiw, many of us like licking pussy too, so you have no reason to be anything but proud of your little hobby lol