Wold you pressure someone whose waiting until marriage to have sex?

[tiajoka]

[godfatherfan]

Pressure? never. I simply would move on to someone else. Having been married for 25 years, waiting til marriage is the absolute worse possible thing you can do for a healthy marriage. First, why do you want your wedding night ruined? Or I should say whenever you finally get to do it since it was 2 days before we actually slept since the wedding went to 2am and we had to go to the airport at 5am for our honeymoon. Secondly, and most importantly, you can't learn sexual compatibility. If you have never had sex, you will not know what you like and don't like. I broke up with someone because we just were not sexually compatible. Best to learn that before it requires divorce.

[FlirtWithMeeee]

Not if I truly cared about person. Someone who tries to pressure someone into sex is very egocentric. They only care about themselves. It's all about what they want and how they feel. They have zero concern or respect for the person they want to have sex with.

[needy1234_]

Absolutely not. I'm a celibate and if a man pressures me to have sex knowing I'm a celibate just shows that he doesn't respect me and just wants to get in my pants.

[CreativeMumble]

No, that's their choice.
However, I think I would want to talk about their view about it vs. my view about it and have an open discussion.

[Jeff9743]

No, but I mean if they end up giving it, then that's OK, right?

[tiajoka]

Yeah of course. If it's their own thinking and feelings that changed their mind then it's their choice. Though I'd say maybe make sure they're sure and it's not just an in the moment thing.

[Jeff9743]

@tiajoka I mean at one stage I wanted to just get rid of my virginity, but no I'm pretty unsure so I might just wait lol

[Sensmind]

No totally her choice, think of something you believe in and someone trying to move you away from it, that is how it feels for her

[slatyb]

I wouldn't be dating her in the first place.

[theChineseWASP]

I would just avoid those girls altogether.

[DonJuanPabloMiguel]

Depends. Some girls just put up this facade of piousness. I knew this girl at church who looked real innocent and always attended church for Bible bashing. But on Sundays I always noticed her giving me certain naughty looks so I asked her over for Bible studies and she agreed. And soon as I applied some pressure she was she was fully on it and her whole demeanour changed.

Church got a freaky side to them.

[vannefftor]

Anyone who says yes are the textbook definition of swine

[Twalli]

I just wouldn't date them. If that makes them feel pressured, it's their problem. I make my position plain. If we don't match, there's no point in dating.

[bamesjond0069]

I would love to find a girl like this. And i would totally respect her, unlike these hos out here.

[bklynbadboy1]

Yes I wouldn't pressure them just make it hard to say no lol

[FrenchyRomain]

i'm not pressuring her into having sex before marriage, i'm not even talking to her.

[beatcoock]

With her fiance or with the other?

[B2281]

Yes I would.

[Slim57]

I mean, not purposefully but it would probably happen if they were around me

[imraankhan]

No , it's not fair

[Anonymous]

No but sexual tension leads to pressure. The pressure on a couple who are attracted to each other but waiting for marriage to have sex is natural. Couples back when waiting for marriage was common didn't wait for their late 20s to marry as is common now instead they married in their teens and early 20s as sexual urges would eventually win and there was no contraception. Contraception is a big part of why people dont wait for marriage to have sex.
I say if you want to ease the pressure give him a handjob, blowjob, mutual masturbation, sexy lap dance or just let him jerk off to your naked body.
A good one my first girlfriend used to do because she wanted to save herself for marriage was for me to get naked and she would too except for a tiny pair of underwear and she would grind herself up against my dick until I came and often she came, baby oil works well with this. Eventually she decided to do anal with me to stay a virgin, crazy I know but I went a long with it. The first few times she didn't like anal but when I reached around and rubbed her clit she got into it.