What do you think if a guy tells you this before sex?
The guy is no stranger to the lady as they knwo each other for 4 years. When they first met they hanged out twice and have nice dates and enjoy the times togehter but still just as friends and nothing else, even if they did make out at the end of each date, beause the guy wanted to do that and the lady just reciprocicated to his making out. The guy never wnted though to develop any formal relationship with the lady as he liked to remain single all his life and enjoy his freedom, he never liked the drama that it is involved in steady relationships with a woman so he prefer to remain single. In these two dates they never had sex though just the juicy making out I mentioned. They hanged out again 2 other times but in those 2 other times, they did had sex,. In the first one of these other 2 dates the lady lost her virginity to him. Before they had sex that day like 30 minutes before, the guy was clear to the lady and told her this: "I like us to keep doing this in the long run, just to see each other from time to time but I dont expect you to become all emotional after sex, understand?
This phrase was said just minutes before he banged her. Does it sound rude or disrespectful from him to say that just before sex, and these things are not said jsut right before sex? or itis normal a man to say those things to a lady right before sex and once the lady is alreayd in his apartment and the guy wanted to bang her? I mean the guy told her that but then he told her he will like to keep doing that in the future, just her not to get emotional even if he was atractive to her. isn't that contradictory? I mean "the guy wanted to keep banging his friend or his acquaitance that he knew for 4 years only in those 4 years they never had sex but the guy and her alwyas got along well , but then he expected her not to be emotional with him if they continue to have sex. Is that awkward or normal?
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