Is it bad for a girl to be a prude?

[Dutchgirl97]

[Anonymous]

If a girl wants to dress so she isn't showing everything off, would rather take time before jump into bed, etc?
Not a bad thing.

If she is openly hostile to people less restrained than she is?
That's bad.

If she's frigid or has a supremely low libido, or finds sex repulsive or immoral, something to be done in the dark and in shame?
I think that's bad.

But if you'd rather not wear shirts cut to slow that half your tits hang out, and don't want hook-ups and that any guy you want romance with should be willing to wait, at least a while?
Seems sensible to me.

[Dutchgirl97]

I agree being openly hostile is never a good thing. But some peoples views on sex as bad and immoral could be from sexual abuse.

[Opinion Owner]

That's true

[meesegoMoo]

In what way are you a prude? If she doesn't want to dress like a slut or have sex before marriage then I would actually prefer it.

If you were married and never allowed sex in a position other than missionary, or required that as many clothes were worn as possible, then it would be the worst outcome.

[MrNameless]

This needs context.

As long as you are not projecting it to others as if its the best life to live and looking down on others that aren't, that's fine with me.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Fuck guys who hate on prudent women. Seriously. Just because someone lives their life differently than you doesn't give you a right to act like a moron.

[Dargil]

Bad for guys who want easy sex. Good for the girl.

[Thatsamazing]

Would maybe help us for you to provide some details or context about what that's allegedly supposed to mean, from your perspective.

[Dutchgirl97]

For instance I like to dress very conservatively and find myself feeling uncomfortable just wearing a pair of shorts. I get irritated with movies or shows with a lot of graphic nudity and sex in them. (The ones where its implied and about true love doesn't bother me one bit) I also dislike when people are being sexual around eachother in front of me (talking naughty, butt spanking etc.)

[Thatsamazing]

I see. I don't know what "graphic" nudity is; either there's nudity or there isn't. How is it graphic? Anyway, how do you feel about graphic depictions of, let's say, drug use or violence? In movies or TV or whatever?

[Dutchgirl97]

I think it's sad, but doesn't bother me as much for some reason. And the reason why I put graphic sex and nudity is because that's usually what is written when the rating comes up when explaining the context of the R rating.

[Thatsamazing]

Yes but so what? What is it really supposed to mean? All it means is someone else that isn't you is trying to decide for you what is "graphic" and what isn't. That doesn't make sense, does it? Why do you think simple nudity or sexual situations bother you more than violence or drug use? Would you not logically agree that the latter things are worse?

[Dutchgirl97]

I just find myself feeling extremely uncomfortable with it. It angers me and makes me feel sick. I've felt that way since I was a very little girl.. maybe from early exposure to adult things?

[Thatsamazing]

Well there's no magical forcefield difference between "kid" vs. "adult," mind. It's not like at the stroke of midnight on you 18th birthday, all of a sudden the world and everything in it becomes this completely different place, or something. Anyway, to your initial question, is it "bad" for you to feel how you feel... no, it's not bad, I guess if I were you I would just try to self-reflect perhaps and really wonder WHY I feel the way I feel, what the substantive reasons for that are, and whether they really make sense? And whether the way you feel about sex is improving, or not, your overall life perspective?

[Dutchgirl97]

Little kid as in like 5 years old. But thanks for your perspective

[DiversityHire]

Not at all.

[prànaHen]

No Nothing wrong in it

[COMMODOREII]

Prude is defined as a person who is or claims to be easily shocked by matters relating to sex or nudity.

[ZSean]

Nope do your own thing. Others decisions shouldn't dictate yours

[najekim]

Prude also equates to being closed minded and vain.

[Dutchgirl97]

Either you are considered slutty and easy, or close minded and vain. Some people are just different with what they're comfortable with and everyone always has a negative statement on each side of the spectrum.

[najekim]

Well said!