I think most guys FANTASIZE about having sex with other women - generally porn girls or just random female images, not so much real women that he knows. Let's be real, your partner isn't always available when you're horny, and sometimes you want to masturbate and just have to worry about yourself - virtually everyone does that, even in a relationship. And that's usually accompanied by some fantasies.
BUT, I think it's the rare exception that guys fantasize about other women WHILE they're having sex with their girlfriend/wife, just to be clear, and it's also the exception that they fantasize about someone they actually know. I'm sure a few guys do that, but most don't - it would be an anonymous porn girl or something that they'll never meet.0 0 0 0i only fantasize about my boyfriend when i masturbate and i was wondering if there are guys who do the same and if so how many guys
when i watch porn i picture the two of us having sex rather than what you suggested where you say men imagine having sex with the girl in the porn- not their girlfriend or wife.
But for men, the porn girl is really just a placeholder. There's no connection. It's like going to a restaurant and you know going in that you are ordering steak. You might see a chicken dish that looks good, but you order the steak and the chicken is forgotten. Your brief chicken "infidelity" was meaningless.
This thing is not for me for now.
But yes many men who aren't much interested in their own girl and consider them as primitive, do tend to think about other girls.
It depends on how much worth you have in his eyes.
( I am sorry if these words are sharp, but that's the truth).1 0 0 0No thank you for being honest! And honestly, thats a better answer than what I was expecting. Correct me if I’m wrong but you're basically saying that if a guy is respectful and interested in their girlfriend then they don't generally think about other women in this way.
You are absolutely correct. If the guy is respectful and interested in their girlfriend then they will surely not thing about other girls like that.
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(11)Yes, men do that. It's just programmed in our genes. You can't penalize us or blame us for what we think.
0 0 0 0i understand that its natural to find other people attractive but to want to have sex with someone other than your parter for me would feel like crossing a line. of course its not my job to police those thoughts but i do have the right to leave a man if he is having them. i feel like generalizing it and saying all or most men are like this is what bothers me, and saying that they can't help it and its in their dna is what contributes to such a toxic dating culture. this is what i was afraid if hearing. it also confuses me because a lot of men on here said they do not do this yet you're saying they all do.
Fantasizing about someone in the abstract and wanting to have sex with them in the concrete are radically different things. This is a case of don't ask, don't tell. There's no harm in thoughts.
i just dont understand why a guy in a relationship with a girl he really likes would need to or want to imagine having sex with other women
Not everyone is same.
1 0 0 0Not in any meaningful way. Maybe if I saw a stunning female somewhere, I might idly think "I wonder what she's like..." and then dismiss it.
0 0 0 0Not me
1 0 0 0What do you mean by fantasizing thats a very broad verb
0 0 0 0Everyone has their own red line you shouldn’t cross while in a monogamous relationship but unless you put blinders on his eyes he is going to take notice of other women and think about them sexually and the pleasures it would bring the only difference between a cheater and a non cheater is if he acts on the impulse
i mean thinking about having sex with her
i just dont see the point of being in a monogamous relationship if you're going to think about having sex with other women anyway
I suppose its possible
0 0 0 0Just to clarify, do you suppose its possible they do think about other women or possible they don't?
Both of those are possible. To say all guys do or don't is absurd
We sure do
0 0 0 0I personally don’t
1 0 0 0Sure its quite normal it just a fantasy
0 0 0 0if a man is happy with a woman and really likes her i dont understand why he would have to think about having sex with other women though. wouldn't he be satisfied with who he is with? i just dont understand why a guy can't be happy with just his girlfriend. personally i couldnt imagine being with anyone but my boyfriend and it hurts to think he doesn't think the same
Of course we do. It’s natural male biology.
Women are programmed to be monogamous we are not.
but women fantasize about it just as much as we do. The most common female fantasy is being force fucked by a stranger.0 0 0 0- Show more from Guys (1)
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